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My name is Kim, i am 15 years old, i have two cats, 2 brothers, and live with my parents. I have long, straight brown hair and ocean blue eyes. Im about 5'7 and i am adverage size.
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hey, i read the question below and your answer said you were almost kidnapped.. do you mind sharing how? you don't have to if you don't want to though. that sound pretty scary!!!! thanks if you can!
yea, sry this is so late, i forgot i had this site..lol well yea i was just walking down the street and a car was like slowing up next to me and he was like "do you want a ride" and i said "no" and he followed me so i ran and he liked followed me for awhile and i was scared out of my mind, but i got away cuz i ran up to a neighbors house. This was really scary..lol i went home after that, i dont like to walk alone anymore..lol i suggest everyone have a group!! well your welcome i dont mind sharing it, it doesnt sound that scary but it scared the crap out of me! lol **!!Kimmy!!**
Im 13..i was rapped and i guess it put me into a totally different path. I got depression (it was a surprise to people) and then i got into a huge fight and broke this girls arm and got sent to juvey..i got out like a month ago and my parents hate me. my dad relates me to my cracked-out brother who is in jail. he thinks im nothing..im thinking about leaving.like perminatly..
well, i know that your parents are probably just getting over this shock, you know, running away from home wont solve anything..i ran away once and i will never do it again becuz i was almost kidnapped, but about your parents, you really need to sit them down and talk to them, maybe let them know that you are better then that now. If they still dont listen, try leaving them notes, or things that will let them know you are truly sorry for everything. Let them know that being rapped completely scarred you, and its not your fault that this happened. Prove that you are something to your father, let him know that he is wrong and you are something. If nothing else, do all this for yourself..hope that helps you, and i hope all this gets better, within time..things will get better..**!!Kimmy!!**
I am an advicenator and i am new so i didn't know what to do. i pushed random quesion for me to anwser and i got one about a girl and she said her friend started cutting himself and she said he might commit suicide, i told her to get an adult now! did i do the right thing, please help i am new!
Dont be worried at all, you did the right thing, it might make you feel like it was your fault if you couldnt have helped them, so its ok you did the right thing..hope that helped..**!!Kimmy!!**
I'm currently in an internet relationship with this guy in Canada (I'm in Australia) We liked each other for about a year, and only recently decided to give the relationship a shot. We had a few problems before we got together, but we worked them all out. We're meeting in a few months time. I do like him, however, there's a lot about him that bothers me. He's a REALLY extremist Catholic, and whilst i am catholic too, I'm nowhere near as religious. A lot of what he believes I respect, however disagree with. I have to act different around him, for example, I can't swear or say anything even remotely 'suggestive' Sometimes I feel like he's testing me, because he asks me questions like "did you go to mass today on sunday? Did you enjoy it?" and "How far do you think is too far?" I never feel comfortable around him and he doesn't know much about who I truly am due to this reason. He's a really innocent guy for a teenager, and whilst its good that he respects me, he's really uptight and we can never talk about things or joke around like other couples can. I realize that not everyone is into that kind of thing, but it's like we never do anything 'fun'
I tell him I love him every night but sometimes I wonder whether I truly do. I want to make this work but I have a nagging feeling telling me that this isn't right and I shouldn't be with him. What should I do? Is it normal to feel like this? Do you guys think I should still try with him?
Thanks.
well, i would say that since he is so religious and you arent, the relationship may not work out in the long run anyway. Since you guys are going to be meeting you may want to wait and see what he is like in person becuz i just think you really dont know a person until you meet them in person. With him being this way you could never be yourself, but just give it some time. See how he is to you in person and after that it may be easy for you to decide what to do..hope i helped you!
is it weird when the girl is taller than the guy in a relationship?
well, supposedly the girl is supposed to be shorter than the guy but no i dont think it is weird at all..guys have more problems with this then girls do...hope i helped~!
my boyfriend and i have been together for a year nnow, i love him so much. but my problem is i have had dreams that ive been making out[and more] with guys (that i know like me) and in my dreams i feel happy when i cheat, but when i wake up i feel horribl. anyone know what is going on?
15/f
well i cant tell you this for sure, but i think maybe your mind is just exploring other things,since you feel horrible when you wake up you should worry about it..after awhile these dreams should go away..hope i helped
please dont judge me for this iam looking 4 help not to be yelled at. i am 15 and a smoke. i want to knoe how can i quit?
well i dont smoke but my father quit smoking so maybe i can give you some advice. First of all you have to want to quit extremely bad becuz it isnt easy. They make many things for it but my dad told me that the patches you put on dont work. Dont ever have cigarettes with you or around. you cant smoke what you dont have. Im sure that people offer them to you, you need to just say no(easier said then done) Maybe hanging around with a different crowd would help. Being around people who smoke make it twice as hard. Sorry my advice isnt very good on this one but i wish you luck on quitting~!
im 16.. im in love with a guy that is 15. we went out for 4 months. but ive known him for almost 3 years now. i lost my virginity to him. one day we did it and everything was normal. the next day he calls me and says, "lets take a break, then when i think we are ready to make this a serious thing ill ask you back out." i was just like um okay? well then a couple days later i hear hes going out with some chick from his school. so hes "taking a break with me" to go out with some other chick. that really hurt me. because im in love with him. well i saw him and he didnt say anything to me. he kept like 10 feet away from me. and i was pissed off about the whole situation. then the next day i call him to talk about everything going on and he called me a b**** and i was like why are you calling me that? and he was like i heard what you said to people last night about me. i was like what did you hear? hes like you just trash-talked about me the whole night to my friends and family. and he hung up on me. so i call him back and left him a message, because he didnt answer, and i was crying and i said "the only thing i said to anyone was that i was in love with you". and that is the first time i told him how i felt about him. ive never told him i was in love with him before. and i havent heard from him since. what should i do about this whole situation and the next time i see him? and i see him quite often because my mom works for his dad. i dont know what to do PLEASE help. this may turn into suicide. he was the only thing i had.
wow, if i were in your position i would just give it a few days and see if he calls you, he might just be scared to call you. If you didnt say anything bad about him to anyone then that means you could tell him to ask anyone of the people he hangs out with if you ever said anything bad. The next time you see him just look at him, see what his expression is. I would just tell you to forget him but you are head over heels and losing your virginity to someone means alot so forgetting him isnt the answer here. I dont know how much this answer will help you but i am trying my best, i hope things work out for you
this is kinda long but its been bugging me fur a long time i have liked this guy fur two years now and before he used to hurt me alot and he used to go fur my best friend like mayn other guys and it hurts but recently he asked me to semi and i dont no if that means he likes me or not but i dont no what to do cause i dont no if i can trust him again or if he will hrut me he says hes changed and he wants to proive it by taking me but wut if he jsut wnats to take me as a friend and i fall fur him again and get hurt and i do not want this cause every relationship i have had the guy hruts me .. my friends say to hang out with him more and stuff but i have a feeling if i do ill fall fur hima nd he wont like me.. aned plus i never really get a chance to ahngo ut with him at skewl cause hes with different friends so i can onlee after skewl but my parents said i cant date guys two years older cause they onlee want one thing.. but i want to hang out with him wut should i do.. and alos wut should i do.. should i give him another chance or not cause he really hurt me or should i just move on and go fur another guy?
i am in grade 9 please help!
Well, unfortunatly most guys never change. I honestly think you should move on and try to just stay friends with him. If you want to see him more your parents might let you if they know you dont have a crush on him and you arent dating him. Hopefully this was of some help to you.
well i just lost the best girlfriend in the world ive ever had and i cant stop thinking about her and i keep having dreams about her how do i get her out of my head? PLEASE HELP!!!!!
well, maybe if you go out with your friends and hang with them you can get her off your mind. Everyone has break ups and unfortunatly we all get over them. From the sounds of it you miss her. Talking to her and becoming good friends would help. Then you could hang out.Just see where life takes you, im sure you will find your way..hope this helped!
Okay,so i have dark circles under my eye,and i think i'd be so mmuch prettier with out it.how much sleep should a 13 year old get a day? i'm trying to sleep on time,but you know how it is..=/.Besides any kind of make up to cover it (my school has bad lighting so you can see all cover up..it sucks =O)how can i get them away as fast as possible?Do YOU know any products that are to treat this? =),please,any tips are much appriciated.
p.s - i rate to 5s :D
--As truely as always,
Fighting the dark cirles
well, sometimes circles under the eyes are just a genetic family trait becuz thats why i have them. The only thing i can tell ya is that cover up will help but dont buy anything cheap(i learned the hard way) you could always go to the store and ask a worker what they would suggest..hope this helps!
uhgg... if any of you read my last ? about the whole ben thing then could you help me out with this one...
*Ok so i guess he does have feelings for this jackie girl but he doesnt know whats going on with her right now.. he still has feelings for me (so he says) but im still confused at what to do.. i am not the kind of person who can cry about things.. i dont believe it really solves anything, but This make me cry a little... i dont what what i should do about it i mean i care about him so much and its not like we go out but we do care about each other and we would go out if we could but we cant because hes older ... im not sure if i should just tell him to go ahead with the jackie girl and TRY and forget about him.. or if i shoudl just wait it out and see how things turn out... Help Me Please...!!!
still having problems with him huh? well, considering you guys arent dating maybe it would be a good idea to tell talk to him and ask him if he would ever want to get serious about you guys going out. Also you should consider the fact that he may not want to date her. unfortunatly there are always people who are better as friends. i have that problem right now. i hope things work out for you and i hope i am of some help to you!
my pet cat is in heat can somebody help me...
well keep her in the house and away from boy cats, and you should probably get her spayed! hope that helps!
i am not sure what kind of litter to get for my new cat can somebody help me...
I think that the clumping litter is the best. it doesnt smell near as bad and with brands anything like tidy cats, fresh step, all those good kinds hope that helps!
My friend is 14/f and she wants big boobs. She's not going to get plastic surgery(thats for sure) and i keep telling her everyone goes at their own pace. She doesnt even fit into an A cup. DOes anyone know how to make their boobs bigger with out surgery and stuff?I know this may be embarrasing so dont be a smart and tease. I rate 5's for any good answers tho!
i know this is going to sound odd but my friend showed me this. If you put you hands together in front of you and push together it makes those muscles work and it is supposed to help with that..hope that helps!
What are some really good love books? For young girls. That make you say like "awww!! how cute!" and it just makes you read them over and over. :) Any book will do though. Thank you . :)
Definitly The notebook, best movie i have ever seen and best book i have ever read!!
Hey everyone im new to this but you*ll find i need alotta help.lol this ones kinda long...
So One problem that im having is that im caught up on this kid, who likes me back, but is older. As in im 14 and hes almost 19... yea i know what a drag... And he keeps talking about how he hates the fact that we only get to see each other once or twice every other week. And i keep telling him it's only because we just started hangin out more and the holidays are coming buthe keeps saying that he cares about me but hes not sure if he can handle it...
Well The other day his friend andy was on his s/n acting as if he was ben.. he was saying all these things like that he wanted to have sex with me and he wanted to be my first time and trying to pressure me into doing it w/ him. Meanwhile deep down in my heart i knew it cant be ben but in the back of my mind im doubting myself... as usual...
After i practically had an axiety attack he told me it was him, andy, and not ben.
Well i think he played another one of these (not so funny) "jokes" on me again today 11*23*05 saying that him and ben were up in waverly staying with his friend jackie, which i didnt mind i understand he has friends, but then andy was saying that ben was gunna go out w/ jackie andall this n i didnt believe him n he goes your too young just deal w/ it. and then when i was talking to ben later he said it wasnt true... but then after we talked about it more he started gettin hostile with me and toldme to fuck off... at that point i wasnt sure if it was ben or andy.. then he justsigned off on me, whoever it was.
Now im so confused as to what i should do and how i should handle it... i care about ben so much, i may even love him but i just dont know.
hes never pulled ne thing like this before and he always talks about how much he cares about me and wants to see me all the time.. maybe he got tired of not being able to see me whenever he wanted to.. but im not sure... please help me ... im a 14/F bens 18/M
I can see that you love Ben. I have a 14 year old friend who is dating an 18 year old so i can see where you are coming from. In my opinion it is a very big age difference but if you love him you should just remember that it may not have been him who said all this to you. Dont jump to conclusions yet. Call him and ask him about it. If you found out it was him then maybe you should consider ditching him cuz he hurt you, if it wasnt him then just remember that in a few years you can see each other all the time. If you wait it will all pay off. Good Luck!!!
I have this friend. And we spent the whole summer together being best friends. We are both really nice and fun when we are not mean to each other. Sometimes we get in these huge fights but the next day she wants to be my friend! What do i do?!
Ill rate 5's for good answers!
Take it from me, even the greatest of friends fight, You and her sound like you are very good friends but if you fight about certain things you should try to not talk about those. Not yelling and screaming always helps calm the arguement down too, so just remember not to loose your cool and things should be alright, Hope this helps you!
Everynight for 2 weeks straight I have had this dream, can you tell me what you think it means?
My 2 friends and me are walking up a beatan path/trail in the woods and its kinda stormy, we are headed to the top of the mountain. When we get to the top of the mountain I see my ex, so I walk over there to talk to him. . Then all of a sudden out of the woods a dark evil shadow pushes him off the cliff. I look down the side of the cliff on some rocks and he is layin there blood surrounding his head. I scream, and the proceed to climb down the side of the cliff and go over to wear his body is. I put my hand under his head and blood is all over my hand. I lean over and hold him while crying and screaming while his blood is dripping all over me. I lean over again to kiss his bloody lips. I kiss him while holding him close. I wake up screaming & crying. Whats so weird is I could swore I almost taste blood in my mouth.
I think this dream is telling you that you still care deeply about your ex boyfriend and if anything were to ever happen to him you would be devastated. So keep this dream in mind when you think of him becuz i believe that inside you still care alot for him! hope this helps!
I recently babysat for one of my husband's coworkers for a few days. After seeing a few warning signs, I'm beginning to think that the children are not being taken care of and that she may be abusing them.
This woman brings the children out in freezing weather with no jackets. She drops them off with no supplies. The children don't appear to have been bathed. They have severe, untreated diaper rash which leads me to think they're not being changed like they should. I've also noticed bruises on one of the children. It could be from bumping something, but from the look of the bruises I suspect the child was hit. When I feed them, they act like they haven't been fed in a while.
I've tried talking to her, but she told me it was none of my business. I'm worried what might happen if I don't do something. Should I call social services and report my suspicions?
I believe that telling someone would be the best answer. Since you dont know for sure you should maybe tell your parents or an adult to check into it first. Of course adults dont always listen so if you have to report it to a social worker first tell them that you suspect it. even if you arent sure the children could be in danger of being hurt. I hope this helps you, good luck!