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my boyfriend and i have been together for a year nnow, i love him so much. but my problem is i have had dreams that ive been making out[and more] with guys (that i know like me) and in my dreams i feel happy when i cheat, but when i wake up i feel horribl. anyone know what is going on?
15/f
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you're sexually frustrated?
as long as you don't act on it, there's absolutely nothing to worry about.
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i htink your subconcious is letting you know that your thinking about those guys who like you. i don't think you actullay like them back, you may just be trying to let yourself know you have options.
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To dream that you are cheating on your spouse, mate, or significant other, suggests feelings of self-guilt and self-betrayal. You may have compromised your beliefs or integrity and/or wasting your energy and time on fruitless endeavors. Alternatively, it reflects the intensity of your sexual passion and exploring areas of your sexuality. It is a reaffirmation of your commitment.
I also read that if you have a dream with another person in it that's not your spouse, not to worry, they don't mean anything in the dream.
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You are afraid of losing him. You are afraidf that if you do something that you will regret you will lose him forever. Sometimes when you think about other guys it means that you wish that the relationship was like it used to be. The best thing is to take a break and calm down. If you take your mid off of it for awile you will be able to get back on track. I think that these relationships in your dreams make you happy b/c it was the relationship you had in the beginning with him but when you wake up you fgeel awful because you think of it as just cheating.
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Maybe your having these dreams is cause you want to experience new things.
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You're probably just enjoying the attention that the other guys give you. Most likely, they are on your mind a lot because having somebody like you can actually be a stressful thing. Also, subconciously you are wondering what it would be like to date another guy. A year is a long time to be dating somebody when you're fifteen, so your mind is thinking about change. I'm not saying you should break up with your boyfriend though, not at all! I'm saying it's more...human nature..for you to dream about other guys that like you if you've been going out with the same guy for a year. It's the guilt you feel when you wake up that's important, because that shows that you truly want to be with your boyfriend!
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well i cant tell you this for sure, but i think maybe your mind is just exploring other things,since you feel horrible when you wake up you should worry about it..after awhile these dreams should go away..hope i helped
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