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well i just lost the best girlfriend in the world ive ever had and i cant stop thinking about her and i keep having dreams about her how do i get her out of my head? PLEASE HELP!!!!!
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awww ... hunny !! well try finding some other gurl and you will get over her dont worry !!
♥ Samra
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Well it depends on how you two broke up. If you two had a fight, then just simply IM her or call her or something and talk to her about it and fix the problem and see if you two can get back together. But if not, then to try and get her out of your head, do not keep any contact with her. Don't visit her don't try and conversate with her..if she does come up to you and talks to you, don't make it a huge conversation. Make it simple and short and then say something like," Well I have to go.. bye." And simply leave. And try to preoccupy yourself with a hobby. Maybe even try finding a new hobby. Play some video games, listen to new songs ( songs always get stuck in my head for like, weeks and I they're all I can think about ), play basketball or some type of sport.. hang with your friends.. theres millions of things you can do. I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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what you have to do is talk to her about how your relationship ended. if it was bad this is really usual. if you agreed on it then thats wierd. what else you need to do is hang out with other ppl that can help you get ur mind off her. maybe start a new relationship with a new grl adn see how it goes.
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awe.
try to move on hun.
and find a new girlfreind.
get to know her really well and yeah.
awe.
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Theres only two things that you need to NOT do while you're getting over this girl.
1. Do not call her, or speak to her AT ALL.
2. Do not go see her or visit her.
If she calls you or e-mails you, you need to say that you're busy and stop talking to her. If she comes up to talk to you, tell her you are doing fine and keep the conversations shortened. The more you hang out with this girl or have a lot of interaction with her, the harder it will be to start moving on. If you aren't doing any of these things, then you're doing great so far even if you feel like you've gotten nowhere. Each day that you go without talking to her or anything, thats a tiny step closer to moving on. So everyday, you get over her little by little. Also, stop telling yourself that she was the best girlfriend in the world. I know you strongly liked her, but the more you say it or think about it, you'll keep feeling like you aren't good enough for anyone else. There are tons of other girls you'll be meeting later on. There are lots of other girls that are meant for you, it's not just this girl that you're upset about. Know that this is her loss, she may realize later who she got rid of, who knows, but don't expect that to happen. Expect yourself to move on to new girls and not go backwards to her.
-TheTeenGirl
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well, maybe if you go out with your friends and hang with them you can get her off your mind. Everyone has break ups and unfortunatly we all get over them. From the sounds of it you miss her. Talking to her and becoming good friends would help. Then you could hang out.Just see where life takes you, im sure you will find your way..hope this helped!
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Well it depends on how you two broke up. If you broke up with her, tell her you still love her and want to be together again. If she broke up with you, she wouldn't want you to bother her too much about it. Talk to her about how you feel, and see what she says.
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