hey... im a person that most ppl can get along with. i always have a positive attitude. and i love to give advice. i lived in reno nevada and then moved to Montana when i was 12. i like to feel that ppl can talk to me about anything. i like to be a reliable person. so if you have ANYTHING to ask me just go ahead and test my skills. ill give it my best.if you have a question about something just ask me i have been through a lot of things from guys to family. thats how we do up here in Montana baby.i'm pretty easy going and generally know how to chill out during extreme times lol so if you need advice hit me up ♥
E-mail: blondpie08@yahoo.com
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My boyfriend and i have not been dating for a very long time only about 2 months. i am not sure how to tell or not but i think he might be cheating on me. I know he talks to other girls and texts and calls them and stuff but i am fine with that i am not the jelious type. but sometimes i will be holding his phone and i will just pretend to read his texts and he will freak out! i want to find out what he is hiding on his phone. i am not trying ot be nosey but him freaking out like he does makes me nervious... Any advice about either what to say to him or how to find out if he is or not? (link)
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try acting like your looking at them again and wehn he freaks out just be like why do you do that and if he has nothing to hide he'll show you. if he dont then start questioning him
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I'll start with the basics, 18 year old female with boyfriend. 2 nights ago my friend Eddy texted me. He was asking me for pictures of myself and i told him no because i have a boyfriend. he said he respected that. well, eddy knows that my boyfriend likes me more than i like him. it said that somewhere in the text messages. Well, last night i asked my boyfriend to hold my phone while a friend and i used the restroom. I assumed he wouldn't go through my phone just because i thought he trusted me. well i guess not because he went through it. he doesn't know that i found out he did this but the person with him told my friend, who told me. My question is, should i confront him about this? I have nothing to hide because i didn't send eddy pictures. (link)
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always remember... guys assume far worse when left in the dark. tell him straight up... dude look i know you checked my phone out. adn i want you to know that that message didtn mean anything. and explain to him the way you feel and everything ok that usually is a start.. it will be hard to confront him but remember my life's motto always stick it out. but dont be afraid to get it cut off. ok adn go by it
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We don't have nay idea what to name our band. We're all very different individuals who can't seem to agree on anything but we are all together in this rock band. We play indie rock music. Any ideas for a band name or suggestions on how to come up with one? (please dont suggest googling band name generators) (link)
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well it depends if your chicks... i would say beauty in the graveyard... if your guys.... i would say hustling mentors or mystic graves... those are all names me and my friends considered for my bf's band
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Okay im in sophmore year of highschool and right now I have mostly d's in my school work. Last year I didn't do too great, i got by on mostly c's, and im on my final quater(?) in the year. My mom yells at me every night that i won't go to college on these grades, even if i get all a's next year and senior year. Is this true? I don't think it can be because I know people who went to harvard even though they had f's for quiet a while. But can anybody assure me?
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as long as you get your homework done... study for even 10 to 15 minutes a night or so you can bring your grades up. your junior and senior year are what colleges really depend on... study hard for your sat's and getting info on colleges now. trust me... it seems pointless... but my bff waited till after she graduated and had 10 times the trouble getting into colleges she wanted. i however started my research and such back in my sophmore year. i knew all the info i needed.. knowing the info for the colleges you want to apply for will help a lot
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ok so i babysit for this 10 month old and i have been since he was about 6 months old.. and latley ive just been having these weird feelings like i want a baby of my own.. like i look at baby clothes and stuff online and i dont know why im feeling like this i think im way to young im only 16.. but i just want to know why im having these feelings? like there really strong to. (link)
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i was always the girl when i was younger that was like ill never have kids... im almost 18 now and i got pregnant at the age of 16. the baby would have been born just after my 17 birthday. i was with jon... my ex and the babies daddy... for 3 years. i had an abortion because i have a heart deffect and couldnt have a baby with my heart. i was relieved when i knew i couldnt have a baby, but so bummed. now everyday i see a baby i want one. but im happy that it went the way it did. me and jon broke up just recently adn the baby wouldnt have had wat it deserved. your too young to have a baby because the baby wouldnt have a steady father figure chances are and its unhealty for you. these feelings are very common. its in a womans blood to have those motherly feelings. just think of it this way... babysitting a baby that age you can see it grow and be with it as often as you wish basically but when you get tired of it... you can always give it back to its parents. to have a child is a life long commitment. can you imagine having another life in your hands from today till the day you die... if you ask me it seems far too complicated... just stay strong with these urges adn remember.... your only young once.. live it up
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Im really starting to like this kid, Mike..hes HOT, funny, soo nice and just ah perfect...except for the fact that i dont even know him that well (were still at that flirting kinda stage) and i talk to him on the phone a lot. but sometimes he'll say wicked gross things like "I just farted" or "I have to poop Ill call youu back" and it creeps me out...what do i say?? I like him, but everytime he acts like that it makes me not like him. I know I sound shallow, but itd be different if he was my boyfriend..its just weird when I dont know him that well.. (link)
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well, i think that you should smoothly laugh, like its kinda funny and then be like hey dude thats kinda gross, i dont wanna hear that while still laughing. sounds crazy but it worked for me with my gross ex. and with all my guy friends. now they say excuse me cause they know im classy and have manners.
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k so me and my boyfriend have been dating a while k so a really long while. and just recently we have started arguing and it's like everyday. and i really love him. but i dont know what to do. because i am tired of arguing but not tired of him. and i dont want to lose him. because he means so much to me. but we argue over the tinniest stuff. it is soo stupid. sorry if i am going on and on. and sorry if its a stupid question i would just like somebody else's opinion. k thanks. :) (link)
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ok me and my bf have been off and on for the past year. mostly on. he has cheated on me and done everything possible to hurt me, and visa versa. so to get over little arguments, is say you know what, i dont want to argue with you. i love you and am sick of always fighting. obviously we don't agree but that don't have to be a bad thing. its whateve. im sorry if that don't help if you need anymore help. just ask merree. i would love to see how it works.
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my bf has a problem with drugs, he does them a lot. even though he is on probation and everything. i don't mean only pot but meth and shit. i love him and dont want to walk out on him when he needs me the most. i know i can help him stop, but im worried he wont. i just dont know how much longer i can live with it. when he was on drugs before he cheated on me alot adn did illegle shit all the time. im worried for our future and relationship. ps we have a baby on the way (link)
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goddamnit mary! i kno you love him but he aint good for you! u need to give me a call sam has my number...i love you!!!! _KP
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im 15 and if i went to planned parenthood to get birth control would i have to pay for it? also, since you have to get that pelvic exam too does that cost anything? and could i just walk in or do i need an appointment? oh yeah, lol could i have my boyfriend come in the room with me or should i have him stay in the car? (link)
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you sometimes have to make payments. yes you need an appointment. and your bf shouldn't go into the room persay, but if your having sex he should make an appointment to get a std test you too though. man your 15, your a baby, but don't worry, its ok, just promise to use extra protection. never go into war with out a helmet. lol later hope i helped.
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i have a friend thats really skinny shes 5'3" and 70 lbs is she anorexic? im worried about her (link)
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well it all depends, does she make statements about her weight, does she wear big clothes, does she weigh herself constantly, does she eat in front of you ever, does she ever goe to the bathroom directly after eating? you see, she may be anorexic or even belimic. all depends, if any of these signs arouse, go to her family and close friends, together come up with a brilliant idea, that hopefully won't piss her off. then if she needs it, she MUST go to a treatment center. trust me they aren't as bad as everyone says. they can really help her in there. but also by chance she could just have a high metabolism, i do... i'm 5'3" and barely 90. but by the sounds of it, i would be worried.
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OK! This is going to be pretty long. I'm a 16 female, and i've been dating this Guy, Logan, for a year and a half. Well, after one month of me and him dating this one Guy, William, kissed me. I of course told William NO, and stopped him, but I had to tell Logan. So I did. And he was mad at me for awhile, but he was over it a month later. Me and Logan fell SOOOO much in love. He came to see me everyday after work, he always said I was beautiful, he was so protective of me, and he ignored his friends if he got the chance to see me. Best of all, he was my very first at sex, and he stayed with me, it didn't change him at all, he was always there for me. But, one day, my mom found out, and kinda went Kookoo, and told me I could never see him again. Well, after that we just sorta fell even more in love with each other. We spent every second trying to be with each other. And then my mom brought that William guy back. She told me if I didn't hold Williams hand than I couldn't call Logan. We went to Missouri on a trip, and she brought him with us, and made us sleep in the same room. And I was always telling William to leave me alone, and not to talk to me, but Logan was always yelling at me and telling me I was cheating on him. And one day, I just kinda snapped, and I felt like Logan would hate me soon because I couldn't prove that there was nothing going on. And then William started trying to comfort me, and he really did make me feel good. He promised to leave me alone, and just be my friend, which is all I wanted. But then, William kissed me again, and Logan found out because of my sister. And after 2 kisses, i'm sure it's hard to believe there is nothing going on. But, Logan broke up with me...So I did the unthinkable, I went out with William. William left for the marines a day later, and couldn't get anything from family or friends for 2 weeks. Logan asked me out the night William left, saying he made a mistake. I HAD to be with Logan. He's the only thing that makes me happy. But, if I dated Logan now, i'd be dating 2 guys at once, which is absolutely not my thing. So I said yes to Logan, and sent William a really harsh break up letter, but it didn't get to him very soon. But, then I figured everything would be ok. William off to the marines, me and Logan here together, everything could work out. I couldn't be accused anymore. And everything was going fine for like another 7 months, until a week ago. Logan said he can't forgive me for cheating on him. And I don't know what to say to get him back. He's the love of my life, and I know i've accidently hurt him, i've hurt him so bad because he thinks I lied all those times. I just want the man who loves me back. I don't want to be accused anymore. I don't want to fight. I want him to come see me everyday again. I want him to tease me, and smile. I want to make him happy, but I want me to be the one to make him happy, no one else. Please help, I love this man so much. (link)
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man, you have no idea... i had the exact same thing happen. unlike you me adn my bf are still together, he didn't pull that dumb crap 7 months later. i'm so sorry. waht i said to my baby is, "jon, i love you. no one else. you make me happy and i thought i made you happy. please give me the chance to prove to you what i am saying. i know i can" and he did. maybe change it up a bit though. go to logan and say, logan i love you adn you said you loved me. love equals trust. i swear on everything i am that nothing on my end was wanting those kisses. if i had wanted to be with him, i wouldnt be here now telling you all of this. its all about you, please show me you still care and give me the chance to show you how much you mean to me. if he doesn't stay away, give him the looks you used to, adn keep to yourself when it comes to relationships. by that i mean, simply make him want you by showign you don't want anyone else. and for the record that was fuc** up what your mom did.
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im 16/f. my boyfriend is experienced and has had sex before and i am still a virgin. he fingered me the other day and when he put 2 fingers in it really hurt me. We're planning on having sex like within the next few days. Will it really really hurt beacuse it hurt me so much with just 2 fingers? thanks (link)
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well if you haven't had sex yet, yes i remember my first time was with the guy i've been with for 4 years. im 16. we didn't have sex till this year. and it sucked. he was considered huge, 9". which is very large. he even was nice and gentle, but yeah babe it sucks. thats why if you do it, make sure its with someone you trust and care about
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14/m i'm not to confident around girls and i havent had a girlfriend or asked a girl out before because of it and there is no girls at my school that are single and well does anyone have ideas on geting more confident? and where should i go to ask girls out? (link)
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When you say that your not confident around girls, you need to realize, girls are like guys. Many of us do the same things you do. High self esteem shows a girl you care about yourself, which is important. Find a girl that has similar likes and dislikes. If you find a girl like that, simply ask her to go to a movie or something with you, if she says no, move on, your still young and love will find its way to you. It always does. Show you have confidence, and soon girls will flock to you. Be yourself around girls the way you are with your friends. I'm sorry if this don't help, but I hope everythng goes for the best :p
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im in a group home and its an all girls one. im straight but i really am starting to like the girls. if you know what i mean. i wanna touch them all over. i have a bf, but i want one of the girls to join in with me and him. i think that would be fun. so now am i gay? (link)
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hey there my sexy love.....you kno who this is cause i helped youask this question....but yeah i wanna kno what happend to you when you got out so hit me back
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ok theres this really hott guy. i know him through my cousin. hes soo sweet and we talk on aim all the time. he always ims me the second i sign on and he always says "heyyyyyy" and i'll be like whats up and he'll say im thinking about you. he always calls me babe and hun and hes a really good kid. we talk about all kinds of stuff and he was talking about his new car and how he could drive me around in it. do you think he likes me? oh yeah one problem though, hes 5 years older then me but if we were together we wouldnt do anything sexual so it wouldn't be aggainst the law. but what do i do, should i date him or is that too much of an age difference?? im 14 hes 19. (link)
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ok to be honest you should stay friends. an age difference like that can be one huge mess in the end. he is a legal adult. i guarantee that he has been in sexual relationships and im sure you haven't. a guy once they get into a relationship with sex, its normal for them to expect it with all. i know. my bf is 18 and im 16. we'v been dating for 3 years. adn i love him. he was my first adn visa versa. the one thing that made it easier. ive dated a guy when i was 13 right before jon, my bf, adn he was 17. he had sex with his ex adn wanted it from me. i wasnt ready. you aren't either. too many girls go with guys too old and give themselves up when they usually dont want to. however. i know you like this guy adn it sounds as if he likes you too. you need to be upfront, ask him on a date adn see. if no, understand adn move on. if yes, awesome. during the date mention your relationship boundaries. if he likes you he will respect you also. so dont you worry. time will tell i hope i helped
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OK well my friends bf's birthday was like two days ago and she doesn't know what to go him.
He is "gangsta" and she was thinking cologn but she can't find him any.
Does anyone have any good birthday present ideas? (link)
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somehting that i got my bf was abercrombie fierce cologne. its pretty boy kind of stuff, but really good smelling. its almost so good taht its a present to hersefl too if he wears it
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Everytime I makeout with my boyfriend I try to go further, so I start with kissing his neck. Everytime I do this he is like "Wow you really like my neck" and then just starts making out with me. Why doesn't he get what I'm tryint to do? What does he mean when hes is like "Wow you really like my neck?" (link)
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well i guess it all depends on your age adn if your still virgins. but it sounds like he is into you just not wanting to yet be sexual. maybe he does. best bet, find out for sure by asking him. embarassing but works. me and my bf decided that if you can't talk about it comfortably then your not ready. me and him talked for a while about if we had sex how our relationship would be. and that it wasnt a thing that would happen everyday. once you get this all outta the way hell get it. and hell talk to you and inform you of how he feels. as for the "Wow you really like my neck?"
thing, maybe he likes it. maybe its his turn on spot. again ask him adn youll more than likely to find out. hope i helped hun
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i am 13/f and i like guy he is 16 he is my neighbor and we do almost everything together football basketball swim soccer its awsome we are like best friend and well he has a great personality and is really hot lol but i like him a lot and if i telll him then it mite screw up our friendship or we could just stay best friends i need some advice please i rate really high!!! (link)
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a good thing to do, is get a lil more flirty than you are currently. if he is 16. im sure he knows what flirting is. and he'll get it. if he goes with it, go for it. but dont be suprised if you see him with another girl. hope i helped.
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what can you do to reduce gas without medication? (link)
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just recognize the foods that make you this way. and try to stay away from them. if its foods that are mainly dairy, you may be lactostandtolerant. see a family dotor to find out other ideas. i hope i helped. *~hotrod
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Okay well as we all know Valentines day is next Tuesday..
I want to get my boyfriend something obviously but i don`t know what to get the boy i mean serioulsy i don`t want to get him a stuff animal cuz he don`t seem to like those,Candy he won`t eat and cards his grandpa reads then makes fun of him..
Also colonge won`t work cuz i just recently bought him some.. So if you have some idea on what to get i`d be happy to rate you.. ♥Dez (link)
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well. you drive a hard bargain. but i know exactly what you mean. maybe get him a hat that he would like and a cool chain. i spent 300$ on a chain for my bf of 3 yrs. and it broke a yr later. so i wouldnt spend much on one. i also imagine it depends on how much you care about him and visa versa. and how long you two have been together. i sure hope i helped. ♥
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