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Cheating?
My boyfriend and i have not been dating for a very long time only about 2 months. i am not sure how to tell or not but i think he might be cheating on me. I know he talks to other girls and texts and calls them and stuff but i am fine with that i am not the jelious type. but sometimes i will be holding his phone and i will just pretend to read his texts and he will freak out! i want to find out what he is hiding on his phone. i am not trying ot be nosey but him freaking out like he does makes me nervious... Any advice about either what to say to him or how to find out if he is or not?
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try acting like your looking at them again and wehn he freaks out just be like why do you do that and if he has nothing to hide he'll show you. if he dont then start questioning him
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You won't know for sure unless you catch him or find some definite proof, so yeah, don't point fingers unless you know for sure, otherwise, like most men, he will get angry and begin to act more immature.
Instead of accusing him (which always works out badly); ask him upfront in a very neutral tone, (psst..if this applies to you..men are the most honest right after sex).
Right after you mention it by saying something like, "I love you so much!, you wouldn't ever cheat on me would you?" *eyelash flutter*; RIGHT THEN is the time be eagle keen, watch his reactions closely. If you have said it in a very non-accusing way, but he gets really offended and starts getting upset/mad..then he chances are REALLY high that he is.
"Thou dost protest too much.."
Like someone else said, if you think they are, they probably are. Fact is, a woman's instinct isn't given as much credit as it should be given!!
Hope everything works out for the best,
Jasmine
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be upfront about it, but maybe get a little more evidence before confrontation. you don't want to sound overprotective or stupid. :] . don't be too nosey because if he isn't cheating that could ruin the relationship. flinching when someone takes your phone could be the effect of many different things. cheating is only one of the many. but if it really concerns you tell him.
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haha. i do that with my phone, too. my bf grabs it and i freak out and delete all my texts. phones are supposed to be private. the only reason i dont want him seeing my phone is because i talk about him a lot and i've mentioned a few things...not bad things. just sexual stuff that i dont want him to see because i wanna save the embarrassment.
that may be your bf's case, but unlike girls, boys dont hide that stuff.
idk. just talk to him. tell him you have a theory and you dont want him to get mad you just wanna ask a question. just tell him what you think, and listen to what he has to say.
8 times out of 10, when you think your bf is cheating on you? you're just being paranoid.
and i hope thats your case.
but yeah, i hope it all works out for you. :)
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