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trust issue..
I'll start with the basics, 18 year old female with boyfriend. 2 nights ago my friend Eddy texted me. He was asking me for pictures of myself and i told him no because i have a boyfriend. he said he respected that. well, eddy knows that my boyfriend likes me more than i like him. it said that somewhere in the text messages. Well, last night i asked my boyfriend to hold my phone while a friend and i used the restroom. I assumed he wouldn't go through my phone just because i thought he trusted me. well i guess not because he went through it. he doesn't know that i found out he did this but the person with him told my friend, who told me. My question is, should i confront him about this? I have nothing to hide because i didn't send eddy pictures.
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Well you have nothing to hide, so you shouldn't feel guilty of anyhting, but just ask him nicely why he was going through your phone. Start by saying something like, "I know you where looking through my phone the other day, and i was just wondering why?" He may only have been looking at music on your phone, or pictures you have, not your texts. Just ask him and if he says something like "I just wondered if you had any cool tracks" Then you know he does trust you. :D Me & my boyfriend do that all the time, we don't even have to ask :D Hope this helps :D
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always remember... guys assume far worse when left in the dark. tell him straight up... dude look i know you checked my phone out. adn i want you to know that that message didtn mean anything. and explain to him the way you feel and everything ok that usually is a start.. it will be hard to confront him but remember my life's motto always stick it out. but dont be afraid to get it cut off. ok adn go by it
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i think you should confront him. he should never have looked through your phone. but you do have to think about how he must be feeling. i know if he loves you the way you said then he might be a little hurt by this. dont go all crazy when you ask him about it. speak calmly and analize the problem before you say things you dont want to say.
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You have to look at it both ways , Im pretty sure he might feel hurt because it said " He likes you more than you like him " . A relationship is suppose to be 50/50 , not 75/25. If you do confront him, ask him why he did it because yall were in a trusting relationship and you were being faithful and told him you had a boyfriend , Just talk about it & get his opinion too .
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Well yeh maybe you should you've got nothing to hide your're being faithful to him just say i know you went through my phone and just ask him don't you trust me ? or whatever you want to ask or maybe he just went through it because he had nothing else to do and i'm sure he would've confronted you if he didn't like something and maybe he didn't go through the messages ? i reckon you should confront him.
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