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I honestly dont know how to move on, cause i still dream about her and i cant stop thinking about her, what am i supposed to do? (link)
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I know this answer is going to suck to you , but it's the truth . The only thing that will help get over her is time . The best way to try and help is to keep your self occupied. Your always [ sometimes ] going to see she's crossing your mind . I don't know how lnog y'all dated or how serious it was . But time heals all wounds .
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Alright. So. My Bestfriend, Hali, shes been threw a lot of crap in her life. Summer of 07, she lost her cousin. She died from a cyst on her brain. Well 8 months later, her sister died in a car crash. Well during these times, her boyfriend then was cheating on her. And when she told him to go to a family funeral thing for her sister, he didn't go. He was out cheating on her. Well she finally got over him, and started to date a new guy. I liked him at first, he seemed like he really wanted to date her, so I helped get them together. Well it took them a loong time to finally get together. But when they were "talking" he was talking to other girls, but I was like well oh well, bc they aren't dating so its nothing. Well I just found out that he has already cheated on her with his ex. And before Hali and him started to date, he hung out with my other best friend. Well saturday, we all were sled riding, and he came, and I was like I know he lied to Hali. So I texted her and told her that she better find out where he is, and she asked why and I told her he's been here and that they all are about to get into the hot tub. And shes like I don't care that hes sled riding but why would he lie to me?
When I got to Sandy's house she told me that Martin has been texting her, and that he likes her. He's been calling her "boo" and "hun" and all this crap. Well after I left, they were in the hot tub and I guess he tried to finger her. She got up and moved, bc she too is friends with Hali, but not close like me and Hali. I guess Martin told Sandy that "Hali broke up with me" But the next day Hali and Martin were together at my other friends house.
So I really don't know what to do. I don't want to be trade Sandy and tell Hali. But I hate that this is going on and Hali doesn't know. Like I'm really weird when it comes to Hali, because I know that she has been threw soo much in her short 16 years, and I can't stand knowing this and not telling her. But Sandy is on of my best friends, and I don't want Hali mad at her, and have Sandy mad at me bc I told Hali. HELP!!! (link)
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You need to tell , Say Sandy was going behind your back , and Hali knew ... Would'nt you want to know ? You might lose a friend but hey , you gotta do the time if your gonna do the crime ya know ? Sandy messed up and she has to learn from it . Please tell her , your friend deserves to know .
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So I don't obsess over being popular and everything, but I've begun to realize that I don't really have a social life.... Like I have sleepovers and go to the mall, but really only with my best friend. I do have a lot of friends, but we never hang out. I was on Facebook awhile ago and I was looking at this really popular girl's pictures, and a lot of pictures were of her at house parties and big sleepover parties. I realized the last time I went to a party was... well I think a birthday party when I was 12. That's really sad. So I'm not saying I want to be all popular and have tons of parties, but I would like to be with more friends and everything instead of sitting at home playing on the computer. Help please? (link)
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Your going to have to break out of your shell . Talk to everyone , ask people what they are doing on the weekend and stuff like that . Being so called " un " popular can sometimes be a good thing . Alot of " well known " people are always getting in to drama . but always stay true to yourself .
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Hello. I am a teenage chick whos 17 years old from the USA. So I've liked this guy for um about 3 years now and I know that he doesn't like me back and I don't think he ever will. He keeps calling me, IMing me and talking to me so its like really hard to get over him. And the worst part about it is that whenever I feel down about that, he always wants to come and talk to me and he wants to know if I can talk to him about it. Obviously I can't!!!! So its like confusiing becaus eit seems like I'll never get over him and my crush is going into a neverending loop! Do I really love him or is this just a 3 year phase? I like him because hes the only guy who actually listens to me, the only guy who actually talks to me, and hes a really awesome person who is completly unique and gorgeous and... everything. My dad says that we should get together. That made me feel even worse! lol. See my dilima? HOW DO I END THIS CYCLE???? (link)
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I know you will probley think Im crazy for telling you this , but you have to tell him what you are feeling like and ask him to please not talk to you. My first love broke up with me after a year & 3 months ... The worst thing I ever did was talk to him , it's just a reminder of what you DONT have and it hurt's even worst knowing you like someone who doesn't want you back. Guy's work in [ very ] WiERD ways , If they [ know ] your waiting on them .. They will KEEP you waiting , Trust me
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ok well i know this guy and we used to go out and i really loved him but now we are "just friends" but like we were really good friends 4 a while and now he is ignoring me and i still love him. we still talk sometimes but now i have a diffrent boyfriend but he doesnt know that i still love colby he think s we are just friedns too but i fell bad 4 my boyfriend cuz i dont really love him. but i dont wannna lose him either what the hell do i do?? (link)
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The best thing you can do for your current boyfriend , is to be honest. I know your probley like " are you crazy " , but if your boyfriend care's about you like you make it seem then he should understand . I know it's not what he'll want to hear , his girlfriend in love with another boy but you have to tell him. Wouldn't you want him to be honest with you , tell him it's just going to take time but you have no intentions on getting back together with him , if you don't .... Just be honest . Hope I helped :)
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okay on the right side of my vagina like not even on the lower part of it like on the bikini like above the 'crack' but to the right when i push down on it, it hurts really bad. Then i can feel like a bump in it and i know its not the bone but like the bump like moves around when i touch it and i can move it around. Whats wrong?
I'm only 14/f
virgin.
got my first period in october 2006 (link)
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I do believe I get what you are saying , I have had them to. I think it is an ingrown hair , pop it as nasty as it seems .
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one day at the park my boyfriend met this girl named jen. jen thought that my boyfriend had everything a girl could wish or so she started chasing after him and tempting him. Like she took pictures of her naked body on his phone, she kissed him in spin the bottle, she wore her booty shorts when she saw him. and when any of these things happened he didnt seem to mind. and he never understands how i feel about her. so yesterday me and my boyfriend were talking and we were talking about how i cheated on him and then he jumped off a building to kill himself. and he told me that he wished his friend never told me about what he did so that way he could have left me with my lover and when he met jen he could have dated her. i was very mad at him. so now he's going to florida for two weeks with his friends and jen and im afriad he will have sex with her. i want to have a serious talk with him sometime before he leaves what do i say to him? and if he does have sex with jen during florida how do i deal with that besides breaking up with him? (link)
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ok im going to be very blunt . You should have broke up with him along time ago. Why would you stay with someone if they had sex with someone else , thats just not having ANY respect at all for your self . Get it together !
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I have the worst problems with shaving. Everytime I shave no matter how careful I am, I always get red bumps where I have just shaven. It is so gross especially under my arms because then I can't wear tank tops or anything. I have tried different kinds of razors and I am constantly putting new blades on, but nothing is working. PLease help! (link)
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Its the razor . The best razor to use is " venus " .
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i've been in cheer for about a year and i have always been a back base in stunting. this year i want to learn side basing. i am doing main base actually. i've done it a few times so i know how to do it, but its still a little difficult. i know how to use my arms and legs and NOT my back, but its still hard. when i have to base liberties, and all the weight is on me, and i have to go from the ground all the way up, it kills my back! i use my legs and arms as much as i can but no matter what i always am sore when i get home. i do back stretches and strengthening, but until that starts working, any advice for while i'm stunting? i already have bad back problems in my family, and this will make it worse for me when im older! THANKS FOR READING AND ANY ADVICE IS VERY APPRECIATED! and im 15 =] (link)
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Im a Cheerleader to girl ! Been sence i was 4 . I do competitve cheerleading & im main base :)
You really have to keep your back [ STRAiGHT ] . If you bend your back , even the slightest bendind can hurt , Thats where your legs come in & you have to use them for that EXTRA support . So make sure you Use your legs & lock your arms & keep your back straight
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i know an abortion is wrong, but there is so much going on in life right now that it is impossible for me to bring a baby into this so i need to get an abortion. im scared tho.
if your only 17, do you have to have have a parent with you or parent permission in order for them to do it? about how much do they cost? i dont know if the state you live in matters about prices but i live in georgia.
what exactly do they do in the procces, how long does it normally take for them to do it? and when you go in for the abortion, when their done giving it to you, do you loose the baby right away? what are the after effects of it, like does it make you sick for a couple of days or does it make you bleed or hurt when you pee or anything? sorry its so many questions but i am really scared and need to know everything possible before i go do it!! (link)
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Not you make you feel any worst about KILLING a breathing thing , But when you get older & decide you want kids , You will LIVE your like [ always ] thinking about what that baby would be like today . I would think about it , it will be worth it when you actually have it . Dont kill a gift from god .
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So I have been dating this guy for 10 months now, and he will be leaving in Sept for school overseas, the thing is... I know I'm going to be So hurt and in tears almost everday for about a month... I don't want to be like that!! I want to be able to end the relationship with a smile, don't go on any rebounds and just be happy that I was with someone SO great and NOT cry and break-down, you know?! I want this because we BOTH know when he has to leav, and so it shouldn't be so tough, right?! So any advice would REALLY help!! :P Please... Thanks!! (link)
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Its going to be hard no matter what you do. No one can turn their feelings off , no matter how hard we try. Oviously you and him care about each other to be with each other for 10 months. It will definatly be hard for a while because your use to being around him spending time with each other & also being able to speak to each other whenever you and him Wanted. The best thing to do is when he leave , keep yourself busy .
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ok the thing is a friend of mine might be bi. but the thing is, would she act any different if she is? i mean i havent known her for long, and i dont know if she acted differently b4. but a friend of hers and mine as well(she known her 3 years ago) told me she acted different this year. im worried, does it make a difference if a persons not straight? one of my friends told me she had a bi friend and dat she isnt different. well the thing is i dont noe any bi or gay or lesbian people so i dont know. i need advice! please! thank you. (link)
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Actually , No . Some people act totally the same. I have a gay friend & she acts just like any other girl .
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so today at my school vvas senior skip day.. and my boyfriend stayed home. im only a freshman so i vvent to school.. i called him after school and he told me he vvas planning on going camping tonight vvith his vvhole senior class. this vvorries me because i knovv hovv he gets vvhen he is drunk & there vvill be alot of drunk girls there.. & its about an hour avvay from vvhere vve live. im not so sure if i can trust him yet.. i dont vvant to tell him that he cant go but i also dont vvant him to go.. vvhatttt shoulld i do? anythinggg vvoullddd be helpful =]]
thank youuu. (link)
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Honestly , There really is not anything you can do. Boy's will do as they please weather we like it or not . You have to think , he probley wont worry about you tonight , He is a SENOR & i dont think senors will worry about other people because that will only stop his fun . I hope he doesnt cheat but its hard to trust a guy when they are older
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i want to loose 10 pounds as fast as i possibly can im not big and i know my body is capable of loosing it, mainly in my thights and butt... any help would be great thanks (link)
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Best excerise for thighs & butt are SQUATS .
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It's summer.
I have about 2 months to lose as much weight as I can.
But I'm only 13 so I have absolutly NO idea how to.
I'll take any advice that I can get, but pleaseee help.
I'll adore you forever if you help me :DDD
kthnx (link)
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As young as you are , its very simple. Younge people can lose weight very easily . You just gotta stay active & cut [ some ] of the sweets out , not all of it just dont abuse it . Sence its getting hotter you should drink plenty of water . Playing burns more calories than you think.
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This will be my first single summer in two years and to be honest, I dont remember how to act when around new guys. I really want to meet guys during break because to be honest, the guys at my school are real big jerks/never hangout with anyone but their close girl friends and summer is a chance to meet new people. How should I approach a guy I think is cute/where are good places to go? I feel like such a dork asking this since I'm 16 and should know this stuff by now, but I've really missed out since I haven't been single for so long. And what are some good tips on making a good impression? Ps. I'm not trying to meet someone for boyfriend material maybe just a hookup buddie because I really can't deal with another relationship for awhile, if that changes anything. 16/f (link)
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Beaches are real good , everyone knows that. Hot guys wit there shirt off you can def. Find someone who will catch your eye. The best way to go up to a guy is by smiling. Guys love it when girls come up and start talking first .
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me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years and i love her sooo much you know it wasn't that first sight love it was that first kiss that made my world change just that first kiss and all of a sudden she doesn't love me for no reason after she has done everything bad to me and all i have done is love her, her friends hate me and put things in her head all the time, i just want to take her and leave and be alone and happy forever just the 2 of us and just start a new life i love her and i dont know what to do i have done everything she has asked lost firends everything you can think possible and now i have nothing but her i just don't know what to do (link)
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Hey , again =) Im glad my advice helped you out . If ya got any other relationship questions , please feel free to talk to me or ask me . I would love to help you . Me and my boyfriend have been togetther for a year and a couple of months so trust me , i been through it all :)
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ok so my bf cheated on me but he didnt like the girl he only wanted to hook up with her cause he thinks shes hott.
i need songs saying like i hope she was worth it.
please give me some. thanks (link)
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I dont know if its going to help & its kind of old but the song " leave " by Jojo .
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Whenever a guy calls me pretty, or hot, or even cute I feel really insecure about myself. It annoys me more than anything and I would just rather them notice that I'm funny, or that I'm nice or something. Almost like..I have nothing else thats attractive to you? Anyone else get what I'm talking about? I'm 16 and I've asked my friends and they say NO THAT'S A COMPLIMENT! HE THINKS YOU'RE CUTE!
I'd rather they just not say anything. I feel insecure being around guys that tell me I'm good looking because I feel like if I'm not looking so great at that moment, I have nothing to offer. Do all guys think that girls want to hear "You're hot" because quite frankly, I get distant from guys who say things like that to me.
Thanks for letting me vent. (link)
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Guys are so differnt and think totally opposite from we do. Yes , thats a good compliment from a guy but ill tell you , if they say your pretty ect. Then oviously to them YOU ARE because trust me , guys will not tell you that you look good unless you do. Sometimes you have to tel guys what you think or want because they cant read signals to well
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what, and when is the best way to off yourself, like the fastest and easiest (without a gun cuz i don't have one) i've tried almost everyway (but a gun obviously) but i always get caught in the act please help me. even just telling me household items to mix for instantaineous death (sorry can't spell) and don't try to talk me out of it my whole life people had tried to talk me out of it and it makes no sense i have nothing going for me everything sucks my family hates and abuses me, i have no friends, my soccer team sucks, i suck, please help (link)
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Hey , its me again [ you replyed today i think ] . God listens to EVERYONE , and he LOVES all people. You think god doesnt listen to you when really , your not listening to him. All the time god gives people who listen a sign that he's there. Your just so caught up in the negativity that you dont stop to listen . i really wish there was another way we can communicate beacuse i promise you i can help . If there is like if you have any messanger let me know :)
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