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BOYFRIEND--- TONIGHT.. plleaseee helppp.
so today at my school vvas senior skip day.. and my boyfriend stayed home. im only a freshman so i vvent to school.. i called him after school and he told me he vvas planning on going camping tonight vvith his vvhole senior class. this vvorries me because i knovv hovv he gets vvhen he is drunk & there vvill be alot of drunk girls there.. & its about an hour avvay from vvhere vve live. im not so sure if i can trust him yet.. i dont vvant to tell him that he cant go but i also dont vvant him to go.. vvhatttt shoulld i do? anythinggg vvoullddd be helpful =]]
thank youuu.
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having just graduated myself, no matterwhat you say to him, he'll probably still go. you'll just have to trust him. seniors don't like when younger grades interfere with their plans-- believe me. my class did almost the same thing that his class is, and juniors from another school tried to crash our party.. and let's just say their car was pretty f'ed up and they didn't want to crash our party anymore. haha.
and by the way, please stop making your w's with two v's.. it's really annoying to read.
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Well I would either let him know it bothers you or maybe see if you can go with him. If you really think that you can't trust him when he is drunk up there with a bunch of drunk girls, then either you tell him, go with him, or just I guess get over it. He is probably going to do it no matter what you say just because he is a boy and they ususally do what ever they want to, but if he really cares about you and values your opinion then he will listen to your concerns and maybe not drink, take you with him, or not go at all. I wouldn't necessarily tell him he can't go, but let him know your concerns. Tell him that you are uncomfortable with him being around drunk girls and you would prefer that he either not drink, again, not go, or take you. I don't know how he will react, but hopefully he will react okay. If you can't talk to him about this stuff then you probably won't last long, considering relationship is one of the building blocks for a good relationship. Not to be rude and I hope you won't take that in the wrong way, I am just a very upfront and blunt person, I apologize if I offend you.
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Honestly , There really is not anything you can do. Boy's will do as they please weather we like it or not . You have to think , he probley wont worry about you tonight , He is a SENOR & i dont think senors will worry about other people because that will only stop his fun . I hope he doesnt cheat but its hard to trust a guy when they are older
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leave him.
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