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not getting attached.
ok so apparently im a flirt, which i dont always try to be, but you know. now that it's summer, my best friend [who is also a major flirt] and i have been partyin and just hangin out with lots of different groups of people, especially guys. i dont mind flirtin with them if theyre cool and even keepin in touch via text and myspace and stuff. the problem is if they start to flirt/show interest back, i start thinking ooh he likes me and get attached, and i dont want that! i just wanna be able to flirt around and have fun, no attachments. it's my senior year i dont want anything serious =] how can i achieve that ?
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when you flirt they will flirt. Its newtons law honey. well not literally but you know. and if you dont want to get attached tell them you are not looking for anything serious just some fun.
-hayley
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Thing about this is that if you're a flirt, they're gonna flirt back. What you have to do is remember that they aren't attached, they're just flirting, like you. Keep in the back of your mind that 98% of the male high schooler population is just looking to get in your pants, and I bet there will be enough disgust for you to not get attached. (JK) But seriously, you just have to remember that if you're not serious when you flirt, then they probably aren't either, so there's no good reason to attach yourself to them.
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