ok. i'm 15 from IL. my friend has the hugest crush on my other friend. but shes so oblivious that she doesn't even realize it. should i tell her, or should i just let the chips fall where they may?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? volleyballgamer answered Saturday May 31 2008, 8:21 pm: I would say, give her hints he likes her. But don't tell her straight away and don't make it obvious. Also first before you do anything, you could casually do in to a conversation like "So, who do you think is hot at our school?" and like name off guys untill you get to the person who likes her. And then if she says lie "9" then you could say "Oh do you like him?" and if she says yes, you could say things like "you guys would be so cute together" or "I should ask if he likes you.. should I?". Or if she already does like him, then don't say anything, and just see what happens. But I'd say if nothing happens for a while and they still like eachother, maybe step in but don't make a big approach if that makes sense. That's what I'd do! (: Hope something helped. [ volleyballgamer's advice column | Ask volleyballgamer A Question ]
jackie2 answered Friday May 30 2008, 11:11 pm: heyy.
it would prolly be best if you stayed out of it but im not going to lie if i was you i would get right into it. lol. if you think they like each other and should be together why not say something. it is a lot better than just sitting there knowing that they like each other and not doing anything about it.
--Jackie.. [ jackie2's advice column | Ask jackie2 A Question ]
asano answered Friday May 30 2008, 9:57 pm: I don't think you should tell her but I also don't think you should let it be either. I mean you might as well have some fun with it! >:)
I'm thinking that you should get her interested in him as well. Maybe something like 'Oo! [Place name here] is so [Place trait here]!' After you got her good and ready, get the boy to ask her out and just see where it leads!!
....Of course, that's assuming you DO want to have some fun. If you DON'T, just let nature take its course. No use buying bait if you don't have a fishing rod. [ asano's advice column | Ask asano A Question ]
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