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Q: hellooo :)
i was just wondering, how can i get a big picture on my site? mine is like really small, and it was saying it was too big. i dont understand. i do mine on photobucket, i heard some do it on tiny pic but i tried, and didnt really understand.
You upload your picture on photobucket or tinypic and get the URL and paste it in "URL of a picture of you" and it should be the size the actual picture is.

Q: how would u guys treat a back stabbing friend???? especially she spread nasty rumors about you??
also she take your friends away??????
Well they wouldn't be my friend anymore and I'd never talk to them again. I don't waist my time with people like that.

Q: I'm dying my hair black today, and I'm doing it myselff. But in my bangs I have pink streaks in my hair and I want to keep them, and I don't want to have to rebleach my hair, how can I dye my whole head black but keep those pink streaks seperate?
Seperate the pink streaks from the hair you want to dye black and cover it up with something. (:

Q: does us cellular sell the new blackberry storm?
No, verizon does.

Q: I want one of those giraffe print bags, can someone give me some website links with reasonable priced bags, I like the blue and brown trims
Here are some websites:

http://www.baghaus.com/category/Giraffe-Print-Handbags/a

http://www.thisnext.com/item/1E638D7E/FAA2290F/Dooney-and-Burke-Giraffe-Print

http://gifts-pontier.com/animal-giraffe.htm

Q: Name :: Taylor
Age :: 13
Sports? ::swimming
Prep? Goth? Athletic? Etc.. :: i dont label myself.
Any Nicknames ::Tay Tay or Tay Tay Rae
Words you like :: .....
Animals you like :: .....
Do you want your name in your SN :: sure
Love sn? (ex : iiTHiiNKY0URMiiNE) :: sure
Hobbies :: swimming
Words like BABii - SWEETiiE - etc / yes or no ::doesnt matter
Hair color :: Brown
Eye Color :: green
Single / Taken :: single
Fav. Singer/Band :: chris brown
Type of Music :: hip hop / rap
Fav. Song :: I kissed a girl by kate perry
Fav. Color :: orange
Anything else?? :: um i like x's and o's in screen names (:
taylor_xO
taytay_baby
lovexme
iloveyou
taylor_love
orange_x
tay_ily
ilu_baby
kiss_xo
taytayrae
sweetheartx


Q: to be happy? i know a person cant make you happy, or at least keep you happy. so where do you find it?
Accept yourself.

I'm always happy when i hang out with my friends and have a good time.

When I achieve something that makes me happy.

Q: ok. i'm 15 from IL. my friend has the hugest crush on my other friend. but shes so oblivious that she doesn't even realize it. should i tell her, or should i just let the chips fall where they may?
If that person likes your friend let them tell her or find out if it's ok to just tell your friend. If it's ok then go ahead and tell her.

Q: Me and my bf really want to start having sex. It will be my first time and i'm kinda really worried about the pain. I cannot handle pain very well lol. we've tried 2 times and it doesn't fit in. however we've been "stretching" me out down there so it wont hurt as bad. i think its pretty wide enough but there's like a wall kinda thing that i always hit and it hurts so badly(not the hymen).
Does anyone have any advice on stretching out or just 1st time sex in general lol?
I'd really appreciate it!! :)
It's gonna hurt the first few times, just keep n stretching it out and also keep trying to put it in it'll help.

Q: hello. im 20 yrs old and i jus had sex for the first time.My partner and i had protected sex. What i want to know is he pulled out before he came even though he had a condom on. He then ejaculated and the sperm or watever ended up on my upper thigh and also in my pubic hair i immediately wipped it off and went to sleep. Is it a possibility that im might get pregnant. Oh and i just finished my menstrual cycle the night we had sex.
Oh no, don't worry about it. You're fine you wont get preagnant.

Q: (13/girl)
I really like my best friend. I've liked him for almost 5 years now... its starting to get unhealthy. Like i think about him 24/7. We've gone out once, but we broke up. Well this year is different. When he found out i still like him he started treating me like i wasnt his friend. It rly hurts me that he does that. more than i want him to go out with me i want him to be my best friend again... Wat should i do? Plz post this!

I'm sorry it took forever to reply i haven't been on here for awhile. I think you should tell your friend how you feel about all of this. Maybe he'll change the way he treats you.

Q: Hi. My name is Daphne. I am 11 years old. Ever since the first day of school I have been majorly crushing hard on a guy named Dallas. 2 of my friends, Olivia and Bella, like him too. Bella just thinks he is cute but Olivia gets mad at me if I say I like him. We just had a Halloween Dance last night. He was going to ask me to dance, but I danced with my friend Sheila as a joke because I didn't think he would ask me. So, he asked Olivia instead. It was a slow song, and I was kind of jealous. Then, after the dance while Olivia, Bella, and I were helping clean up, he was there and we talked after and stuff, (nothing big, just talking!) Anyway, Olivia said that we were backstabbers now! Today we had a carnival and he flirted with me and he walked all the way across the carnival to me to say bye to me when he was leaving!!! I am confused on how I should act with him... does he want to be friends, or more than that!!!
Your friends seem to have a problem with it and you shouldn't loose friends over a guy. But if you think its ok to like him then go for it and talk to him about it, and see how he feels about you.

Q: its really a long story, this is how it started:

My friend had this cush, Sean. Megan, my friend who had a crush on sean, wanted a hand on telling him that she like him, and so on. she wanted me to get to know him and be friends with him so that i can tell him, but megan was too afraid to tell herself. So i got to know him, and we had a lot in common.
Anyway, after megan got her hard stomped by sean, wen sean said he didn't like her like that, megan didn't like him. But, that didn't stop sean from becoming even better friends with me.
It's been two years since i've been hearing that Sean has liked me since i first met him, but i don't believe that. You know why? Because of popularity. Thats rite folks. Sean is in this popularity group called VPSKS, which is basically a cleque group of the most popular ppl in skool. and now, i do wonder why he gives me weird stares, or even why he likes me this much, but i wonder; why would he like me? I'm not from his group.
This group is seriously high, they don't include anyone. So, now i'm asking, do u think he likes me? I know it seems stupid, but even my friends have turned on my and said that he does like me. But how?
I'm a girl, in gr.7, i started becoming friends with sean since gr.5
It's not about popularity when you like someone. You like them for who they are and you can't help that. I think he does like you if you've heard it alot.

Q: Ok the kid i like is dating someone.. he always flirts with me though like all the time LIKE ALOT LIKE A WHOLE LOT!! he knows i like him... i dont really think he likes his gf.. wat do i do?
talk to him about. tell him how you like him and ask him if he likes you, since he flirts with you alot.

Q: i was the one who asked you how long it took you to get ready :) i was just wondering because you're so PRETTY and i've been trying to look better since school is about to start again. and i was trying to plan like what time to get up and stuff, because theres this boy =) lol
Well thank you (:. & i usually get up an hour before i have to leave for school to do everything i need to do.

Q: im 15 and i dont have a cell phone =( am i a complete loser?
No, of course not.

Q: how long does it take u to get ready??
It depends on what i do with my hair. If i have to straighten in and all that then it would probably take me about an hour, but if i just have to put makeup on then it takes me about 15 minutes or so. But why?

Q: 0KAYY, WElL i JUST GOT A BOYFRiEND, A FEW WEEKS AGO. AND MOST OF THE TiME ALL HE SAYS iS i LOVE YOU, ONCE iN A WHiLE. LIKE iT SEEMS LiKE HE DOESNT LiKE ME. & SHiT. & WHEN WE KiSS, HE HAS AFULL BREATH, HOW DO i LET HIM KNOW WiTHOUT HURTiNG HiS FEELiNGS? & LiKE BEFORE i MET HIM, LiKE i THOUGHT NOBODY LiKED ME [GUY WiSE.] BECAUSE i REALLY HAVENT EVER BEEN iN LOVE AND STUFF.

BUT LiKE iDK WHAT THE HELL TO DO ANYMORE.

i DOUBT YOU CAN HELP.

i WANT HELP ON HOW DO i TALK TO MORE GUYS,

i THINK iM UGLY & FAT & HIDIOUS. AND WHERE CAN i GO TO LOOK TO LOSE WEiGHT, WiTOUT CHANGiNG ALL MY EATiNG HABiTS, AND NOT JOiNiNG A PROGRAM. liKE A DVD.?

HOW DO i STOP HATiNG MYSELF.?

WHY DO i THiNK EVERTiME i MASTURBATE, iTS WRONG. LiKE iM THE ONLY ONE THAT DOES iT.? DOES EVERYONE DO IT.?

& HOW DO i HELP GET MY BOYFRiEND FASTER, ALL HE EVER DOES iS KiSS. i WANT TO MAKE OUT, OR 3RD BASE.

PlEASE HElP ME.

THANKS.
He is your boyfriend, just tell him the truth. Be like i'm not trying to be mean or anything and i'm not trying to hurt your feelings, but your breath stinks. You could offer him a mint or gum or something like that.

So many girls say they are not pretty, and how they are fat, but in reality they are over reacting. Be confident, not too confident though it's kind of a turn off. Just talk to guys, flirt and have fun and be yourself that's all you can really do.

The easiest way i can tell you to loose weight is by exercising, try joining a sport or something.

Masturbating is normal some people like to do it some don't, it's just based on the person. There is nothing wrong with it.

To go to a different base try talking to your boyfriend about it. Maybe he's shy and never did anything before so he doesn't want to do something wrong. Just have a talk with him about moving to a next base. Don't rush it, you have time for all of those things don't worry.

HOPE I HELPED AT ALL.

Q: right im 15/m and i love my gf to bits and i meen bits! she is the most beatiful caring lovable person in my life and i have a sudden urge to by a gift for her i want something perfect any idea's ppl? thanks for your time:) xx
Try getting her jewlery, like: bracelet, necklece, or a ring. Maybe a promise ring or something like that. Also you could make something yourself and give it to her things like that mean the most sometimes.

Q: theres this guy that i really like..i think he likes me too but i don't wanna ask him out cuz thats weird..how do i make him ask me out?
Talk to him, and try to hang out with him. Try not to annoy him that`ll just ruin it. If he gets to know you he may like you at the end may ask you out. That`s what i did with my boyfriend and we`re still together.

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