nisa12345 answered Thursday November 27 2008, 11:39 am: I woudlnt be friends
with them.
What do the rumors matter anywayz?
If i knew that they are not true,
then they shouldnt matter.
The people that left arnt
friends. If they leave because
of someone else then they cant think
for themselves, and they need to get their
own brain. [ nisa12345's advice column | Ask nisa12345 A Question ]
thelaura answered Thursday November 27 2008, 10:14 am: Cut them out of your life and ignore them from now on.
Don't stoop to their level and spread rumours or try to get revenge.
If you don't give them a reaction, they will see they aren't getting to you (even if they are - you shouldn't show it). [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
Letysmakeup answered Wednesday November 26 2008, 11:58 pm: I would absolutely be really upset for her or his betrayal........
I say if you confronted her already then just let it go..........
Let GOD take things from your hands and deal with him or her.............
Sometimes friends are envious and do things out of that but playing the game as they do is childish and immature, let things fall into place by putting them into GOD's hands :) [ Letysmakeup's advice column | Ask Letysmakeup A Question ]
solidadvice4teens answered Wednesday November 26 2008, 10:31 pm: Nobody can take anyone's friends away. It's up to them whether to be persuaded or not. Even if you don't want to admit it as fact there's something perhaps inadvertent you've done to piss them off. It could also be an issue with jealousy, boys etc. etc.
Give this friend the benefit of the doubt. She might not have started the rumors on her own. She may be following someone else's lead to stay in their circle. Either way have a talk with her privately and hash this out. That's the right and mature way of doing it and don't fight.
If you can't repair things move on and show that nothing she says or anyone else does can bother you. People will soon forget about it and you'll eventually find more supportive and solid friends. This could be a blessing in disguise when every piece of this puzzle is finished with.
Don't allow rumors to bother you let this slide off of you like water on a duck. The only power they have is when you let it get to you. don't waste your time as other people simply disregard rumors and your real friends know the truth about who you are. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
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