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I have two cats, one full grown and one almost full grown. Ive raised them together in my own apartment since they were both kittens, and they are bad. I try to train them and discipline them but they are just bad cats. They claw everything, jump in the windows and mess up my blinds, knock over cups containing drinks that stain, and jump up on counters and tables. I love these cats, but with all the damage they are causing, I don't know if I can keep them. I don't want to get rid of them. Someone said that getting them fixed calms them down, but is that true? What can I do to make my cats calm down and be good? Ive grown up with cats all my life, and this is the first time Ive had a discipline problem.

That is true, getting them fixed does calm them down. It did to my cat, =]

but if you cant get them fixed for any reason, try staying away from catnip (if any), and give them toys that stay put, like a jungle gym, a whacking ball, & et. And also be sure to pet them both, make them feel relaxed & at ease, then they would stop being so goofy.


hope i helped ! =]


- Victoria

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This isnt a random question but I couldnt find a specific catergory. Well today i found out that somebody i went too school with in 8th grade hung herself. I didnt know her well but i cant stop thinking of her... and no offense but she also had an attitude issue and i feel really horrible because everybodys all like IMING everyone and crying and im not... i feel HORRIBle about myself.. is this wrong of me?? i mean i feel bad but what am i too do? and i selfish or something

awww. im sorry. and nothing wrong with you, your probably just in shock. it will take w hile to sink in. hang in there.

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Kay so I knew this guy from swimming, and some stuff happened and I didn't get to see him for a long time. So I just saw him today, and the last time I saw him was in April. I used to really like him, but it's been so long that I kind of tried to forget adn move on. A girl that also liked him took me to his house today. He is kind of a man whore, and also has done some bad stuff, but still is realllly nice. SO anyways,he made out with my friend. While I was there. Sitting next to them. Then he tried to kiss me. But since I hadn't talked to him in several months, and he had just made out with my friend who likes him a whoooole lot, I said no, but really I have never been kissed before and I'm just to scared to. The other girl has made out with 9 guys. Yeah so seeing the situation, I said no, and now I'm really sad and don't know if I like him or not or what to do and why I couldn't have just kissed him first. I'm 15. He's 15, she's 16. Help?

hmmm. I think you should get his screenname and/or phone number from someone (or the other girl who you were with) and tell him "hey, im the girl you hung out with (whenever).. whats up?" and then eventually move your way up to making plans with him. Go to a movie with him (the BEST place to kiss). Maybe even invite him over or go over there, just the 2 of you. Thats a great way to bond, who knows? maybe he'll ask you out. ;]

Hope i helped ! ♥

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hey victoriaa
this is lisa.
rofl from myspace.
i just wanted to say that this is awesome that youre helping people out like this.
and i wanna tell you that avenged sevenfold is amazing and so is that song xD
haha kk i'm out much love mann :]

lisaaaaaa. LOL aww i love you

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my friends constantly leave me out and its beginning to hurt me. i feel like if i ask why i am left out they only will leave me out more. please help me.

-left out.

aww. :-( okay well you should either

A. get new friends who care about ya
and wont leve you out
B. really say something about how you feel,
and maybe, just maybe they'll understand =]
if not then WHO NEED EM? lol

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My friend and I use to be real close we would be together every weekend and then one year she like ignored me and now we are friends but she acts so different when shes around other people she'll be sorta mean to me its really hurting my feelings what should i do??

signed miss being bffs

hey. i think you should invite her over and tell her how you feel.say like "not for nothing, but ive noticed you've been sorta weird to me around your friends, why?" and hopefully she'll tell you. or maybe even call her on the phone. =] hope i help ya ! ♥

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i hate myself i really do. when i look at myself i just want to end my life. i feel so ugly. and i have no friends. i never had a bf and no one ever liked me before. But that is not why i am crying. i stop caring about my uglyness. i was in my bestfriends house and she was talking to her mother about me. I guess they thought i wouldnt hear it. Her mother goes i know u feel sorry for her and all but now that you made new friends its time to let this one go. my friend goes yeah eww gosh i hate her. She smells bad and wow shes very ugly. my new friends dont like her and i just dont know how to leave her with out sounding me! wow i started to cry. that hurt so bad. the only perosn i loved and cared about hates me and never liked. she just used me!!

what do i do? how can i change for her? i need to be her friend

aww girl no you dont need to be her friend. she is not worth beeing friends with. if she was your friend she would care about what you look like. shes a butthead. if you wanna make some friend go to school clubs, join sprts, so to clubs outside of school. and if you wanna make your self feel pretty take showers daily, try something new with your hair, wax ur eyebrows, and try a new fashion sence. im sorry youre going through this ! keep your head high girl. ♥

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how come people call girls sluts if they kiss guys (like me...but i havent done it in over a month)
a slut is someone who has sex w/a bunch of guys!! so how come IM gettin called a slut!?
but im not the only one...some other people i know are getting called sluts too. and its not fair! i dont have sex! how am i a slut? i just dont get girls at all...even tho i am a girl! i just dont get why they do things like this

aww girl youre not a slut, i think maybe people are jealous that your getting to kiss these guys and there not. and they probably dont even know what slut means, haha buttheads.

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I just had sex for first time, and both my inner labias have swelled up about 5x their normal size. Will the swelling go down, or should I be worried?

hmmm, i think the swelling might go down, but you should get a doctor if it doesnt swell down in 1-3 days. =] ♥

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do anyone know any sites that have video games that you can put on your myspace?

hey, i would go here
http://www.myspacehtml.net/game.htm
but its undergoing maitnence ={ sorry,

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