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Question Posted Sunday September 4 2005, 12:32 am

This isnt a random question but I couldnt find a specific catergory. Well today i found out that somebody i went too school with in 8th grade hung herself. I didnt know her well but i cant stop thinking of her... and no offense but she also had an attitude issue and i feel really horrible because everybodys all like IMING everyone and crying and im not... i feel HORRIBle about myself.. is this wrong of me?? i mean i feel bad but what am i too do? and i selfish or something

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FireFairy141 answered Sunday September 4 2005, 9:37 am:
Your not selfish at all! It's not your fault that this girl felt the need to kill herself, and you didn't even know her that well. If she had been like your BEST FRIEND EVER now then you'd problably be upset. But she wasn't even your friend. So dont worry about it.


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~Melissa~

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freyball answered Sunday September 4 2005, 2:06 am:
you should feel bad but you do because you might think you had something to do with it but you could maybe go to where she is buried and maybe bring flowers or something like that

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BaMaBaBy2005 answered Sunday September 4 2005, 1:03 am:
For one thing you're not selfish. Its just that u didnt get to know this girl like a friend. I wouldnt worry about not being upset because most people are just crying and upset because they think they should or they were closer to her or probly just that fact that something like that happened to someone they knew and they werent expecting it. Its okay not to cry and do crazy about it, as long as your not happy about it. Which your not so you have nothing to worry about.

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DancerBabyx0x answered Sunday September 4 2005, 12:59 am:
Don't feel bad at all, because everyone has their opinions about everyone. Everything will sink in later when you realize that she's actually gone, but don't worry..it might just be your way of coping with her death. I'm really sorry and i hope you feel better soon!

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SweetKissez answered Sunday September 4 2005, 12:45 am:
Aww im sorry to hear about that.
No you are not selfish.
It will probably take a while for all of that to sink in.
Your just shocked right now.
When the time is right you are going to feel like crying believe me.
A few years ago when somebody died in my family I didn't cry at first but a week later that is all I did.
hang in there hun.
♥ SweetKissez

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honeyJ17 answered Sunday September 4 2005, 12:43 am:
No honey you're not selfish or anything, cause if you were you wouldnt feel bad, but its cause you didnt know her and why would you cry over someone you dont know. That is something really sad but its part of life people come and go and theres nothing you can do about it. Take care

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suppimvictoria answered Sunday September 4 2005, 12:42 am:
awww. im sorry. and nothing wrong with you, your probably just in shock. it will take w hile to sink in. hang in there.

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