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Location: Evergeen Park
Age: 13
AIM: frey5192 or minime8767
Member Since: June 12, 2005
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Last Update: February 18, 2009
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I am a boy and im 13. i play waterpolo and unlike most think i am not gay! I went to train in colorado springs in the olympic training center and i met this girl, for privacy lets call her katie.
So me and katie were both from the same zone( area were teams play eachother) so we see eachother 4 or 5 times a year. At the camp we made out, problem was i found out she has a boyfriend..who she "loves."
so I stay in contact with her (texting email ect..) and her friends start adding me on myspace, one of them (girl,lets call her jamie) asked for my number so i gave it to her no big deal then she started sending me weird messages.. and when katie found out she got pisse, like all of the sudden i belong to he.so they fight then some how it ends up being myfault! kstie gos to her boyfriend and he just thinks i was being a dick to her he doesnt know we made out. Basically the problem is this, i have to fight 5 guys at a tourdament coming up im a year younger then them and i cant and wont go to my parents ( pride thing). its not my first fight and me and my team mates are tight so they agreed to fight with me, i still dont wana figh tho but i will. any and all help is welcomed. thanks (link)
ive been in alot of fights and brawls over the years. from one point of view, girls are worth fighting over. but brawls are fucking awesome. the feeling after you and your buddys just beat some ass is incredible. plus i bet those 5 guys arent exspecting you to show up with your boys


I lost my virginity over the weekend. I'm not sure if he broke my hymen or not, it did hurt some but it was very very short.

It's been two days. It hurt a lot "down there" and for the last two days, it burns when I pee and sometimes just randomly. Is this normal? (link)
chill. i wouldnt tell your rents right away that could be bad. listen to that person who told u to wait a few days


what are events people can do on halloween? has anyone been to "haunted house" parties? where theres a decorated haunted house and people just dancing inside? i have no idea what im talking about. someone mentioned it once.. (link)
Get some kegs and fog machines


I need songs about someone that has past away and you miss them adn love them i need R&b please ? (link)
miss you- blink 182
only the good die young- billy joel


I'm 17 years old, pretty much a good kid, very slightly rebellious against my parents though. I think I have an extreme potential of becoming an alcoholic.

Although I've never been drunk before (but I have been tipsy once or twice), and I love the taste of alcohol, especially wine. When my family has family over for dinner, I get poured one or two glasses of wine during that evening. This happens about once or twice a month.

On a rare occasion (once every two-three months), when no one is around, I'll sneak a sip of some alcoholic beverage (I'm afraid to drink too much because I don't want anyone to notice that the bottle's emptier than usual. I'm not sure what's my point of doing this, I don't think I want to get drunk, but I'm not so sure I do it for the taste either because I'll have a sip of vodka even though I don't particularly like it, but I'll crave it (but mostly I just crave wine).

What scares me is that I think I will enjoy the feeling of being drunk, and I think I might have a mild form of depression. Also, I tend to be stressed out all the time. How I deal with it right now is by spending hours on the computer because I guess it sort of numbs me. I have a feeling that once I move out I will use alcohol to numb me.

I think the main reason why I've never been drunk before is because I don't know my limits and I don't want to black out or get alcohol poisoning.

I don't know. Is this serious? What should I do about this? (link)
Drink Beer. You puke before you pass out


I'm planning a party for my birthday/graduation/going away, and I'm having a hard time figuring out what I need to figure out. What are some things every good party needs? (i.e. food, music, color scheme, etc) (link)
all you need is a radio, a few crave cases from white castles, and a couple kegs


Any ideas on ways to make fake dust? Any thoughts would be appreciated. Thanks! (link)
baby powder with gray die


I like this guy. Hes taken. How can I get him to like me more? (link)
have sex with him


Does anyone know any Nazi Films? (link)
american history x


I am 16 years old and i have come t realization that I am an alcoholic. I have realized how much my problem is driving everyone i care about away. I was wondering if anyone new of any sites where i could talk to someone about my problem and get help.

please help me =/ (link)
just so you know you are not an alcoholic , you are a drunk, alcoholics go to meeting


is there a different between making-out and french kissing? (link)
no difference except french kissing started in france


oh kay so i need this to be defined
1. oral sex
2. jackin off
3. head
thx (link)
1.sucking penis
2.masturbating (male)
3.Sucking penis


im high, i've been high for 24 hours.

i need to lose it, im sick to my stomache, im dizzy and sometimes i get a headache.

whenever i touch something there's like a second delay from me feeling it. (link)
listen to some sublime and if u have the under the sun box set watch the DVD is is trippy as hell... o you'll be fine just relax


ok heres a song[has NOTHING to do with my actual life] i had to write:


And I lay here
Crying myself to sleep
Nobody knows me
Nobody understands me
No one cares too

And I lay here
Turning to a sad song
Only one word repeats in my mind
Love, love, love me

And I lay here
Crying myself to sleep
Nobody knows me
Nobody understands me
Cares to, oh
And I lay here

I lay here
Talking to myself
Everything that’s good
Everything that’s good
Everything that’s good ‘bout me

All I want
Is my happy ending
To know I’m loved
Securely loved
Gently love
By you

The inspiration
To keep walking
This path of lies
This inspiration
To keep going on
Has all died

And I lay here
Crying myself to sleep
Crying myself to..
And I lay here
Nobody knows me
Nobody understands me
Nobody cares to

Nobody cares..
Cares to


what should i add/take away to make it better? any suggesttions would be appriciated (link)
for one u should stop being such an emo pussy but neway make it less depressing and more rock/ classic rock


I was babysitting this ten year old... he was bein a brat and wouldnt go to sleep... my girlfriend was there and we couldnt have any time alone... so we had coke n we did it cause we were gonna have to stay up to watch him... he said he wanted to try so we let him... he started running around and actin like an indian... we got a pipe and some pot and smoked... he wanted to try but when he did he coughed n said he didnt want to do it... i told him if he didnt he would die... so we smoked 3 bowls with him and he got sleepy and went to bed... I feel bad that i gave this kid drugs... His parents never found out... what should i do??? (link)
uhhh peer presures a biotch but if you tell the parents you will get in deep poop so just keep it on the down low and it will go away and dont feel bad unless you look out your window and see the kid selling drugs on the corner


everyone at my school laughs at the number 69
i dont get it
what does it mean?? im pretty sure its something nasty, but im not sure what it is (link)
69 is a sex position that invovles 2 people laying down facing eachother but laying opposite so their feet are by the other persons head and the just suck and eat out each other


Is there any difference between CD-R/DVD-R and CD-RW/DVD-RW other then the RW's are rewriteable and the R's are permanent? I usually would get CD-R's to make CDs and DVD-R's for when i make DVDs. I was wondering if there would be any difference in the quality between R's and RW's. I would always think in the back of my head that if I use a RW then the quality would be poorer because its made to rewrite and then if i rewrite and the disc might be scratched a little then it wouldn't come out right. So I always would just stick to the R's.

rich (link)
liek you said the difference is cd-rw is rewrite able personally i would just go with cd-r's becuase the quality is better the only difference is when you burn a cd-rw the dont finalize the cd so it is less quality becuase it can be erased uts like tapes you can record something on tv on a tape but it isnt as good of quality as a tape you buy from the store i would suggest you use cd-r's


im 15 years old, and my friend is too. so today we went to the mall and since we were there for a LONG time we decided to go to target. we went to the Condoms area, just cause (lol) and we took decided to take them in the fitting rooms and look at them. the fitting lady was there too, but she didnt seem to notice. she was really rude too. we were just there, but my friend decided to take one. we left the rest of them underneath a clothing and left.


as we were about to leave Target, one of the people stopped us. as we turned around the fitting room lady was holding the condoms at us and started yelling. she was like "yall stole it. I KNOW YALL DID. its ALL on CAMERA"
we freaked outt
she took us to the police that was in target. and we were like begging not to tell our parents. the Police was like "you know yall could end up in jail if this was more major.why did yall steal this"

but he finally let us go.
everyone in target was staring at us and it was So embarrasing.

Our faces weer on the camera but they never asked for our names or anything.
I just dont want my parents or ANYONE at my school to know about this. it was funny, but still.



Do you think Anything Bad will Happen??
(link)
i disagree with the person below me that sounds hallarios me and my friends have stolen many condoms before jsut because we thought it would be funny you cant get in trouble anymore because they already let you go after they caught you for doing it that would be like the police arresting O.J. Simpson now for murder after he was found not guilty and who cares if people at school know it would be a funny story to tell and a memory you and your friend wont forget i mean in the end Sh!t happenes and you jsut have to make the best out of it


I'm going on a trip with my dad for spring break, only him (not my mom or my sister). We're going to Japan for a week, and honestly, I have nothing to talk about with him. He's home every other month, because after that he's out traveling for his job. He's funny and young, and I like him, but I just don't know what we'll talk about.
I really need help because I don't want this trip to be awkward! Thanks! (link)
just talk to him about your life everything little thing thats happened to you when hes been at work he'll apreciate that youwant him to be involved in your life more even when he cant be and hopefully he will open up to you you may think this trip will be awkward but once your on the trip everything will be fine


I flirt with alot of guys and I really want to makeput with one how do you tell if they want to or give them the message? (link)
well for one being a guy you realy dont wanan be known as the girl they hooks up with every guy because guys with get in yoru head and make you think they like you jsut to make out atleast find a guy your really like and then make out with him dont rush yourslef because everyone is different and look at it this way you could be the girl that waits to makeout with someone but in a few years you could be the only girl the waits to sleep with someone and be the only girl without STD's im not teliing you what you should do but when it happens it will happen do jsut be going around looking to maek out with anyone




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