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Question Posted Monday February 16 2009, 10:46 pm

I am a boy and im 13. i play waterpolo and unlike most think i am not gay! I went to train in colorado springs in the olympic training center and i met this girl, for privacy lets call her katie.
So me and katie were both from the same zone( area were teams play eachother) so we see eachother 4 or 5 times a year. At the camp we made out, problem was i found out she has a boyfriend..who she "loves."
so I stay in contact with her (texting email ect..) and her friends start adding me on myspace, one of them (girl,lets call her jamie) asked for my number so i gave it to her no big deal then she started sending me weird messages.. and when katie found out she got pisse, like all of the sudden i belong to he.so they fight then some how it ends up being myfault! kstie gos to her boyfriend and he just thinks i was being a dick to her he doesnt know we made out. Basically the problem is this, i have to fight 5 guys at a tourdament coming up im a year younger then them and i cant and wont go to my parents ( pride thing). its not my first fight and me and my team mates are tight so they agreed to fight with me, i still dont wana figh tho but i will. any and all help is welcomed. thanks


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greatadvise-x answered Sunday March 1 2009, 12:45 pm:
I think you should explain to Katie that she needs to tell her boyfriend the truth about what happened. And fighting is not the anwer to everything. tell katie that she has a boyfriend who she claims to love so you can give your number out to whoever you want! You should tell someone even if its not your parents for example your grandparents,best friend or siblings.
thankyou
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freyball answered Wednesday February 18 2009, 1:48 am:
ive been in alot of fights and brawls over the years. from one point of view, girls are worth fighting over. but brawls are fucking awesome. the feeling after you and your buddys just beat some ass is incredible. plus i bet those 5 guys arent exspecting you to show up with your boys

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AdviceAbby answered Tuesday February 17 2009, 8:41 pm:
uhhh, its stupid to fight. especially if this "katie" girl truely doesn't care about you and you only see her 4 or 5 times a year. you could find a girl that is just as good as katie, probably even better because katie got mad at you and didn't even listen to your side of the story.

"jamie" just got jealous that katie has a long distance relationship and has a boyfriend.

just drop all of this, don't fight, & find your own girl in your own school.

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