I want to give people my advise, and i hope it will help them and give them a better view on there problems. xx
Gender: Female
Location: Scotland
Member Since: March 1, 2009
Answers: 31
Last Update: June 29, 2009
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i recently lost my 'v' & ever since i keep havin problems like i keep getting water infection.my stomach is always hurting.i get ill easier.is this just a coincidence or is it due to sex? (link)
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i just have to ask did you use protection?
if not then is it a possibilty that you are pregnant?..have you had your period?
and you can also check if you have possibly caught an sexally transpitted infection.
you should talk to your parents or your gp and im sure your problem will soon be solved!
hope this helped and i wish you well.
xx
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Ok I'll shorten this as much as possible. Ok so there is a girl I'm into, let's call her Susie. Susie and I met about 4 months ago and she quickly became my best friend over night. We went on a trip together out of the country and spent about 10 days together... day and night. I really like her and she means the world to me. Now when I met her she had a boyfriend and shortly after they broke up and she has stayed single. I'm 17 and she is 18 by the way. I'm a junior and she is a senior and she is moving out of state to go to college. Everyone has told me she likes me and we would be perfect together but the problem is that in 3-4 months she will be many miles away and I am stuck here. I can't decide what to do, should I go for it and ask her out sometime or just stay friends? This girl means the WORLD to me and I do not want to lose her for anything. I feel like if we did start something it would be awkward since we will be so far apart and I don't want it to hurt the friendship we have right now. Then again on the other hand there is the question that could be haunting me saying "What if?" I really don't know what I should do and any advice would be appreciated....
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i think you should go for it after all what have you got to lose?, you only live once and you could be made for each other whats a miles between true love?
you sound like you really like her and would do anything for her, i can tell you would treat her right, shes very lucky and you should tell her!
just remember and state that if things dont work out then you want to remain best friends and you dont want to lose her
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I have this guy. I fell in love with him the first day i meet him. I was dating his cousin then but coudlnt get him off my mind. we have only been dating a week now. but see he has a rough past couple kids. he dont know about you. you know? well he had a daughter. never meet her or anything because the mother wouldnt let him see her. his daughter was two got killed in a car accident yesterday and was killed by a drunk driver. we are "taking a break" i was raped a few weeks ago and a car accident a few days ago.. our break started after his cousin was lieing to him about me because he found out we were dating and didnt like it then he found out about his daughter. it hit all at once. well this morning we meet up and it was akward i gave him a hug and i started crying. i cryed the whole way home. his uncle told me he cried to. i had also wrote him a note telling him about why i liked him and how i feel him love with him the day i meet him. and how i would always be here for him no matter what. he cried to. i went with him tonight just driving dirt roads. and had a good time. i keep asking him whhat he was thinking about he told me he was thinking about something he and i had done a few nights ago and i got upset because i didnt expect him to say that. we didnt really talk after that he got mad because i chewed a piece of gum (im allergic to gum) but i need to chew it to relax me. i spit it out before my throat closes. any ways i really love him and i just dont know how to help him through this. and i dont want to lose him. (link)
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wow, might i say what a moving story, i truly feel for you!
sounds like you really love this guy but i think he has a lot on his mind and needs some space to get his head around things and mourn for his daughter, your other option is to offer him a sholder to cry on and say you will always be there when hes down. also your going through a lot so this love would start off bad, which cant end well,if you love someone you have to set them free sometimes, if its ment to be wait for him to get into a better frame of mind
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where can i get these offlines or can i only buy them online? (link)
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if you live in the uk www.asos.com is good for them.
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Last year my grandpa called me alot hof horrible names. I havent talked to him since and he hasnt tried to apologize. Thing is it hurts me ao much that he did this and i dont think its right for my brother n sis to suffer because of me. I will never forgive him, but i am willing to try. He hasnt been to any family events like christmas or thanksgiving or my brother and sisters birthday. I need to call him because I know his time is coming soon and i dont want our last words to be bad ones. Im scared though. Scared hes going to yell at me like before. It just hurts me so much to not see him anymore bc we used to be soo close, im even crying as im writing this. I just want my grandpa back the he used to be. What should I do? Should I call him? What do I Say? Do I not call him? What do i do??? (link)
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I think you should call him, and tell him how much his name calling hurt you explain to him. Because after all like you said hes not going to be around long and how bad would you feel if you never got the chance to make-up. Invite him to your birthday and explain that you would love if he could make it, this will make him feel wanted again. he has proberly feeling just as bad as you but does not want to addmit it.
Thankyou-x
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paris hilton is my rolemodel! i idolize her! everyone makes fun of me because of it. they say shes aslut and everything. but im reading her book and its really telling me awesome advice. like how to be confident and stuff. i think she is a good rolemodel. what is you guys' take on her? do you think she is a bad rolemodel? why or whynot? thanks in advance (link)
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I really like Paris Hilton, i watch her show every week and she is very fun. If looking up to her gives you confidence then carry on because confidence is great.
Thankyou-x
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well i want a cell phone. ive wanted one for a REALLY long time and i think i actrulLY NEED one. i have to call my parents all the time and i need to keep in touch with my friends (duh!).my mom thinks i don't need one and they are stupid. how can i convice her to let me get one? i mean i really really want one (w/ a texting plan) and need one. (link)
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tell your mum , that what will you do in a emergency and if you need to call her if this does not work say you will buy it yourself and start saving up! x
thankyou-x
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So there's this guy I know from another school. One day, he was texting me about how he didn't have a date to an upcoming school dance. Without thinking, I said, "take me!" So then he asked me. However, he's soooo annoying! He acts like he's ghetto and he's not and when he texts me he says stuff like "eeyyyyy yoo wusss good." and stuff like that. It drives me nuts. I've hung out with him once in the summer, and he can be fun and chill when he's not acting like he's ghetto, but he does it to impress me, and it doesn't impress me at all! I don't really want to go to the dance with him anymore, but I can't say no after I told him to take me, so what should I do? (link)
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I think you should talk to him about this and tell him to just be himself around you. And if he agrees then take him to the dance and give him a chance you might end up liking him, but if he does not want to stop being ghetto then explain you can not go with him and you dont like the way he is behaving. he should understand your views and take them into consideration. This should make you realize if you like him or not!
Hope this has helped feel free to ask for any advise at anytime-xx
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I am a girl and I have been talking to this 19 year old who is not like other guys that I have had a relationship with before...(He's not one of those guys that wants to get in my pants) - he's actually the nerdy/music lover/guitar player type that goes to college and trust me, he's not going to screw me over. Moving on, I am only 16. :( I know it's illegal to date him and all, but he really is the cutest along with being funny and an overall fantastic personality over any guy friend I have. I also feel kind of foolish for liking someone 3 years older than me. We haven't hung out, only talked in person a whole lot. Though, we have talked about hanging out.. Anyways, I know my parents would absolutely go ape shit if they found out how old he is.. If he picks me up and comes to the door, am I suppose to tell my parents that he's 19 ? Or should I lie about it ? I have no idea what to do. (link)
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This guy sounds really nice and he will treat you well. And just think your parents want that kind of guy for you. It not illigal in many places for this age gap, it actully very normal where i come from but i understand things are different in your state. Your parents should be happy if you are and explain to them that he is not like other guys your age he is not only after one thing and he really cares!
Hope this has helped you and feel free to ask me for more advise thankyou-xx
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i was reading some questions on here and people were saying how they love their partner but they're not IN love with them...whats the difference? (link)
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Well the difference is they care for them dearly but they do not have that special connection with them anymore. They do not feel that they are made for each other and they dont do all the romantic things they did at the start of the relationship.
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hey i have this confusing thing going on...i got to know this guy,very cute,great personality,different then so much other guys and he wants a relationship and i dont know how i feel towards him..ive never fallen in luv or been in a relationship before or do i know how it feels like to fall in love..
this is exactly what i think and feel
im happy and scared when he goes online,when he says sweet stuff to me and how he wants a relationship i feel so happy and when he talks of his girl frreinds i feel angry
but then when hes too sweet and into me i start thinking although hes the perfect guy...i dont know if ill be happy if im with him...it happened once that we werent gonna get together and it wuz geting complicated and my freinds told me to forget him and when they did i fealt depressed....when everything wuz ok again i wuz happy then....i wuz like confused
i like him SO much one day,next day im just confused and i realllly dont know what im feeling =[[[
i listen to slower romantic music now,smile when i think bout him and think bout him alOT....but i dono =[[[[
is it a crush,like or love??? (link)
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I think this is just a crush, he is sweet talking you and you can get over him. But he sounds really nice and i think you should give him a chance and see how you feel. I think you should give this a try.
thankyou-x
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I'm 16/f and a junior in High school. I've liked plenty of guys and have had a few friends and all but, if I can't talk about "doing it" with someone, or wearing tighter clothes, I don't fit in, or I'm not "hot enough" to date anyone. I'm so sick of this. I feel like a complete loser because I haven't slept with a guy (or even kissed one for that matter). It's annoying, I just want to get through High school, but it's hard when you have to do certain things to be friends with people. Any advice?
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it sounds like you feel you have to prove something to these people but at the end of the day just be yourself. You dont have to fit in to this sterotype. Just do what you want with a guy in your own time and dont rush into anything. you are not a loser just sensible and when those girls that are having sex you can find someone special.
Thankyou feel free to ask for more advise -x
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Okay well me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month. He says he would never lie to me and never hurt me and all that. Well i caught him lying to me one time and he admitted that he was lying and he said he was sorry and was begging me not to break up with me because he liked me so much. I forgave him because he admitted lying and then promised he would never do that again. But right now i am acared that he will lie again. Some guys learn their lesson and don't do it again and some are "once a liar, always a liar." So i don't know which he is. he told me he wouldnt do it again but i cant stop thinking about if he will or not. What should i do? (link)
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I think you should give the guy a chance, he sounds sorry and as they say "everyone deserves a second chance". If he does end up lieing again you gave it a go and he can not blame you for breaking his heart. Just dont think about him lieing and concentrate on the good things he does.
Hope this has helped feel free to ask more questions-x
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I have ALOT of enemies, and haters, and stuff like that. well anyways, last year (2008) my house was egged 8 times and i knew who did it half of those times. and this year, (2009) i thought it had stopped but my house just got egged again. these people are ruthless. what should i do? call the cops? its happned now a total of 9 times and im so sick of it! (link)
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I would tell the police and see what they can do about it or even go to your housing officer. Dont react to them and the worst thing to do is get angry and start accusing because that will just make them even more determined to do it.
Thankyou-x
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ok so I go to this singing school and we have bands and stuff and we play at venues. Well there's this guy let's call him.. M. So recently we just had a concert and he was really nice. He's always been. I'm going into highschool next year and I can tell he kinda likes me because right before my singing lessons I was watching my friend do her lesson and I herd the door open to the room they were in and I guess he kinda saw me so instead of going the other way which his friend started walking he's like no let's go thisvway and then all his friends came and we were all just standing there and it was really awkward. My question is what do I talk to him about and do you think he likes me? He always says hi 2 me. And sometimes when I pass his bandroom when he's practicing he always similes and ya so helllppppp (link)
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I think he likes you, sounds like hes waiting for you to make the first move and after all whats the worst that can happen. He is always friendly which is a good qulity and he sounds like a nice guy go for it!.
thankyou-x
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What kinds of things do boys find attractive in a girl? What are some turn ons? Nothing dirty please! (link)
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Personality is a big thing who wants to be dating someone who is dull?.. Also guys like eyes and a lovely smile. You have to have a deep attraction to a guy that is special. Dont base everything on looks.
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they say chris brown
beat up rihanna?!
wtf haha
is that true?
im just wonderin cuz i like heard it
and i was pretty shocked. (link)
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This is true he beat her up after they had a arguement. There are pictures leaked onto the net just type in her name in google. She is badly bruised and biten. This type of abuse should not be tolerated. There are rumors that she has to get plastic surgery but i can not say for sure this is true.
Thankyou-x
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All my friends always call me anorexic and skinny and other stuff that really hurts my feelings.Im not anorexic im just really skinny but ive tried everything to gain weight and they didnt work.Can anyone please tell me how can i gain weight and fast???Thank you so much!!!!! (link)
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No way, dont try and gain weight. you are who you are and never change for anyone. There proberly feeling bad about there weight and trying to put you down. Just ingore them and let them know that you are not ashamed of your petite frame they will be shocked. Lots of people would love to be naturally skinny and you dont realize how lucky you are. Talk to your friends and tell them how you feel tell them it hurts and they should stop if they are true friends.
Thankyou feel free to ask me for advise anytime -x
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There is this guy that I really like a lot. The thing is i've never met him. He lives a state over. Anyway I told my friend that I really liked him, and i'd talk about him and how great he really is. Well when I showed my friend his picture, she wanted to talk to him. So they started talking, she has nick names for him, they talk more than him and I do. I just don't get it, she flirts with him all the time, everytime they talk. She says that's just how she is with guys. Also she has a boyfriend. So i've pretty much hit rock bottom with what happened tonight. They were talking and she told me what part of what they were saying because it was funny. She said he needs to go to bed, and he said she needs to go to bed, then she said alright father, and he said i'd rather be your mother. At first she didnt get it either until she thought about it, and then she got what he was saying. He said that because the other night when they were talking he said something about being her mother and spanking her all the way to her bed or something. When she told me about that, I almost just broke down. She does that all the time. She talks to him and flirts with him and then reads me what their saying. I just can't understand any of it. She didnt want to talk to him until she saw his picture. I mean she knew that I liked him a lot and yet she still just flirts with him right in front of me or reads me their conversation. I guess what I wanted to know is, what do I do about this? Do I just forget about him, and move on? Do I...gosh I dont even know what I should do. He really is such a great guy. I just can't stand the fact that my best friend does this. She flirts with every guy she talks to whether she knows I like them or not, she even flirts with other guys in front of her boyfriend. And one time when we were at the movies I saw a really cute guy and I just wanted to point out that he was cute and she just says yeah he was staring at me. I just..I dont know what to do. She's my best friend really my only friend. Please just tell me what you think about all of this, and what you would do, or some things that ou could do in this situation. Any answers are greatly appreciated. Thank you in advance. (link)
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she sounds like she is jealous of you getting a close relationship. And shes telling you what he is saying she is just trying to hurt you, thats not nice. But think about it your saying hes a great guy but yet he knows thats your best friend. It takes two and he sounds like a bit of a player. Tell her she has a boyfriend and that she should respect him and you or she will lose both of you. Also a long distance relasionship will be difficult and is he really worth it theres plenty more fish in the sea, friends and boyfriends. x
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which guys like better short hair or long hair? plus bangs? I just cerous. (link)
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Well even though guys just dont like you for your hair this is my advise. Well ask your hair dresser to do a style that will suit your face. i Have long hair, but friends with short hair that really suit there face and guys are into them. Do your hair to fit your personality after all thats what really matters.
Thankyou-x
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