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boyfriend lies.
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Okay well me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month. He says he would never lie to me and never hurt me and all that. Well i caught him lying to me one time and he admitted that he was lying and he said he was sorry and was begging me not to break up with me because he liked me so much. I forgave him because he admitted lying and then promised he would never do that again. But right now i am acared that he will lie again. Some guys learn their lesson and don't do it again and some are "once a liar, always a liar." So i don't know which he is. he told me he wouldnt do it again but i cant stop thinking about if he will or not. What should i do?
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Its hard to build trust with the one you love after they hurt you with a lie. "once a liar always a liar" maybe true but so is "Time heals all wounds" you have to wait and he has to earn your trust back.
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i still think you should give him a chance. everyone makes mistakes and although he said he would never lie, it's easy to lie and sometimes people (especially people who like someone a lot) lie to impress others..and not in a malicious way. just give him another chance and if he admits to lying again, then you can make a decision on whether to carry on the relationship. until then, don't worry about it =)
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I think you should give the guy a chance, he sounds sorry and as they say "everyone deserves a second chance". If he does end up lieing again you gave it a go and he can not blame you for breaking his heart. Just dont think about him lieing and concentrate on the good things he does.
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I think that you should trust him until he proves you wrong. However, be very wary of what he tells you. I mean trust him, but just have it in the back of your mind that there is a slight chance that he's lying.
If you catch him lying again, then he is an official chronic lier and not the best guy to date.
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I agree, it does depend on what kind of lie it was... but a lie IS a lie...
If he's promising that he won't lie to you anymore, make sure he doesn't. That means, if you ever find out he has lied to you, ask him WHY did he do it? Ask him why was he scared to tell you the truth? Why didn't he keep his promise... If you let him get away with it, he'll do it again... good luck! =]
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Well first of all it depends what he lied about...
if it was something small like what time he'd be somewhere etc... or if its something bigger like he said he was hanging out with his guy friends when really he was with a girl...
it really depends on the degree of the lie...
if you let me know what he lied about, i can help you more.
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