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Member Since: March 3, 2009
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Last Update: March 6, 2009
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Why cant i find the right guy? (link)
XD thats the question of life. Then again why cant it rain when theres a drought. If you stop looking so hard the right guy will come to you.


So me and this guy have only been dating for a little while and well me and him started to make-out last night and I told him I wanted to take things slow. I don't like to just jump into things you know? Thats not who I am. But he kept pushing and pushing to have sex and I kept telling him no. Well he just started kissing me again and I thought he understood that I wasn't going to have sex but then before I knew it he was pulling my pants off and started having sex with me even though I told him no. I didn't know what to do. I pretty much just shut down.... I feel completely horrible now. After that happened last night I can't stop thinking about what happened and I don't know what to think or what to do. I feel completely used and ashamed..... I don't know what to do now. I feel like it's my fault. (link)
wow okay. See the thing is this boy probably always gets what he wants and when you said no it probably didnt process.Anyway its not your fault at all there are jerkish guys in this world and you found one.If your still with this guy leave him now befor things get worse.


my friend/ the guy i liked and he liked me back expelled and said he was gnna kill himself so i told the principal when we were getting questioned and he neede dproof so i showed him an mns convo where my friend lets call him bob said he was gunna kill himself and the guy who got him expelled and the principal got the police involved and now as far as i know i got him arrested. now i feel really bad and i think he hates me but i haven'/t been in contact wiht him but he has been on mns in the past couple of days what should i do? (link)
Alot of people never know nwhat to do in a situation like that. I give you props for helping out a friend. Anyway if he doesnt see that you tried to help him well then he wont ever return the favor for you. You should think of the good deed that you did not the ungrateful person who doesnt know how to say thank you.


do guys ever finger girls when they're on their period? its never happened to me but if he starts going down should i say something? (link)
akwardly i had the same thing happen to me. Well what you do is move your pelvis back so that he knows you dont want him to do that. Just tell him not now. If he asks why say your not in the mood. Really what would you rather have, him knowing you have your period or being displeased for five minutes.Hope it works good luck!


15/f
Okay well me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month. He says he would never lie to me and never hurt me and all that. Well i caught him lying to me one time and he admitted that he was lying and he said he was sorry and was begging me not to break up with me because he liked me so much. I forgave him because he admitted lying and then promised he would never do that again. But right now i am acared that he will lie again. Some guys learn their lesson and don't do it again and some are "once a liar, always a liar." So i don't know which he is. he told me he wouldnt do it again but i cant stop thinking about if he will or not. What should i do? (link)
Its hard to build trust with the one you love after they hurt you with a lie. "once a liar always a liar" maybe true but so is "Time heals all wounds" you have to wait and he has to earn your trust back.




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