Last year my grandpa called me alot hof horrible names. I havent talked to him since and he hasnt tried to apologize. Thing is it hurts me ao much that he did this and i dont think its right for my brother n sis to suffer because of me. I will never forgive him, but i am willing to try. He hasnt been to any family events like christmas or thanksgiving or my brother and sisters birthday. I need to call him because I know his time is coming soon and i dont want our last words to be bad ones. Im scared though. Scared hes going to yell at me like before. It just hurts me so much to not see him anymore bc we used to be soo close, im even crying as im writing this. I just want my grandpa back the he used to be. What should I do? Should I call him? What do I Say? Do I not call him? What do i do???
Additional info, added Monday March 2 2009, 10:46 pm: I was thinking the best way to make this up to my sister n brother and grandma is for him to come to my birthday. is that a good idea?. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? greatadvise-x answered Tuesday March 3 2009, 6:34 am: I think you should call him, and tell him how much his name calling hurt you explain to him. Because after all like you said hes not going to be around long and how bad would you feel if you never got the chance to make-up. Invite him to your birthday and explain that you would love if he could make it, this will make him feel wanted again. he has proberly feeling just as bad as you but does not want to addmit it.
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