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I forced the kid i was babysitting to do drugs.


Question Posted Thursday May 10 2007, 11:36 pm

I was babysitting this ten year old... he was bein a brat and wouldnt go to sleep... my girlfriend was there and we couldnt have any time alone... so we had coke n we did it cause we were gonna have to stay up to watch him... he said he wanted to try so we let him... he started running around and actin like an indian... we got a pipe and some pot and smoked... he wanted to try but when he did he coughed n said he didnt want to do it... i told him if he didnt he would die... so we smoked 3 bowls with him and he got sleepy and went to bed... I feel bad that i gave this kid drugs... His parents never found out... what should i do???

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christina answered Tuesday August 7 2007, 8:49 pm:
I just wanna ask you something real fast, okay?


WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU!? What in the hell made you think that giving a 10 year old drugs was the right thing to do? You are a fucking idiot, and I HIGHLY suggest you turn yourself into the police RIGHT NOW.


You are a waste of skin & disgust to mankind. You really, really need to rethink yourself, and your morals. After you do that, NEVER, EVER babysit again. I can't believe those people let you into their home.


You're a horrible person, and I hope you rot in prison & hell for the things you've done to that innocent little boy. You're disgusting. And another thing, punch your girlfriend in the face, cause she's just as stupid as you are.


Fucking A.

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Brandi_S answered Thursday June 21 2007, 3:49 pm:
You know, I have to say it-

It could KILL a 10 year old CHILD to give them cocaine. That is HOMICIDE, buddy.

It would be considered intentional homicide, as well, considering you damn well KNOW it can kill an ADULT, and you gave it to a CHILD.

If someone gave my 10 year old CHILD cocaine? Woo, buddy.

I'd have the police knock down their door the minute my child told me about it. I would see to it that they were tried and convicted of attempted homicide. They'd be spending their youth behind the bars of a women's prison, not juvie.

And you FORCED him to smoke pot.

What an asshole you are.

I sure hope you are kidding, and even if you are kidding, you are still a seriously warped individual to even consider making such a sick joke.

ygs-29/f

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yoliv answered Thursday June 21 2007, 1:17 pm:
Not to be mean, but you sound like a retard. Why the heck would you give a ten year old drugs?!?!? and just cuz he wouldnt go to sleep? tell his parents because they will probably find out eventually. You coulda killed that little kid.

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Alli answered Sunday June 17 2007, 10:21 pm:
wow you have problems for doing it yourself but makign a poor little child do it as well! you really need to think of what could have happened to this child. what the hell would you haev done if this kid died... you really need to tell his parents no matter the cost. his parents could sue yours. if you girlfriend made you do this then you sho7uld definately dump her but if you did it to her you really need to think how many people's lives you put ion danger by doing this. 1) you aren't supposed to bring anyone with you...would u bring a friend to mcdonalds? 2)your not suppoesed to bring drugs to ur job! 3)your supposed to take care of this child! JUST BE THE HELL LUCKY THIS CHILD DIDNT DIE!! you need to confess and get a theropist., this child will never ever want to be bab ysat again. think of everything this child went through he could be mentally horrified and very sick after this. you need to quit with this child and quit babysitting as well. quit drugs as well and you need to pray to God that you will still get accepted into Heaven!! <><ALLI

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shadows answered Sunday June 10 2007, 10:13 pm:
dude you are really stupid you dont give kids drugs to put him asleep he could have died that night!!!! you need to think let him do simething to get him tired and then he would have gone to sleep so think of other ways! you freaking idiot!!!!

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MAK answered Tuesday June 5 2007, 2:12 pm:
That's cruel, evil, contemptuous!!!! "I feel bad that i gave this kid drugs" YOU FEEL BAD?!?!?!??! You should be feeling MUCH more than that.

First of all, you are not even supposed to have brought drugs to that place (nevermind your dumbass girlfriend). Did you know that it could have killed him???? He's a ten year old!!!! I know some 20 year olds that tried pot for the first time, and got really sick!!!! You probably ruined this little boy's health.

Also, this experience has scarred this boy for life... he didn't want to do it, but you forced him!!! How could you??? Now he's probably going to turn into someone like you, a drug addict, later on in his life.

I really think you do not see the seriousness of what you have done.

Please promise me you will never, EVER babysit again... even if you don't have drugs, who knows what else you are capable of doing?

As to what you should do: go to a therapist. This is important. Going to a therapist might save you from doing other horrible things in the future. Also, tell the boy's parents. He is probably sick with the flu, or so the parents think. This is just the after-effects of smoking pot. Also, the parents will need to take their ten-year old to the therapist, to treat him for the emotional trauma he has suffered.

I know this is super embarassing, and this is the last thing you want to do, but you need to face the consequences of your actions. You have to tell the boy's parents... even you don't, they will find out. It is better to tell them yourself, it will somewhat save you from losing your dignity.

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LoveNJstyle answered Friday May 11 2007, 3:10 pm:
never babysit again.. please.
this story is so ridiculous that i don't think telling the parents would do any good because they probably wouldn't believe that someone they hired to watch their kid gave the kid drugs.
get some treatment for yourself and your girlfriend. this is wrong and you should feel absolutely horrible for your actions. <3

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xoxchewiexox answered Friday May 11 2007, 1:07 pm:
I cant believe you gave drugs to this kid??!?!?!!!!!!
what kind of babysitter are you? god i hope that kid tells his parents that you gave him drugs! i think u should tell his parents. Or your parents for that matter. Seriosly get some councelling.. and dont you ever go near a child again.

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kick_me answered Friday May 11 2007, 8:04 am:
u gave him coke!?!?! what the hell is wrong with you!!!!! what ever happen to reading him a bed time story or giving him warm milk or rubbing his back until he falls asleep has society gone mad!!!! i think so you should never ever babysit ever again lets jus pray you dont have any little brothers or sisters or will have any time soon

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burryyourheadd14 answered Friday May 11 2007, 1:22 am:
thats fucked up. go die.
gave a 10 year old drugs.. you should just kill yourself now.

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TheWallflower answered Friday May 11 2007, 1:11 am:
I'd say you never babysit again.

I'd also say you should go talk to a therapist to go work out your priorities. You wanted alone time so you gave a kid coke, sounds like someone has some fucked up morals...possibly because of something fucked up in his subconsciousness.

And since your girlfriend agreed with it, sounds like she's pretty fucked up. Stay away from girls like that.

But then again, you're probably a teen, and you're on coke. Not much of a chance you're going to go somewhere good with your life right?

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clouded_bluee answered Friday May 11 2007, 12:42 am:
you are a fucking dumbass. it was your responsibility to take care of that child. you should know some kids don't always go to bed on time, or when you want them too. you should never give children drugs. I recommend youdont babysit. and you should feel bad !!

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xokristabelle answered Friday May 11 2007, 12:21 am:
Keeping in mind that I'm not in any way antidrug...

First of all, I highly recommend not babysitting again, at least for a while. No offense, but you're obviously not responsible and/or capable of taking care of the kid. Rule one of babysitting is not to hang out friends/girlfriends, it's distracting. And you need to be alert and take care of the kid. There has to be a better way for you to make money...

Coke can kill people the first time they use it (yes, it's actually true). What if you had killed the kid? When (it's not "if") his parents find out, you're gonna be in a ton of trouble. Like I said, you really shouldn't be babysitting, but next time, try reading him a story or sitting with him until he falls asleep.

Really hoping this is a joke question, if not...well...just try not to get caught.

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freyball answered Friday May 11 2007, 12:10 am:
uhhh peer presures a biotch but if you tell the parents you will get in deep poop so just keep it on the down low and it will go away and dont feel bad unless you look out your window and see the kid selling drugs on the corner

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smallsamemo answered Friday May 11 2007, 12:04 am:
i think that you made a big mistake for smoking especially with a young kid !
tell his parents
i mean you were responsible for him
THINK OF THE EFFECTS AND WHAT COULD OF HAPPENED !
you need to tell the parents and get this off your chest , because you are liable for anything that happened the time you were watching him .

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