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me & my boyfriend had sex with out a condom. i know stupid. he took it out before he cummed. but i heard pre cum can get you pregnant? (link)
well yeah you heard right all i can reallu say is that you needed to pay attention alot more and before you want to do it again go and get protection


yea well i got my carialge percied and i orderd these real earing onling and there real white gold and i only have my percing in for like 2 weeks and i wanna change it . would it be okay if i change it and kept it in for the rest of the time??


please answer! (link)
for get the other 2 people i have my ear peirced to and yeah you can change it out now and let it go for the rest of the time but just make sure you clean it though


i have had this crush for a while. hes been my best friend for a really long time...and he likes me, and he knows i USED to like him, but he doesnt know i do now.

we're supposed to go on a double date next saturday to see the eye. but he and i are just going as friends. but the people we are going with are going out. soo yeah. pretty weird.

anyyywwhhoooo....do i tell him i like him? and if i should, when??? like, middle of the movie, when we're waiting for our ride, or what? (link)
i agree with sea girl but also do this look at him and make sure your ready to tell him and get his attention and slowly but be honest and tell him you like him towards the beginning of the movie before it actually gets good or you can do it when you meet up and go in i think it be better if you told him sooner but then again it could be a bad thing i highley say tell him durigng the beginning of the movie be like this :hey well i need to tell you something' use that for a start off


my knee has been hurting for a week or two now. i dont remember doing anything that hurt it, but its my right knee just to the left of my knee cap. its usually fine just walking but shoots pain when i extend it or bend my leg up. anyone know what it could be or what i could do to help it? i cant really afford to see a doctor about it. (link)
i have the same problems its nothing serious its just the fluids in your knees arent empting out of a pouch
the puch is right beside your knee so when ever you move it pops to lubricate it. i have both problmes in both knees my shoulders my jaw and my elbows haha it sounds like im suppose to be in a hospital haha i did something to get me these problems 2 yrs of football and just being a kid and doing stupid shit btw im 14 and yeah it hurts but you tend to get use to it and just get a check up now and then. since ive had this no doctor check ups and yeah ive been fine it just hurts every now and then. BUT GO GET A CHECK UP


ok. well, i'm like madly in love with this guy name Jacob & like EVERYONE knows it for some reason[i gess its obvisious] & he even knows i like him bkuz of all his friends screaming it in his ears every single day -.- loll.& like yeah. so in math class[4th period]. this guy name Jerry he was holding me[i wanted to let go] while the teacher was teaching.she got annoyed to said to let go on to "get a room"[loll.] everyone looked my way i felt so embarassed >_<
it just so happened that Jacob is in that class. which means he looked at what we where doing.but he only saw me getting away not the hugging part.& near the end of the period, he looked quite sad.
So then in History class[6 period], jacob sits next to me then he all of a sudden he asked what me and jerry was doing that made the teacher say get a room? i told him. cause he really wanted to know. like he wont take nothing as an answer bkuz i told him it was nothing & he was like. oh! it was a somthing alright.

but i wanna know. is that a hint that he likes me?
its been on my mind like crazy! xD
it kind of feels nice having him seemed wooryed about it though hehe.
im 14 btw. so that means im an 8th grader (link)
it sounds like he will say yes but give it a try ask him the day you go to school i think it would work out btw im 14 and a guy im in high school it should work trust me ive gotten alot of ppl here and it works out just make sure you talkk to each other


ok im 14/f
and hes 13/m
but we just meet like umm two weeks ago kinda i kinda saw him around school but never talked to him till friday nioght at the mall idk why i even did but then he found my myspace and we talked a lot and later i found out he liked me!
and i mean hes not my type of guy i more of the preppy kinds of guys but hes total skater and im liek wow
but any way he asked me out an d i said yeha:\ i really cant tell you the reason why but i did and on friday night like 2 weeks later i swe go see juno ok! and of course i see my friend with benefits zac:[
i was like upset because i liked him alot and omfg whos he with but on of the guys my friend tryed to set me up with!and so im all upset because im seeing all these guys i like"d" and then i see nathan !the guy that stude me up:[
wow what a great night right but during Juno i tried to like you know kiss my boyfriend! and we kissed so i tried to make out with him! and he dedise me!like he pules away!what the f"er" i mean come on!right and now im regretting going out with him so what do i do because i like to take things fast and hges a prude dude! (link)
ok 1st KC is an idiot read this cloumn carefully shes 14 ok 1.you should have taking it slower 2. he might of thought you were coming off to fast 3. dont take avantage over a 13 yr old its ok yall are going out but dont rush things with any guy you need to slow down. cuz in high school youll be known as a tramp if you take things to fast just slow down and give it all a chance dont rush into it trust me im a guy of course some guys want sex but i dont think he wants to rush it and just do it i think he actually likes you and wants to make a commitment sooo take it slowly and yeah if he pulls away dont try anything to egg on to it just take you time.


well im 13/f and all my friends have made out, or been fingered and i havent. i really want to, but when your being fingered what are you soppose to do? if i do it to myself is that how it will feel when a guy does it? (link)
i agree with the two other ppl below me yes its different with a guy im a guy and ive done it and yeah its different it makes it alot better when you go through with it just make sure its with someone you know and trust and love dont do it with someone that your not sure and you think hes just in it to do it take your time think about i made the mistake twice and i learned my lesson its stupid to do it with someone you dont know about take your time


is your vagina supost to smell? (link)
well it depends on wat u eat or if u use anything


WHen i was backing up....i hit a car, and i was just wondering if cars ALWAYS dent...like when i hit it my car was fine, but the other car like shook (i wasnt going fast when i hit it)...
Is it possible that i didnt dent it? When i looked at the car like an hour later (the other car, there was a dent...but it looks likes its in the wrong place. But now i'm reallllly worried that it was me and i'm going to get caught...what do i do?????? (link)
THEY ALWAYS Dent sometimes they just pop out if u push in a different spot but they always dent


For halloween my group of friends wants to do a group costume.
Anyone have ideas?


alsooo i had one idea and that was all going as different fairys. like, tinkerbelle, i dk what else..
anyone have ideas of different fairys? (link)
well im going for ICP insane clown posse but its a good thing to do as friends if u just look at what they wear on their face but its a good group thing BUT U HAVE TO WEAR full black


Okay I need slow, sexy R&B songs. That basically talk about sex.
They can be recent or old. But they need to be sexy.

Some examples:
J. Holiday - Bed
Marques Houston - Naked
Ne-Yo - Mirror
112 - U Already Know

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fuck that!! have this song Keith Sweat-Nobody!!!


I'm 16/f. Ever since middle school, I've been wishing for a really great guy to come along and like me. And right now, there's finally a guy who I think is interested in me... well, I'm assuming he is because he's been calling me beautiful and hugging me all the time and just acting like he likes me. But whenever I see him, I feel so nervous and awkward and kinda avoid him and idk why! He's all nice to me and I'm standing there freaking out. But other times, I really want to be with him and stuff. Ugh, I've been wishing for a great guy and now there IS one, but it just makes me so nervous and awkward. I bet he's gonna ask me out soon, but I'm so freaked out of having a boyfriend that I'll probably just end up saying no and regretting it.And plus, he got out of a really long relationship with my friend, and she's not over him, so I'd feel like a total jerk if I went out with him because I know she'll feel really upset. He's such a sweet guy and he obviously cares about me, but I just don't know what to do. I've been so upset over not having a boyfriend and when I finally get the opportunity, it's so complicated. I'm so confused right now and it's all I've thought about lately. Please help! (link)
don't panic, look im a guy and i like this girl so much and shes older than me btw 14/m and shes beautiful and yeah, if this guy cares about you so much you should give him and chance and you need to relax about him and your decision. its going to be ok just need to relaz and listen to your heart. itll be ok


hi i was wondering if its necessary to learn 6 string guitar before starting on bass guitar?
like i already know basic stuff like plucking and a few chords?
what do you think? (link)
no the bass guitar is playing the rythem of the song all that u need to do is hold a fret and strum its not hard the bass isnt hard the 6 string is hard to learn because of the fact u have to learn chords i play 6-string,bass,and the drums i noe for a fact tht the bass is easire thean the 6-string so anyways you do not need to learn how to play the six string


I'm a 13 year old female. There's this guy I like A LOT, it's different from the other guys too. I was planning on kissing him tomorrow night at the movies, but now I'm having second thoughts, because I was on the phone today earlier and we were talking but his friends were at his house, which whom I can't stand, and vice versa. So they kept grabbing the phone and hanging up. I quit trying to call back but then I tried one last time, and then he answer, not his friends. And we talked for like 30 minutes, because he told me he was supposed to be meeting a girl B which I have no problem with but more girls too. And I was like oh, then he was like who are you going with and I said my friend A which he can't stand, and he said not A.C right. I was like nope wrong it's her. And he was like then don't bother trying to find me, and I'm not calling you when I get there. I was like you are so inconsiderate and mean. And he said how, I said because your inviting all your little girlfriends, and I can't bring my one best friend? You don't even care about anyone else's feelings! And I don't know but he went to go do something, and I heard one of his friends say I don't want you to talk to her. So I decided I wouldn't call back. But tomorrow night what should I do? Should I act like none of it happened and kiss him, or just not watch the movie with him at all and keep ignoring him? Please help, sorry if it was long. (link)
yeah us guys do say bros before hoes i sau fuck that shit ill go and talk to what ever girl i want to i dont care what anyone says if my friend don;t like who i am going out with tuff for them because i am in love with this girl and no matter what happens i wouldnt let my friends take control of that but hey to me if his friends are going to be there i wouldnt go and wouldnt talk to him at all i say drop him and move on.


Hey. Ok so your 14, so I wanted to ask you this. What are some signs of a guy liking a girl. Like what do you do when you like a girl. Plus, is it purposely or not ? Thanks (link)
ok i see where you come from um ok you would like try to follow her but not to let her know u like her but yeah you would try to get close to her and if she talks to you back yeah you have a chance sometimes you would be like damn she is fine or she is got a nice personality but yeah thats how i act but if you try on her tell me what happens


I am 13 years of age. I have been put in a situation where I could have sex. I really like the guy and I think he likes me. I am not sure if I should have sex with him or not. I really want to. I need advice. HELPPP!! (link)
dont do it im 14 and im a guy and i have a girlfriend and sure ive thought about it and stuff but im not going to do it because i think about the worst like what if the condom breaks and i have a kid im only 14 i cant take care of a child yet so ask your self can you take care of him even if you have school im not ready for it you shoudltn either because you are way to young to be thinking about it im sorry but they are right along with me so you need to make sure its with someone you love because yeah guys will just get one thing and is to sleep with a girl so i wouldnt do it if i was you so make the right choice because you are only 13 and you are not sure of the guy likes you or not


14/f, if it matters (:
i want to find songs like these;
When I Go Down - Relient K
Save Us - Cartel
Gravity - John Mayer

my friend died last friday, her funeral is thursday, and i'm supposed to make a CD of songs like that,

like, rock-ish, but slow songs, and sad.
thanks in advance for any help (link)
if its a guy you would put gary allen-tough little boys i know its not rock ish its a good sad country song
listen to StoneSour-through the glass
and NickelBack-If everyone cared so these are what i think but i could look up more


hello, i went to find out my color shceme at my local suit place, and they looked at me like i had three heads. how do i find out what colors suit me, ? ill try to add some pictures...hope itll helps













1i think the first time i posted this, i messed up, so mods please forgive me. (link)
ok look to me im a guy ok... i dont think of what i wear that much.. the colors that i choose actually depend on my mood or what i feel confortable with and im not a big fan with the other people saying what brings out your eyes to me its a bunch of bullshit because if you have one thing a guy will probably dislike what you are wearing..look wearing black is for my mood and what im confortable with white i wear it when im working or when im relaxing i wear green to bring out my tan and my eyes because they mix and when i wear green i try to wear it with white or black so it really depends on how you feel or what you are confortable with so.. yeah


im afraid to masturbate because i dont want my cherry to pop. im going to start going to a OBGYN soon and if my cherry is popped, will she think im not a virgin? is it possible to tell if a person is a virgin or not? im 14/f by the way immediate responses appreciated.! (link)
first what is OBGYN? and ok i dont think you will pop your cherry by masturbating so... yeah


Okay. Im on birthcontrol. I take my pills regularly. Me and my boyfriend have sex..alot. I was wondering with the use of a my birthcontrol and a VCF pack.{a spermicide killer} that he could cum in me..and i wouldnt get pregnant? i dont know if i would or not. only answer if you truly know. thanks in advance (link)
you will probably at a very high risk if he doesnt use a condom its a simple thing to remember he always has to wear one no matter if you are on the pill or not...




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