Member Since: June 10, 2007 Answers: 16 Last Update: June 10, 2007 Visitors: 1254
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okay im confused bout something. im a chrisitian and i really want 2 do everything right but there are 2 things i cant give up ( sex with my boyfriend and wearing showy clothes and cursing ) and everything else am perfect wit.
the sex wit my friend one _ im kinda engaged 2 him and we'r gonna get married does that still make it wrong
2. is it wrong 2 wear showy clothes, can u stil be a good christian
3. i cant help cursin i do it witout thinkin
pleaes this is only for real believers. tell me wat is right in GODs eyes thank u (link)
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i had that problem a few yas ago and you know as long as you are a believer in God he forgives so dont beat yourself up about
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18/f
ok so there was only one time that i was able to ejaculate during an orgasm. now my boyfriend thinks that everytime we have sex i should be able to have a female ejaculation and i try really hard to but i end up peeing which is really embarassing and gross because i dont want to pee all over him. why can't i ejaculate anymore? (link)
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maybe you didnt exactly have an orgasm you might have just came hard and then there is a possiblity that your not peeing because the female ejaculation seems like pee but its not its just clear fluid that comes out of the clit but just dont try and dont think about it you have to let your body take control and if it is that good itll come
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My boyfriend and I have been debating about whether or not sperm is still active when it hits air. Recently we've had sex (we use a condom) sperm will be on me or him and we have been really really worried (paranoid) that it will travel into my vagina and make me pregnant. I've recently heard that once sperm hits the air it's dead. True? (cant stop thinking that i could be pregnant!)
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no hun you cant get pregnant from sperm being on the outside of you vagina explanation: the sperm has to traveo up your fallopian tubes then has to be implanted in you egg and the sperm has to swim the sperm cant swim on a dry vagina so no you cant and just for proof go to webmd.com
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ookaaay so i got my period on the 25th of april. now im ussaully on a normal period cycle. i had sex with my boyfriend on either the 2nd or 9th of may. we used a condom. and i wasnt itchy down there. but i havent had my period since. and im having horrible stomach pains. its been 41 days since i got my period. does this sound like im pregnant?... and are there any signs i can look for? (link)
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you can look for tender breast sour stomach the areola on your breast may change but you should really go to the doc and or take a preg test a week after you missed cycle but best thing is to go to the doc
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Hi...I was wondering when you're pregnant I know you can still have sex unless directed by your doctor not to for the safety of your baby...anyways when you are pregnant and having sex your husband can cumm in you right???????
Just wondering...I mean it would make sense since you're already pregnant....Thank you ! (link)
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yes he can
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i have had two sexual partners and i have not enjoyed sex with either of them! if it goes for too long i end up becoming unlubricated and we cant continue its really embarassing! although i can bring myself to orgasm, i dont know whats going on and i dont want my boyfriend to think its him when it actually happens with all guys (link)
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it a mind thing if you might be thinking like "damn im ready to get this over with before i get dry" then chances are you wont enjoy it you just have to let your mind go free and let your body take over and allow it to feel pleasure if you say your orgasming i dont see how you couldnt be enjoying it
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The past 2 times me and my boyfriend have been having protected sex..(with condom)we have both been finish, he usually goes to the bathroom to clean himself up with absolutely no problems. But the past 2 times that he's done that and he's noticed that the sperm slided off alittle onto his testical area with the condom on (he got soft). we are both extremely worried that we got sperm on me. He says he KNOWS that it was around my vaginal area but didn't go inside. But we both washed off really well. Do you think I could be pregnant? (I can't get it off my head) (link)
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sweetheart if it was on the outside your not pregnant and if and only if some got in the females vagina kills over %50 of the males sperm so if only a little came out then you shouldnt be worried
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me 16/ bf 17
well me and my boyfriend have been to dying to have sex for a while, but we don't know when we should. and i'm afraid to get pregnant and he's afraid of getting me that way.
we have protection, but does it really help? would we have nothing to worry about if we did use it?
and without protection, when would be the absolute best time to have sex without getting me pregnant?
thanks in advance.
note: i don't want ppl saying we shouldn't do it. i know we probably shouldn't, but it's our choice. (link)
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lol...i liked the ending note i had sex very young and i can honestly say then i thought i was ready now with a 4 year old daughter i can honestly say i wasnt her father used protetion but it busted so he was about to graduate and our daughter was his present basically it is your choice but if you have doubts it might not be time
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okay so i get all the signs of pms but arent they the same signs as pregnancy?
like i eat peanut butter and i get moody
but i have a weird discharge and its not blood or like anything but its like a brownish color.. then sometimes it looks like theres a little blood in it.. and me and my boyfriend were sexual last weekend but we didnt have sex.. but he fingered me... is it possible that he may have had cum on his hands and now im pregnant?
or does it mean my periods coming because its been going on for like 5 days and i feel like it happened after me and my boyfriend did stuff.. and im scared. (link)
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sweetheart you cant get pregnant from a guy fingering you you have to actually have intercourse
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Okayy Okayy,
So i have this boyfriend.
We are thinking about sex.
I want to && everything but I herd that you bleed during it ..
I dont want to bc i think thats embarssing !!
What shuld i do ? Do you always bleed? (link)
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if your not comfortable and not sure about it dont do it once you lose you virginity you will never get it back and there will be a time you will regret and you seem young, oh yeah and no you dont bleed while having sex in case you doing it on your period
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. We have done everything sexual except anal sex. He has always wanted to try it but from my friends experiences I'd rather not. Recently I have been thinking about it and i kind of wanted to try it but I don't know how bad it will hurt. Can anyone share there experiences or thoughts to help me decide? (link)
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it does hurt but if your 18 or older you can go to an adult shop and get anal numbing gel it helps lub helps period so theres nothing to a lot of women like it after theyve gotten used to it so you never know it depends on your body and your mind frame of sex
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I have an attraction to older men. Like today, I went to my uncles party and met one of his friends... An older guy who turned out to be really cool and easy to talk to. We had a lot in common, music wise and I just found myself really attracted to him...
But this is common for me, I usualy tend to go after older men. Men who are much much older than me. I'm only 19 and this guy had a 16 year old son already, So i'm guessing he was maybe around 40...
I'm not talking like old wrinkled men either.. so dont think im crazy. lol
Anyway, is this normal & what could be the reason behind it?? cause 20 year old guys just don't do it for me. (link)
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my husband is 14 years older than me i myself have never dated guys closer to my age its just the way some people are and im only 20 so your not weird
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I feel terrible when I pray because I'm defninitely using God. Like I don't praise him at all, I only turn to him when I need help, and he always DOES help me. Which kinda makes me feel worse. How do I get into the habit of turning to him when I'm actually doing good and "dont need him" (of course I always do, but you get the picture!) ?
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God is understanding and believe me lots of people do that sometimes you just have be like thank God for whatever i dont praise him like i could but when good things happen at times i just say thank God
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ok so im bi rite
i like thos girl
which is my best best friend
but i heard she talks about me
i like her though
but i know that she is gonna get grossed out
because when i was just playing telling her i was bi
she took it real serious
and was like ewww
ive hangin out with da wrong people
this and that
wat should i do? (link)
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if she dosent get down like that then you should leave it alone but if she cant except the fact that your bi-sexual then she might not be your bff
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19/F
I just started work in the middle of nowhere... I'm a couple hours' drive from the nearest doctor, and I don't have a car, so I can't go. That's why I'm asking here.
Symptoms:
- Painful urination
- Urgent need to go, but only a little bit comes out
- Only happens while I'm working!
I don't think it's a UTI, because those affect me all the time. What could it be?
Also, if it is a UTI, what can I do to clear it up? I've been trying to drink tons of water to flush my system out, but I'm not peeing any more. I don't have access to cranberry juice, either.
Thank you! (link)
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it could be your kidneys my best advice is for you to get to the doc however you have to if you want to get better
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Well obviously I wear pads when I sleep. I wear the ultra long ones. But I put it so it comes about to the top of the lips, & it goes back to about the middle of my butt. But for like the first two nights of my period I always get blood on my underwear in the back. If I move it back any further, I'd get blood on the front of my underwear. My mom told me to double up pads, but I feel like I'm wearing a diaper. Any other ideas? (link)
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you should wear a tampon and a pad to bed and even when your not in bed it helps that way the pad is just extra protection if you cant change the tampon on time
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