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My boyfriend and I are thinking of having sex but I'm worried. Is it possible to contract syphilis, AIDS or other seriously dangerous diseases if the guy has a condom? He, I know, is not a virgin, and who knows who his ex-girlfriend slept with before him... (link)
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well if you really think your ready... just make sure you use a condom this is very important. im 18 and I almost had sex with a dude that had HIV and he wasnt even going to use a condom. But thank god my bf told me.
be safe girly
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Well I want to ask this one girl that I havn't talked to in a long time to go and do something with me, but I don't want to make it awkward because I havn't seen her in a long time and rarely talk to her anymore but we used to like each other when we went to the same school, but I don't what she's been doing lately. How can i ask her without being awkward?
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well I would just go up to her and say whats up? remember me? and just start talking to her... maybe talk to her a couple times b4 you ask her to do something with you... get her number.
good luck kid
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So you think its fine to shave your pubic hair off? Because Im a little freaked out that guys will get weirded out by it...Do they? (link)
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Shave it! totally! guys dont care its ur body and most of the guys I have ever been with shave!
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I've recently went into a relationship not long ago. I've met this really wonderful guy and he's really a very nice person.
He goes to the same school as me but the sad thing is, our timetables are very different, and we can only meet up at most once a week. Don't tell me to meet him on weekends cos both of us will be too busy catching up on our homework.
I keep thinking and missing him when he's not around me. And it's getting bad because I'm missing sleep over him. Today I actually cried on the phone when I talked to him because I really miss him so much. He told me that I shouldn't tire myself like that. And that it's not healthy for me to go on this way. He told me that I should focus on my work when I have to. I asked him if he thinks of me when he's busy and he said "honestly, no. Because I know I have to be focused". I was so hurt when he said that.
And the thing is, when I get to see him face to face, I tend not to cherish the time we have together and I just waste it away by being shy and stupid.
I really miss him and I can only get to meet him next wednesday. I need help in dealing with me missing him. It's not healthy for me to go on like this. I can't sleep and it's like 5 am in the morning and I have classes at 10am. I am so screwed. (link)
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Wow I totally understand how you feel. My boyfriend goes to school and then after school he goes to work. Over the summer I spent everyday with him. Its so hard for me to go through this. I cant sleep. He told me that it will be ok and that we can make it through this. Im so afraid that we wont. We have been together 9 months. I started crying today cause he told me that im just going to have to understand and deal with it for now. The thing is Idk how. It hurts. I've been taking sleeping pills every night just so I can sleep. I really dont know what to tell you because here I am In the same situation as you. Hold on if you really love him thats what Im doing anyways. Just try to understand and try to sleep... hun I feel ya. Its hard. If you need me and you have msn mine is kursty74@hotmail.com
I hope everything works out for you ok
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Okay there is this boy, of course. He has been my friend for a while now but lately he is really flirty with me and stuff and everyone sees it so i think he might have feelings for me. I'm kinda staring to ger feelings forhim to, but then today i find out that my friend likes him. She doesnt know i know and she doesnt know that i might have feelings for him. I really wanna take it further but i dont wanna hurt my friends feelings since now i know that she has liked him for a while. what should i do? (link)
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Well I've been in this situation before. But I didnt know my friend liked him until I saw her making out with him. She knew that I liked him. Ok well first of all you need to tell your friend that you like him. If he likes you then your friend will understand. Its hard because you dont want to hurt her but the thing is does he even like her? If you havent asked him you should. You dont want your friend to get hurt by this guy do you? What if he doesnt like her? This is all up to you. Think about how you feel and how they feel. What do you want? This is hard.
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so my boyfriend travis and i have been dating for almost 7 months and basically im an idiot. i've cheated on him before but admitted to it then a couple of weeks later and well today we were talking on the phone and i lied to him saying my friend and i were going by to go get piercings and really we were going by another guy friend of ours house to go swimmming and so when my friend called me, i told travis to hold on and then was switchiing over to my friend and i guess i had linked the two calls instead on accident and so when my friend and i were talking he basically heard the whole story of how i might cheat and i was gonna hide the towels for swimming in my bag and everything. he then finally after a while told me that he was gonna go put the towels in his purse and i got the clue and i got scared and hung up.and ive been calling and texting him ever since and now idk what to do... i really messed up.
he's one of those typical nice guys.we havent said i love you yet and but we're pretty close.what do you think i should do? i know he's by his friends house (who by the way,hates me) because i passed by and saw his car.? :( (link)
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Ok well I kinda have been there but it was him not me. Cheating hurts!! Im still hurting. Im still with my boyfriend cause I love him and we worked things out. The thing is if you love him then STOP doing this things to hurt him. What if he did this to you? You would be hurt and probably leave him. If he forgives you then he will always have a problem with trusting you. But it will get better if you stop cheating and lying and shit. I talked to my boyfriend about this and we worked out shit. EVERYONE screws up every once in a while. he forgave you once what makes you think he should forgive you again? If he does he really loves you. We are only human and we have to learn that what we do can hurt others BUT it can hurt us as well. I hope I helped :)
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im 19/f and my husband is 22/m. we have been dating for about 5 years and have been sexually active for about the same amount of time.i want to get pregnant but my husband does not want one. we've tlked about having kids before but he's scared because he does not want a girl. i really want a baby and i am fully capable of taking are of it, i can support it financially. what should i do? how can i convince him? (link)
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Ok... R u sure thats the reason he doesnt want kids? Cause He might have another reason. Im not sure what having a boy or girl has to do with it. Cause if he really loves you he wouldnt care. I dont want you to get upset or anything but it sounds like he doesnt want kids with you for another reason other than cause he doesnt want a girl. Talk to him and ask him what is really up? Have u guys ever had problems? Cause this might be a big one.
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