I've recently went into a relationship not long ago. I've met this really wonderful guy and he's really a very nice person.
He goes to the same school as me but the sad thing is, our timetables are very different, and we can only meet up at most once a week. Don't tell me to meet him on weekends cos both of us will be too busy catching up on our homework.
I keep thinking and missing him when he's not around me. And it's getting bad because I'm missing sleep over him. Today I actually cried on the phone when I talked to him because I really miss him so much. He told me that I shouldn't tire myself like that. And that it's not healthy for me to go on this way. He told me that I should focus on my work when I have to. I asked him if he thinks of me when he's busy and he said "honestly, no. Because I know I have to be focused". I was so hurt when he said that.
And the thing is, when I get to see him face to face, I tend not to cherish the time we have together and I just waste it away by being shy and stupid.
I really miss him and I can only get to meet him next wednesday. I need help in dealing with me missing him. It's not healthy for me to go on like this. I can't sleep and it's like 5 am in the morning and I have classes at 10am. I am so screwed.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? KuRsTy69 answered Friday August 17 2007, 9:15 pm: Wow I totally understand how you feel. My boyfriend goes to school and then after school he goes to work. Over the summer I spent everyday with him. Its so hard for me to go through this. I cant sleep. He told me that it will be ok and that we can make it through this. Im so afraid that we wont. We have been together 9 months. I started crying today cause he told me that im just going to have to understand and deal with it for now. The thing is Idk how. It hurts. I've been taking sleeping pills every night just so I can sleep. I really dont know what to tell you because here I am In the same situation as you. Hold on if you really love him thats what Im doing anyways. Just try to understand and try to sleep... hun I feel ya. Its hard. If you need me and you have msn mine is kursty74@hotmail.com
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