about

hi =] im chelsea
15 yearsss old. 16 in about 4 months.
i look mental in my pic =] heck yeah haha
im a sophomore at oakville.
i have skunk hairsssssss.
my bestie ? brittney ellen !
i never go anywhere without her.
i have a necklace i never take off.
i want my monroe pierced more then anything.
i almost never answer my cell phone.
i lost my best friend of 14 years last summer.
ive gone to a private school before.
i'm always up for a game of guitar hero. :D
my temper can be short when your ANNOYING.
when im mad im straight forward with you.
but i rarely get mad.
NO - I DONT HATE YOU. im just shy occasionally.
im drug-free. and staying that way.
i loveeee rap.
im almost def in my left ear.
i love my friends. id do anythingg for them !

ask me anything.
im here to help =]

advice

I've recently went into a relationship not long ago. I've met this really wonderful guy and he's really a very nice person.

He goes to the same school as me but the sad thing is, our timetables are very different, and we can only meet up at most once a week. Don't tell me to meet him on weekends cos both of us will be too busy catching up on our homework.

I keep thinking and missing him when he's not around me. And it's getting bad because I'm missing sleep over him. Today I actually cried on the phone when I talked to him because I really miss him so much. He told me that I shouldn't tire myself like that. And that it's not healthy for me to go on this way. He told me that I should focus on my work when I have to. I asked him if he thinks of me when he's busy and he said "honestly, no. Because I know I have to be focused". I was so hurt when he said that.

And the thing is, when I get to see him face to face, I tend not to cherish the time we have together and I just waste it away by being shy and stupid.

I really miss him and I can only get to meet him next wednesday. I need help in dealing with me missing him. It's not healthy for me to go on like this. I can't sleep and it's like 5 am in the morning and I have classes at 10am. I am so screwed.

if you want to see him more often you both could go to school earlier and meet up before classes start. that way you can see him everyday.



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me and my friend were with these two guys last night and my friend and one of the guys were gonna hook up. so my friend asks me if i wanted to hook up with the other one so i said yeah sure. so when we get to the point where were about to make out he starts to undo his pants and i was like what the hell? i never said i was giving you a bj and i just got really pissed off because i thought he was a cool guy and not some perv and he turned out to be one. so we sat there and it was so akward and i told to him to go get some other slut but its not gonna be me and im proud of myself for standing up to him but idk maybe i should have done it...also i havent given one either and i have a feeling my friend told him i would give him one because she does shitty stuff like that. was i too harsh on him? ugh im so confuseddd. btw im really sorry this is so long. lol so any advice/opinions would be great :]

thanks guys soo much

NO! you should not have done it. never do something you dont want to do. who cares what your friend said or the guy said. it simply doesnt matter. you do what YOU wanna do and stick to it. dont let people talk you into anything.

you are your own person and you can make your own decisions.

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I want to get my hair cut. I had been looking forward to it all summer. I was planning on getting my hair cut in layers, so I could puff it up to look like big 80's hair.

I was so excited until my mom started saying, "You won't like it. You'll hate it. You'll bitch about it. It's too much of a risk to get it cut, but if you're willing to take that risk, then okay."

I am sort of scared of change. I like my hair the way it is now, but I want to try something new. Ever since my mom said that stuff, I've been scared to get a new hairstyle now. I really want to get something new, but I'm afraid it will turn out terrible.

Do you think I should get my hair cut and take that risk? Or should I just be safe and keep my hair the same?

Here's a pic of my hair right now:
http://a649.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/97/l_4d0f22971daa56982d96c45db7cc7460.jpg

i think you should get it cut ! my hair used to be pretty long too. i was scared also to get my haircut. when i first got it i didnt like it at all for the first 3 days or so. but thats just because i wasnt used to it yet. all my friends always complimented on how cute it looked.

i also got shorter hair with short layers.
and i loveeee it.

my boyfriend did the same thing to me. he told me i wouldnt like it if i got it cut. but he was WRONG and i love it and soo does he.

sooo get it cut. you have nothing to lose .. and even if there is i chance you dont like it you can always get extensions.

good luck
hope i helped =]

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what does this quote mean?and is it from something? (book, movie, show, etc.)

"hatred is found in the girl next to you who just told you she liked your hair"


thanks iwill rate

it means people are fake.

by that i mean. the girl could have told you she liked you hair but seconds later turns around and starts talking smack on you to everyone.

if you need any more explanation just tell me =]

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so i have an awful relationship with my dad, like the worst .. we dont talk he says im a disappointment, my parents are divorced. my priest has become like my dad .. he is my best friend i talk to him about anything he is like a dad to me. i wanna get him a little something to show him i care but idk what. nothing like religious cause he prob has tons of stuff like that, but something special and personal. any ideas?

write him a thank you card. that will probably have the most meaning to it.. and it will show him how much you really appreciate him. write in it how much he has help you and how much it means to you that you can have someone to talk to. tell him it feels good that you can trust him that much to talk to him like you do.

i know it might not seem like a lot to you but believe me he will most definitely enjoy reading it.

because it takes thought to write someone a letter to show how much you care. more thought and care then it takes to go out and buy him a gift.

hope i helped =]

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It’s all about my ol bff kut. I live pon and zi and he fought with my other friend on who was my penguin. Talked about my favorite songs. But ive never told him my favorite songs. But its all on my page ive been telling him to get. Then I stayed at my friend’s house for a week and her cousin Jon was gona too but he invited kut and I came out in all out gothic and he left and wouldn’t look or talk to me.hes now afraid of my best friends and I but still talks to me. Then theirs some parties. 1.Airsoft him showing off us running thought the rainstorm got on teams and he said only if I can be on their team. The team I was on. Big flirts then it went to hell he asked me out I said no…2.school concert we played games like red hands but ended up holding both hands lol. Then a lot of our friends sat at one end of the room sitting on top of each other and kut kept lookin over at me umm sitting and laying up on my guy friend and other people us all with 3 ipods singing haha there was 17 people. And then my friend told me I should get off him. Then teachers came over we all got introuble 3.carnival kut ignored me as I sat with some friends older guys…at midnight away from everyone on the kp playground. Then we all went on rides this was guys and girls. 4. pool parties kut stared at me as I noticed I was sitting up against my other guy friend then I moved. But then some of my friends and I got ina water fight 2 guys and 2 other girls. Then I told kut to join us and then kut got pissed at my friend for grabbin me um same guy I was flirtin with and sittin by.AND. me and kut over aim once I was Xtremely depressed and I said I don’t wana talk to you and that’s when I started the cutting. Then he never got on for over a week then he finally did and I was So SORRY he forgave me but wanted to know what was wrong I don’t know what I said my friend was helping me shes the only one who knows my episodes and how much I cut. And inbetween all this theirs him ignoring me and us flirting and hating and talking and not. He wont even talk over aim well 2 words to every 20 of mine? I don’t know what can I do what happened. One person I didn’t know and 2 of my friends said he was a jerk Im just so confused.what do I do? does he love me as a friend or best friend or ramantic? ..or does he hate me?i asked him if he loved me he said yes but 3rd.
13/f

i really doesn't make sense at all. try to make it a little simpler. just get straight the point. THEN i will do my best to understand and answer.

thanks =]

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would most guys rather be called baby or babe??

babe.

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ok i wen ton vacation for like about a week and left my b.f behind and when i came back its like he chnaged although his not i dont no what it is and i dont wanna ask him cuz he might say its nothing or think im wewird help????

i know you might not WANT to ask him. but if you really want to know thats the only way you can find out. don't try to find out asking other people. because people are full of lies.

don't act suspicious when you ask him.just simply asked whats been going on lately.maybe ask him what he did when you were on vacation.

maybe somethings been bothering him lately ?

like i said. the only way you can find out is if you ask him.

good luck =]
i hope i helped.

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i want to do something for my 16th birthday. nothing big though. i'm not having a huge sweet 16 because i had a quince since i'm 1/2 hispanic.

what's something fun to do that isn't expensive. not a sleepover though, 1/2 of my friends are guyys and i want them there too.

i think you should just have people over and chill at your house. make it fun by puttin up decorations and buy pizza. play music and just have fun. even if most of your friends are guys just have them go home at 11 or so and have the girls stay the night.

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Ok, well tomorrow I'm going to this event so I'm taking things to get signed, and my digital camera.

I'm taking a backpack to hold everything. The thing is I don't have a camera holder thingo. And I'm definitely not putting my camera in my pocket. What can I substitute for a camera bag?

i always put a sock over my camera. so even if it does get bumped around a little it wont get any scratches. also i would find a little make-bag in addition to putting the sock on it.

hope i helped :]

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13/female

I think that i'm in love with my best guy friend Ryan again. We have gone out off and on for about a year seeing other people in between each time we broke up and I am worried that I am in love with him again. The only reason I am worried is because I am currently in a realationhip with someone else who I really enjoy being around and who I can tell anything and he loves me and I say I love him too its just i'm not sure if I mean it sometimes because I keep thinking about Ryan and then I feel like I don't love my bf anymore I love Ryan. I can normally tell if someone likes me and occasionaly it feels like Ryan still loves me but then at times it doesn't (these love hate feelings have been going on since September 06)
Is it possible that I love them both? How do I stop loving Ryan? I don't know what to do. Please don't tell me to listen to my heart because my heart is saying Ryan (has always been saying Ryan and Ryans heart hasn't always been saying me.) And my mind is telling me Mark, my bf and I know for a fact that his heart and mind are saying Miranda(me). Please help any advice is needed and appreciated. Thanks.

love is a sure thing. if you loved either one of them you would KNOW it. you wouldn't have to give it second thought.

from what i can tell i don't think either one of them is right for you. try going single. if you don't love him then your lying to him and even yourself. its just not fair to Mark.

you should just stay best friends with Ryan. because obviously your not meant to be in a relationship. or else it would have worked. hence your on and off relationships.


good luck =]
i hope i helped !

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i want m,y hair to grow and i tried al ot of differnt shampoos and all!! wat can i use to help my hair grown longer!! PLEASE AND THANK YOU!

sleeping with your hair in a tight ponytail at night helps it grow a tinnyyy bit faster. =)

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