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I think I love my best guy friend...again
13/female
I think that i'm in love with my best guy friend Ryan again. We have gone out off and on for about a year seeing other people in between each time we broke up and I am worried that I am in love with him again. The only reason I am worried is because I am currently in a realationhip with someone else who I really enjoy being around and who I can tell anything and he loves me and I say I love him too its just i'm not sure if I mean it sometimes because I keep thinking about Ryan and then I feel like I don't love my bf anymore I love Ryan. I can normally tell if someone likes me and occasionaly it feels like Ryan still loves me but then at times it doesn't (these love hate feelings have been going on since September 06)
Is it possible that I love them both? How do I stop loving Ryan? I don't know what to do. Please don't tell me to listen to my heart because my heart is saying Ryan (has always been saying Ryan and Ryans heart hasn't always been saying me.) And my mind is telling me Mark, my bf and I know for a fact that his heart and mind are saying Miranda(me). Please help any advice is needed and appreciated. Thanks.
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love is a sure thing. if you loved either one of them you would KNOW it. you wouldn't have to give it second thought.
from what i can tell i don't think either one of them is right for you. try going single. if you don't love him then your lying to him and even yourself. its just not fair to Mark.
you should just stay best friends with Ryan. because obviously your not meant to be in a relationship. or else it would have worked. hence your on and off relationships.
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First- I'm going to tell you that if you are EVER unsure about a current relationship- its not a good sign. So if you're telling Mark that you love him- and you are unsure whether you do or not- then you probably don't. So I wouldn't continue dating Mark. It really isn't fair to him, is it? I know that when I broke up with my ex- it was because I felt it wasn't fair to her that I didn't love her- I just liked her as a more than a friend- not LOVE- and I didn't feel right saying "I love you".
So I think if your heart is telling you that you love Ryan- then you love Ryan. I think you should tell him- that way you could possibly get a relationship. Maybe this time you can stay together =D or you can be good friends for awhile and then maybe he'll start to like you again.
--Jack
(15/m)
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