me and my friend were with these two guys last night and my friend and one of the guys were gonna hook up. so my friend asks me if i wanted to hook up with the other one so i said yeah sure. so when we get to the point where were about to make out he starts to undo his pants and i was like what the hell? i never said i was giving you a bj and i just got really pissed off because i thought he was a cool guy and not some perv and he turned out to be one. so we sat there and it was so akward and i told to him to go get some other slut but its not gonna be me and im proud of myself for standing up to him but idk maybe i should have done it...also i havent given one either and i have a feeling my friend told him i would give him one because she does shitty stuff like that. was i too harsh on him? ugh im so confuseddd. btw im really sorry this is so long. lol so any advice/opinions would be great :]
leLovely answered Monday August 13 2007, 7:31 pm: No, that's good that you did that! It's better than you forcing yourself to do something that you didn't want to do. Many girls, even boys are pressured to do things sexually and do it because they don't want to stand up for themselves. It's good that you did. [ leLovely's advice column | Ask leLovely A Question ]
peebles7 answered Monday August 13 2007, 6:15 pm: hey, you did the absolute right thing, don't regret it! you stood up for yourself respected yourself, so don't be ashamed about that.
you definitely weren't too harsh on that guy. so what if he didn't get a bj that night, I doubt he'll have trouble finding some slutty girl to help him out.
try to wait for a guy that you actually like before giving a bj. even though it's not intercourse, it's still a sexual act and it shouldn't just please one person. [ peebles7's advice column | Ask peebles7 A Question ]
hadmeathello answered Monday August 13 2007, 6:14 pm: NO! you should not have done it. never do something you dont want to do. who cares what your friend said or the guy said. it simply doesnt matter. you do what YOU wanna do and stick to it. dont let people talk you into anything.
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