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I'm 18 and about to enter my sophomore year of college. Feel free to ask me questions about anything- I'll try to help in the best way possible! :)
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i want to know wat people think about people who start random fights for no reason
I think that they're immature and just want attention. The attention they get is usually negative from people who think how ridiculous and immature they are.
ok so i made my oovoo account, i have a profile and picture, and everything,but when i talk to friend(s) both of our voices r staticy, and the vision is slow. But i just got the laptop. They say they have a hard time making out what i am saying. And there are like red bars in the corner. I dont know what to do...? Even when i put the volume on high nothing is really changing much. And sometimes in the video chat their profile picture comes up. How do i make it more clear? How and what do i need to change about this? Thanks.
it has to do with your wireless connection. you probably don't have good service, or your friends don't. if you want to improve this, getting an ethernet cable with increase your internet access. oovoo just tends to lag sometimes, too.
hello im a 14/f . im getting my hair done tomorrow and i want to get my hair re layered and change my bangs . i have bangs to the side but i dont have a lot and they're pretty long . i want to get more and i want to get them cut like to my eye . if i get bangs straight across , like almost below my eyes , can i like comb all of my bangs to one side so i still have bangs to the side ? ugh , what should i do ? thanks
absolutely. my roommate got straight across bangs, and changed her mind- she decided to turn them into side swept bangs.
Well almost every morning i use daily protectors because some sort of liquid (but not exactly liquid) comes out. I know its gross and hard to explain but wtf is it???
I think what you're talking about is vaginal discharge. It's completely healthy and normal for this to happen. You have nothing to worry about unless the color of it is funky (yellow/greenish), smells weird, or is clumpy. Kind of gross, but it's natural.
I don't understand why like every time I take my underwear off there always so wet from my vagina it's not piss it that white stuff and my vaginas ALWAYS wet and I don't get why!?
You just have discharge. Although it may be gross, it's completely healthy. Vagina's are weird like that. You might just need to wear a lightday or a pantyliner. You have no reason to be concerned unless it looks discolored, clumpy, or is smelly.
20f
How can you tell a guy you have your period. Lets say they started touching you, wanting to hook up ..how do you basically tell them no because you have your period without grossing or freaking them out even though they shouldn't be in the first place or even without making it awkward.
Just flat out say, "Ehhhh, it's that time of the month.."
If he's capable of having sex, he shouldn't be grossed out/freaked out about a girl getting her period. It's natural, and if he's not mature enough to understand that, then he shouldn't be having sex.
Okay so I had sex with my boyfriend over the weekend and he was pretty rough and what not which is usually fine but the next morning when i tried to pee it really hurt. Since then, my pee has been a slightly weirdish color and slightly smelly and it hurts even when i'm not doing anything. I also have an opaque discharge. The discharge happens on occasion, I'm pretty sure i'm just prone to yeast infections. But it usually just itches, never burns. Help? It's kind of embarrassing so I dont want to see a doc unless I have to
It sounds like you could have a Urinary Tract Infection. The burning sensation is a very big indicator, along with the weird smell and the discharge.
Don't worry, UTI's are extremely common, and there's nothing to be embarrassed about! If you go to the doctor, she will prescribe you antibiotics. You should go to the doctor just in case if it's not a UTI, too. Until then, drinking a ton of cranberry juice will help.
http://www.medicinenet.com/urine_infection/page6.htm#9whatis
You have to remember to pee after sex. This will help to prevent getting UTI's.
PS- When you go the doctor, don't be embarrassed at all. I had a problem "down there" that I was very concerned about and honestly, I was just concerned with my health. I put my pride aside and told the doctor everything. It was slightly awkward, but in the end, my health is much more important. They've seen it all, and dealt with it all. They won't judge you or think you're gross for having this problem. Just be relaxed!
17/f
i just wanted to know if this would be considered rape. so heres the story.
i was at a new year's party last year. i was with my best guy friend. i drank and smoked a blunt with him. i got drunk and high but he didn't. we went to the beach to go swimming, i took off my clothes except for bra and undies, he took off everything but his boxers. i don't know how ALL of my clothes came off or telling him it was okay for him to take my virginity. it was almost as if i blacked out for a little while, when i opened my eyes i felt the worst pain i've ever felt although i wasn't sure what was going on. he asked if i wanted him to stop, i still didn't know what was happening and i replied no. very shortly after i realized what was happening and i told him to stop and he did. i was a virgin and he wasn't. i wonder if this is rape because i never gave him permission from the beginning. i know he definately took advantage of me after being drunk and high and nowhere near my right mind.
thank you
I'm sorry, but this is absolutely rape.
You put the alcohol and drugs into your body, but that does NOT give ANYBODY, under ANY CIRCUMSTANCES to take advantage of you. Don't think at all that it is your fault, because it's not. Do NOT listen to anyone that said it's your fault because you were drunk/high.
I'm a sophomore in college, and during the summer before my freshman year, everybody had to complete this program on the computer called "AlcoholEdu." I remember them repeatedly trying to get the point across that if a girl is drunk, she in unable to give consent. It is RAPE if you have sex with someone that is under the influence. You're not in the right state of mind to give consent. You're vulnerable after drinking.
You said "I never gave him permission from the beginning." -- if you never gave him permission, it's rape. There's a very fine line, if there even is one, between being taken advantage of and rape.
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/daterape/a/daterapeguysfyi_2.htm
I'm sorry that this happened to you..
I was thinking about tanning over the winter. I have never been before, I was wondering what to expect, what levels I should use, what I should wear, how often I should go and stuff about costs, etc.
I'm already dark skinned, a bit.
Thanks!
*OBVIOUSLY, tanning is bad for you.. and you're aware of that. But here's some info..*
I'm sure it depends on where you go, but at the tanning salon I go to, there's only one level. You have the choice of a booth (you stand up- that's what I usually use. there's a 12 minute limit to stay in there) or a bed (what you probably can picture, the limit is 15 minutes). I am naturally dark skinned, so when I tan I usually do between 10-15 minutes. There are TONS of different packages. You can buy anything from one single visit, 10 visits, a week straight, a month straight, a year membership, etc. You just need to talk to someone that works there with pricing. There are usually specials going on for that day/month that are sometimes good deals. A lot of websites include prices, if you know which salon you're planning on going to. You're going to need to buy eye protection, which will be offered at the salon in different styles. It's VERY important that you wear the eye protection! As for what to wear, I'm assuming you mean when you actually are tanning. I usually just go naked so that I have no tan lines. Or I'll wear a thong and no bra. Wear whatever you feel comfortable in. It's up to you! Just remember, the more you wear, the more tan lines you'll get.
my boyfriend has nvr gotten a handjob. and i just gave one last week but it didnt work. i know guys are better doing it to themselves but shouldnt it work anyway? ive done it before for my ex, and it worked and he liked it. idk what the problm is. do you think its me? am i not good enough? what else could it be... thnks
Ask your boyfriend what he wants. He might want a different technique. Different people prefer different things. You could have just not done it long enough for him to finish. Or also, he could have just been nervous, because it was his first handjob. He might have not been relaxed enough to enjoy it.
My questions are...
1) what I'd the best laptop brand? DON'T SAY DELL OR APPLE. Apple Is to expensive and I don't want a Dell. I like hp laptops but I need experiances with them. I reall want an hp though.
2) what is the bes. Hp laptop that costs under 450.00? Hp ibknow has one but wht is the best one on thief webiste yo get that is under that price?
3) {kindof like question 2} what I the best laptop under 450.00 from the folowing brands?
-hp
-acer
-toshiba
-intell
-Asus
-logitech
I am not sure but as long as it has a WEBCAM AN IS 450.00$ or under.! :)
4) which laptop do YOU recommend ??
Ifyou can answer any of these questions with a good answer I'll rate you...!!! :) please answer seriosly and don't say I am not going to find a good laptop for this amount of money. Just respect what I have asked please. Thanks very much! :)
Even though it's not on your list, my family sticks with Sony Vaio. That's the brand I got for school, and I've run into no problems so far. My dad also uses a Vaio too. Sony's a trustworthy brand with electronics, so that's probably why.
The thing is, you usually pay for what you get. And if you're going to be making a purchase on a big item that will PROBABLY run into problems at some point, you'll HAVE to buy a warranty. They don't make you buy it, but it's recommended. I think my dad paid an extra $300 or so for full coverage on my laptop.
One day I was walking back into my dorm room with book stacked and my laptop on top. It slipped and it starting acting funny. I brought it to Best Buy, where I originally bought it and they sent it to Sony and it got repaired. It ended up being a repair that would have cost me well over $500. So I was grateful I got the warranty.
what do you do to not be a vigin
Some people have different opinions of when someone actually "loses their virginity". Some people consider oral sex, penis entering the vagina, or intercourse until one or both partner climaxes to be losing your virginity.
I consider it when the penis enters the vagina.
i've just one question?
does masturbate harmful 4 a female or male?
no, masturbation is healthy.
18F.
I just lost my virginity last night. I wasn't bleeding after he pulled it out, but then after I went to the bathroom and wiped there was some blood. Now today, it is still a little bloody when I go to the bathroom. I'm hoping this is normal, can someone please reassure me?
It sounds like you're just bleeding pretty light. That's completely normal after you lose your virginity, so don't worry! It'll go away after a day or two, if that.
can you get pregnant if yu swallow sperm from giving a guy a blow job?
No.
My white bra always shows through when I wear a white tee is this ok? I've tried multiple white tees and they all showthrough. Is this ok? A cami underneath is not
possible with most of my outfits. So is this ok?
Pick up a nude bra! Of course that's not the most appealing of colors for a bra, but it's good to have one in your wardrobe for reasons like this..
hey, Im gonna keep this short and sweet. So my hair doesnt grow as fast as it should, (or as fast as I wish it would). Is there any way I could get my hair to grow really long, really fast?
Prenatal vitamins!
I read somewhere that lemon juice makes your hair grow. Is this true?
I highly doubt it, because lemon juice is so acidic I'd imagine it'd just dry out your hair if used too often. If you spray lemon juice/water into your hair and go out into the sun, it will lighten it up.
I have heard that taking prenatal vitamins (you don't have to be pregnant to take them) do make your hair grow!
i used ink from a printer cartridge to do a tattoo and i hear that its toxic.Is this something to be worried about and if so what should i do?
Please tell me that you mean TEMPORARY tattoo...
I'm 15/f and i've been masturbating for soo long now(nothing like fingering, just rubbing). For maybe a couple months ago my vagina started itching and whenever i got my period, the itching would stop. I'm going to stop masturbating. The itching got to a point where I would itch and when I pee it would burn my vagina. Now, I get the feeling when I pee I still have to pee like a couple minutes later even when it's like not even that much pee. I just want to know if this will go away over time. I even bought the original Vagisil because I told my mom that it itched but didn't tell her why (I don't want my family to know about the masturbating)and if they bring me to a doctor i'm afraid he's going to ask me something about that so i'm trying to avoid that! Has anyone else experienced this? Any advice on what to do?
From you saying your vagina burns, and you constantly feeling like you have to pee even if nothing comes out.. it sounds like you have a Urinary Tract Infection (UTI). This is very common, so don't worry! Although many people tend to contract a UTI after having sex, it can be contracted in other ways too. Make an appointment with your doctor and you will be put on medicine to help it. As for now, drink PLENTY of water so that you actually pee more regularly and CRANBERRY JUICE (not cocktail)! Drink plenty of cranberry juice.