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my boyfriend overheard my conversation
so my boyfriend travis and i have been dating for almost 7 months and basically im an idiot. i've cheated on him before but admitted to it then a couple of weeks later and well today we were talking on the phone and i lied to him saying my friend and i were going by to go get piercings and really we were going by another guy friend of ours house to go swimmming and so when my friend called me, i told travis to hold on and then was switchiing over to my friend and i guess i had linked the two calls instead on accident and so when my friend and i were talking he basically heard the whole story of how i might cheat and i was gonna hide the towels for swimming in my bag and everything. he then finally after a while told me that he was gonna go put the towels in his purse and i got the clue and i got scared and hung up.and ive been calling and texting him ever since and now idk what to do... i really messed up.
he's one of those typical nice guys.we havent said i love you yet and but we're pretty close.what do you think i should do? i know he's by his friends house (who by the way,hates me) because i passed by and saw his car.? :(
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Ok well I kinda have been there but it was him not me. Cheating hurts!! Im still hurting. Im still with my boyfriend cause I love him and we worked things out. The thing is if you love him then STOP doing this things to hurt him. What if he did this to you? You would be hurt and probably leave him. If he forgives you then he will always have a problem with trusting you. But it will get better if you stop cheating and lying and shit. I talked to my boyfriend about this and we worked out shit. EVERYONE screws up every once in a while. he forgave you once what makes you think he should forgive you again? If he does he really loves you. We are only human and we have to learn that what we do can hurt others BUT it can hurt us as well. I hope I helped :)
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Girl,
I wish I could say that you deserve another chance and give you advice on how to get him back, but I can't. You said it right, you messed up. Isn't it funny how things work out. Your boyfriend did not deserve your dishonesty. You can't continue to live your life this away. Don't you know what you do to people, the same will happen to you? It hurts to be betrayed. Learn to respect yourself and have integrity. Life is much easier to live this away. You sound as if you are drawn to chaos.
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Since you can't be faithful, honest, or respectful of him, you should just let him move on with his life.
I mean, really, you are wasting his time and yours.
I think that if you want to run buck-wild, then you should do so as a single to prevent ripping out some poor guy's heart and stomping it into the dirt.
I'm quite sure that isn't what you want to hear, but it is the mature decision.
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Relationships can be funny things can't they?
Probably not what you want to hear, but I'll give you my opinions anyway.
Basically, you've cheated and you're thinking of doing it again.
Now tell me, how would you like it if you were in your boyfriends position? If you found out he cheated and was planning on going behind your back to do it again?
Gutted, probably.
That is no way to treat someone, especially someone you're in a relationship with.
Not only is it unfair on your boyfriend, it's actually unfair on you, too.
For both of your sakes, you can't honestly be serious about wanting to stay with him, so why do you put both you and your boyfriend through it..
People make mistakes. You are one of those people. He forgave you the first time, but this time he most probably doesn't want to be taken for a fool. I know I wouldn't.
You have 2 options:
1. Just break it off if you're going to cheat. Being in a relationship which isn't faithful is just pointless.
2. Try your damn hardest to win him back and allow him to regain his trust for you.
PROVE to him you won't do it again.
I'm sorry you've had to learn the hard way, but deep inside, you'll know the right thing to do.
I wish you the best of luck with whatever happens.
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ok him not answering your calls or text messages probably means its over. try not calling him anymore and if he calls you to pursue things further then there you go. but its really up to him whether to decide if you guys are still together because you did say you were going to cheat on him. but from the looks of it now, its pretty much over. all you can really do is aplogize to him and try to move on. hope i helped.
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You really should break up if your cheating on him like that. Obviously there's a problem where maybe your not satisfied by what Travis can give you or you don't want a closed relationship. Don't hurt him anymore just let him go or neither of you will get any satisfaction in a relationship. If he comes back to you after you break up maybe it was ment to be. Hope I helped:)
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