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embarassing and gross
18/f
ok so there was only one time that i was able to ejaculate during an orgasm. now my boyfriend thinks that everytime we have sex i should be able to have a female ejaculation and i try really hard to but i end up peeing which is really embarassing and gross because i dont want to pee all over him. why can't i ejaculate anymore?
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maybe you didnt exactly have an orgasm you might have just came hard and then there is a possiblity that your not peeing because the female ejaculation seems like pee but its not its just clear fluid that comes out of the clit but just dont try and dont think about it you have to let your body take control and if it is that good itll come
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maybe you aren't having an orgasm, you didn't mention, just relax and don't think so much, and just try to let it happen instead of tryin to make it happen. hope i helped!
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Putting pressure on yourself and telling yourself you must have an orgasm to please somebody else won't help you have one at all. It has the opposite effect. Orgasms like the one you hope to experience again just occur naturally.
What happened last time is that he hit your G-Spot and that brought forth the fluid you squirted. This kind of orgasm is very elusive for women as it's not easy to hit the G-Spot through sex or masturbation even.
You need to tell him that and both of you need to read this article about the G-Spot, how that kind of orgasm happens, etc etc. and what it takes to experience it and tell him to stop putting pressure on you because it's not something you can just do on demand or at the drop of a hat.
[Link](Mouse over link to see full location) is the article. Usually, it can only be stimulated if stroked or hit during intercourse.
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