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recently my fiance told me he has feelings for another girl. but see..we have a long distance relastionship which is hard on us. we have been together for a year and we have only met once. but back to the issue. he said he likes her but loves me and would never cheat on me i beleive him and trust him completly. but they way he talks about her. it just hurts me so much. and before all of this we broke up for a week. and he went out with my bestfriend. which absoloutly killed me. of course. i took him back because i love him more then anything. but im afraid to talk to him about it and tell him how i feel about him liking her because im afraid he will get mad or something. im so confused and hurt i just dont know. i need help. please help me. (link)
Honestly You SHould Tell Him
He loves You RIght
So Your Just Being Honest
And You Guys Need to Be Honest Since You Guysz Are About To Be Married And Since This Is Really Bothering YOu


My dad and my brother always look through what websites i've looked at, i hate it! I was wondering how you delete it with windows xp, I CAN'T FIGURE IT OUT!

THANK YOUU. (link)
Click Tools Then Options
Then Click The Privacy Tab
Then Click Clear Now
Then Check The Ones You Want


how do you get over someone? i knw its a simple question but how? thanks in advance x (link)
Get A Doll
Act Lyke Its Him
Beat it Up Cut It Into Peices Ect
Then Hang the Peices On Diffrent Trees
[Specially The Ones He Passes By]


Alright, I straighten my hair, but it's layered, so i straighten the top, and then at the bottom's I go under, so it's curly, you know.


Well, how do I make it stay like this? Cause after awhile it will just be all gross. I want it to stay curly the whole day, but how? (link)
Use Gel


Why is it that me being a teenage mother and going to school plus working atleast 40 hours a week make it so hard to keep a boyfriend? (link)
Maybe Because You Dont Have Enough Time For Him Anymore


hi my names katherine
i go to my dads at the weekends and i go to this youth club thing and we know a load of boys there.
anyway theres this boy called kile and the other week he was flirting with my step sister and i was there but the week after when she wasnt there he started flirting with me but a lot more than my step sis, anyway the week after my step sis came and he wasnt always with her he was like evening it out, but my other step sis asked him if he likes me an he said yes, but that day we met this other boy as well but hes one year younger than me and kiles two years anyway i know kile likes abi but me as well and i know the other boy likes me
what should i do (link)
Find Out If The New Boy Likes Someone Else
If He Doesnt Choose Him
Other Then That
Pick The One You Like The Most


14/f
he's 16/m
we've been going out since october 13th..
things have been great
no fights, no drama, nothing
but this past week, i found out he smokes
i've told him before i have zero respect for those who smoke
because my dad died of lung cancer
from smoking
i told him i cared for him too much to see him kill himself like this
and since then
he's been so rude to me
he told me he only smokes when he's at work, on his break
so every time he goes on his break,
he'll text me and say "i'm on break guess what i'm doing?"
and of course i'll say "smoking."
and he aggrivates me on purpose...
i like him so much and i don't want to let him go
he's an amazing boyfriend
but i don't appreciate him being so mean to me
and also, he works with this girl, amanda
she's always saying how much she wants to do him and stuff
and he just texted me a few minutes ago
saying "i have good news"
so i said.. "what?"
and he said "amanda's going to indy with me after i get off!"
(his brother's in the hospital and he's supposed to go see him)


i don't know what to do here
he's never been so mean to me
it's like ever since i found out he smoked,
he's been in a bad mood
please help me
i don't know what to do.. (link)
Hmmm
I Think Ju Shuld Talk 2 Him
I Think He Took Disz WHole I DOnt Want You SMoking Thing Affences Well In The Wrong Way
Talk To Him And Tell Him How You Feel


Ok well I was trying to flirt with this one kid like mad status. I later told him that I liked him, he likes me to but we aren't going out. When I told him i liked him i was like did you think i was flirting with you before that? And he said no so how can i flirt so he knows that im flirting with him? (link)
um touch hhis hair or hiz ears
nd wen he asks ju sumthin
say sumthin like 0d complimenting
like if hes sayin o she aint think i was cute den ju would say
well shes crazy cuz ju iz sexy or sum shyt like dat
nd he might have been lien so ju kan try again lol


im 14/f my b.f and i broke up like a week ago and he got a g.f and i kinda got a b.f i dont no but w/e anyways im 14 as i said before and the guy that i might be going out wit is 17 so is that to old?? or like im tooo young ?? or is it ok ??? (link)
honey
age aint nuthin bu a numba
if ju like him nd he likes
ju
nd he treats ju right
das all ju need


I really like this guy. He's my age and we're really good friends. Call it best friends if you want. We're both a little shy. I can't seem to say I like him and he can't either. Is there an easy way to tell him I like him without saying it to his face?

Note: Please don't tell me to just say it to his face. I don't have the guts. (link)
i used 2 b like dat
nd it wuld b gud 2 say it 2 hiz face
u if u ont want to
b like we do write him a note
or email him
bu if ju do dont get nervous nd tell him it was by a mistake


13/f

Have any of you been in a relationship that lasted all through high school? I am really in love with the guy I'm dating now, and no one thinks we'll ever make it. (link)
umm dont listen 2 des birdz
dey sed ma babez was gonna break up wit me
lyke he did wit all the otha gurlz
nd i was worried at 1st
hello
weve been goin out 4 eight months already
diz iz hiz nd mine longest relionship
nd most serious one
give it a try mamaz


i met all of my best friend's homegirls n homeboys, and they were pretty cool. the homegirls kept telling me i was quiet, n the guys said that too. usually, with my friends, i'm really talkative, but for some reason, with them im really shy. what are some things i can talk about with them? like what can i say to them? how do i start a conversation n keep one going? its so weird cos i feel so awkward with them. (link)
your probably like that because your friends you know them
ask her homeboiz and homegurlz
wat they like 2 do
wat school they go 2
and stuff like dat
be creative


here are these to really great girls im trying to find out which one i should date, i cant choose!
i need help sooo bad

okayy #1 is Jessica she is very nice, very outgoing, pretty, loves to cook, loves to paint and express herself. I reallly reallly like her a lot.
here is a pic of #1

http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=5zm2kgl



#2 this is Haley, she is nice, kind of outgoing, patient, loves to flirt, and loves to kiss, and hug, and very demanding girl. i like her a lot too.
heres a pic of #2

http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=5xhrxuw

which one? i dont know, im having a SUPER hard time

thanks!! (link)
if i was u i wold pick jessica because haley flirts alott so she most defenitley is gonna cheat on u


ive never really thought about this as anything weird until recently. im 15/f and i dont have any friends my own age. ive always liked hanging out with older people, but im scared im going to start getting a bad reputation. i hardly ever hang out with anyone thats still in high school (even though im going to be a junior) and ive never dated a guy that wasnt at least 18 (oldest being 22) im not a whore, im actually a virgin. is there anything wrong with this?? or am i just freaking out? (link)
there isnt anythin wrong wit diz
b-cuz wen i was 11 i use 2 hang out wit 15 nd 16 year olds only and im ok dont worry


My boyfriend of about two years, just recently got his stationing and will be in Korea for two years, I get to see him in 6 months, but I'm not sure about when I'll get to see if after that. His flight leaves at 5am, which is 3 minutes. I saw him last on Friday night.

Does anyone have any ideas of what I can do to make the time apart easier on us, and our relationship?

And also, what can I do to keep myself busy, and not all depressed. Any help would be amazing.

Thank you so much.
:] (link)
welll let me tell you my big sister got married to a man in the marine and after everything she went threw they had a kid and i guess he meet a better women were he was at and he took her college money to buy a car and now he wants to take away the baby


hey, this may seem weird but how do you get your arms a bit fat maybe stretches not eat more or anything but other random stuff thank you (link)
hmm da onli way without gaining pounds is to work out
which culd affect ur health alot
and i think you should leave your arm size the way they are
because if you try to make it bigger and stuff they get jiggly and stuff most of the time


I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. he seems crazy about me, i never ever guessed that he would even think about kissing another girl. but last night he kissed one of my good friends, then grabbed her boob. and masterbated like in front of her.

i really dont want ot break up with him but if i have to i will.

what should i do?> (link)
i know how you feel
when i thought this kid loved me and i loved him
he cheated on me 1st
and then i cheated on him
our realationship went wayyyyy diffrent after that liek in a bad way so you should break up with him before he does it when he gets tired of you
and you knowing he did that
your not gonna have like the same feelings to do stuff with him like you did before trust me


I am going over this guys house that I like. We are going to watch movies and stuff like that. What do I do. Should i kiss him? What do I wear how do i do my hair and make up. I want to catch his eye.

Please help! (link)
ok dont kiss him
let him kiss you
and if he puts his arm around your shoulder leen lightly on him
dont show that your like really into the movie like that your getting kind of too close to the screen


Well my best freind she doesnt like this guy named jeff but she always wants to have a friends with benefit relationship with him. HES A TOTAL JERK. He is soo mean to her and treats her like crpap doesnt talk to her for ever and then asks to hoookup. Well, idk what to do anymore cuz she doesnt listen to me wen i tell her not to do this and she will regret it. And wen i say this guys a jerk he bad mouths her to the school and all she cares about it making out. (link)
i think that she should try to avoid him
or
she should get a boyfriend
a boy that she actully likes
and not that she only likes to make out wit him


Okayy Okayy,

So i have this boyfriend.

We are thinking about sex.

I want to && everything but I herd that you bleed during it ..

I dont want to bc i think thats embarssing !!

What shuld i do ? Do you always bleed? (link)
bleeding is normal
so you shouldnt be embarsed
and no some people that do alot of excerise or people that play alot of sports
dont bleed sometimes when they have sex the first time
but even if you did its normal
so dont be embarsed




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