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Too Shy to Tell Someone You Like Them


Question Posted Wednesday August 22 2007, 1:40 pm

I really like this guy. He's my age and we're really good friends. Call it best friends if you want. We're both a little shy. I can't seem to say I like him and he can't either. Is there an easy way to tell him I like him without saying it to his face?

Note: Please don't tell me to just say it to his face. I don't have the guts.


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mszconcided answered Thursday August 23 2007, 12:00 am:
i used 2 b like dat
nd it wuld b gud 2 say it 2 hiz face
u if u ont want to
b like we do write him a note
or email him
bu if ju do dont get nervous nd tell him it was by a mistake

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orphans answered Wednesday August 22 2007, 11:28 pm:
i'd have a friend "accidentally" tell him.
either like let is "slip"
or be like hey ___ likes you but i wasn't supposed to tell you that :/
so either ay is a good way to let him know
good luck!
keep me updatedd =]

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AlyssaBT4T answered Wednesday August 22 2007, 9:04 pm:
It would be better to tell it to his face, but I know the feeling. Lol. Here are some tips,
Have a friend tell him you like him.
Pass a note, between classes.
e-mail.
Instant message.

My favorite is to have friends do it, but a peace of advice, have them do it when he is alone, cause weither he likes you back or not it could be embarising with his friends there. Lol

Hope this help,
AlyssaBT4T

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orphans answered Wednesday August 22 2007, 7:54 pm:
Of course you can say it not to his face. If your friends, you should be able to contact him in an e-mail. Tell him something like this

I'm sorry I couldn't say this to your face. I'm really shy but you've been on my mind. I really like you and I hope you like me too. Please call me.

I know it sounds cheesy and you can revise, but try that. You can also call him! Your not saying it to his face because he isn't there! He's on the phone.

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Vegalicious21 answered Wednesday August 22 2007, 7:50 pm:
ok well i suggest write him a letter. and if you dont even have enough courage to give it to him, slip it in his locker or something, or have a friend give it to him...and also if you want to make it more mysterious, write it in a different language, like french... i mean paris france is a love capital!!! its so romantic! or you could write it in a different language... (if you need help, go online to a dictionary site that has a translator.)

i really dont think you should have your friend tell him that you like him... it doesnt NORMALLY work out... but if the letter doesnt work try it! (i had my friend tell a guy i like that i liked him, and we've been going out for almost 10 months!!!)
i hope i helped a bit!

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justaskVy answered Wednesday August 22 2007, 7:15 pm:
there's always AIM, or messengers that you use. MYSPACE. umm or you can have your friends tell him for you or his friends. umm but if you want a straight foward answer then just take a deep breathe and go up to him. I know you're shyy but hey.. that one way to overcome your fear. imagine he was someone else and be confidence. go up to him as if he's yours and just tell him straight forward.
you: hey i like you and I was wondering if you would like to hang out sometimes.
but if you're tooo shyy. then yeah. lol aim, myspace, or friends should help.
hope I helped. good luck with the fella. =].

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Endivisual answered Wednesday August 22 2007, 7:10 pm:
maybe try the phone or the internet. but i suggest that you do it on a phone if you're atleast 80% sure they like you back. but doing it online isn't that best answer either. i'd say do it on the phone since you guys are good friends.

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