Hey what's up, I'm Endi. How can I help you?
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okay so i want to have a web show in youtube. all about me. like but i want to have alot of viewers maybe about 1 million. what can i do on my show that can make people want to view it? like if you were a viewer what would you like to see. i wanted to like make an advice video where people can ask questions and i make a video giving them advice but what other things can i do? thanks in advance! i rate. (link)
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yea i wanted to do that too but i just didn't have the equipment x D anyways
it helps if you have a good camera, which means, good mega bites...
extra features can go a long way. so try to have an intro with a song and letters.
don't get too boring. humor once in a while can help too.
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Sorry that I probably spelled that incorrectly. Long story short, I think too much. If something good happens, I think about it so much that I can turn it into a bad thing, and I think about bad things so much it eats me up inside and it's making me feel horrible, and not many people I know do this, or the ones that do, I'm not comfortable bearing it all to. I replay low moments in my life as long I have nothing way better to do. Basically, when I'm not talking, I'm mentally shooting down myself, I lower my self esteem about my personality and apperance and other things. Nowadays though, I don't have much of a life, so I can't really find other things to do to take my mind off bad things. All I have is my computer phone, and tv, because I'm 14, jobless, never have rides to go anywhere, so I can't even do clubs at school, I don't know many people. Sometimes even, what I do have makes me feel worse about my life, seeing people on t.v making something of themselves, or my friends passing me by, or complaining about their issues to me while I lend an ear and never complain about mine-untill now I suppose. There are so many things I want to do, plus size model, sing, dance, be a pageant queen, be an incredible gymnast, and all these things people believe if anyone in my family could do it, it would be me. Thing is, I tell myself theres no chance, and I'm not nearly as good at these things as I should be, and my parents probably wouldn't let me develop my skills as much as I would like to, because nobody else in my family has tried. Possibly during summer, but they would much rather have me study than take classes, or even go on vacation! So I forget my aspirations, tell myself I would fail if I tried, and go into some medical field, which I wouldn't mind, but I dont want to be a bad doctor, because my dad is a good doctor! Sorry if I went in circles a lot, but I need some help here! Thank you soo much. (link)
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i think i know how you feel a little. I used to do that when I was in 7th grade. I moved a lot so I had to make new friends every year... well, until now. I had free time on my hands so I went online a lot and stuff.
but what i found was something inside me that i never knew i'd do.... i started to write songs. i started to express myself in any way possible. i guess it was kind of a prescription because it's helped me through a lot 3 years later i still do it.
what you have to realize is, sometimes life can seem so bad that you might want to kill yourself. but you have to think about what can come next. not next like the next day or a week, but maybe next year or two. don't look into the future as an adult, but into a future as like..another grade or something.
don't tell yourself you can't do anything because if you're motivated to get it right, you can do anything.
try to keep yourself busy with some kind of activity. although you don't have rides.. maybe you can go outside and do something that doesn't absolutely need a ride. me, i just went outside and started playing basketball....
it all might seem hard now and you might be thinking lowly of yourself and life, but, once you find something that's new and interesting.. it's going to stick and it's going to make you better.
don't worry too much. it'll all pass and good things will happen. you just have to wait...
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so really like this guy [lets call him J]. but the thing is that i liked his best friend [T] and he hates me a lot [long story]
but i actually started liking J cos he always looked at me alot also smiling very nicly, often turning around when he sees me and things like that. but i kinda cant believe that he might actually like me because of the whole situation with T which makes me really unsure. also his friends often react when they see me. and J has another guy he likes to hang with [A] who points at me ALL the time when he sees me when he is hanging with J. but the thing is that when he's not with J he always smiles at me but when he's with him he points at me and looks kinda irritated or mad while J goes red or acts awkward or showes off. and now i'm a bit confused because i have no idea what's going on and if A maybe likes me. i like J but i also dont know if HE likes me because he also ignores me sometimes and often looks when i dont see it [my friends tell me lol] and i also cant believe that J MIGHT actually like me because T [his other best friend] hates me so much. and J also has these days when he ignores me alot. and sometimes when i walk by him theres just this tention between us but in a good way. and it feels like he's actually 'giving' it to me. for example yesterday he was walkin by me and half way i didnt feel anything, but then he saw me and as soon as he did i felt it again. its really freaky actually lol.
but i dno if he really likes me or if hes just making fun of me or something, because also his friends never added me back on facebook, and i tried talking to him on msn TWICE but he never answered [i wasnt sure if it's him or my msn, but i never had a problem with my msn].
and i cant deside between J and A because J is really this sexy kinda guy while A is really sweet and basicly does everything for J. i'm sure i like J more but i also sometimes get feelings for A because he's always acting so sweet.
sorry if this is so long but please help !!! thankss xxxxxx (link)
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hmm... first of all, i think you're way too obsessed. if you keep thinking if he likes you or not, you might end up hurting yourself emotionally... so be careful
and i don't think you should worry about the whole situation where you worry about whether you like J or A because nothing has even happened yet between you and either of them.
and just because they smile or treats you nice doesn't always mean that they like you, so try not to get hooked up too much.
just see how things go. the more you act natural, the quicker you can see results.
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13/f
ok so i got my very first period in february
and im on my third period cycle right now, well i've had it for 4 or 5 days
well the first 2 times i got my period and it lasted for 10 days
so i just assumed that the cycle im on now would last for 10 days but today i woke and i had very little blood even though i slept gor 10 hours.
and there was no blood in the toilet and when i wiped it was brown sorta like discharge.
so am i getting off of it early?
[sry for the the details, but please help] (link)
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when you have a period for the first time, it takes a looonngggg time to get it over with
but as you have it more and more, the days you have it will decrease to like....4 to 5 days or something. it's pretty different for different people but
you shouldn't worry. it's normal. i guess your days are decreasing, but, you do want to have a pad on still until you're definately sure it's all done.
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So Ill try to make this as short as I can, but I've liked this guy name Jamie for a while. Like a year and a halff. He liked me back for a while also and we kind of hooked up and were supposed to go on a date. but ever since then it never went any further because he said he thought my "pussy smelt" but just because hes never done things like that with other girls before and he thought it was "weird" so he randomly started ignoring me even though he was always reallyyy nice. Well after a longg time and fights and ignoring etc. we started talking like normal againn, and he even started calling me alot and stuff. But then, randomly on the phone he's like " Oh, well I gtg, well not really but, I want to" so I said okayy? fine byee. After that we were talking a lott on msnn, and he was flirting with me and stuff and being really nice. And I told him I liked him and he said :O I thought you liked sam? (This other guy I liked). So I told him yeah but he keeps calling me and stuff and I liek guys that are hard to get (half as a joke half not)much after that and he stopped talking as much on msn. And when I saw him on the city bus he just smiled? when I said hi.When I asked him about it he said oh sorry I didnt mean to ignore you, I smiled? With my sleeve over my mouth. I dont know if he was joking or what? Do you have any advice on thiss? Or anything you think about it all would help, thanks :). (link)
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first.... are you the one that tried to get him to do those sexual stuff because you said he never did things like that.
if u did... i think that was kind of your fault because you shouldn't be taking it so fast like that.
and if he just smiles to you and stuff and doesn't try anything, maybe it means that he doesn't like you because from what i just read... i don't think he likes you as much as you like him.
a lot of guys flirt so i don't think you should get too excited because you might hurt yourself even more...
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okay so i have a 1 gig ipod that i have had for about a year. and i dont know whats wrong with it but everytime i pick an artist to play a song it goes back to the menu it doesnt want to play anything. i have tried everything. i dont have money to get it fixed, has this ever happened to your ipod?. whats wrong? and i already plugged it in the computer restared it and restarted the setting but i dont whats wrong HELP! (link)
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can't u get it fixed using the warranty?
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i'm verrrry good at track.
the problem is i'm a junior in high schoo. i have no time for home work because I'm so sleepy and tired and can never finish it!
like right now. i'm supposed to be at track practice, but i have the most homework i've ever had in my life and my mom is making me go to practice!! i need this advice.
i get home at 4:45
eat which takes 30-40 mins. (sometimes i only eat a snack that will fill me up which is really unhealthy and is bad for athletes, i know.)
do my hw, but i am never done.
i'm getting sleepy at arounf 9:00 and can't keep my eyes open and theyre burning and everything.
my mom won't listen. what do i do??? (link)
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if you get tired, eating apple in the morning helps. apple got more caffeine than coffee.
and getting home at 4:45 isn't that bad.. it just depends on your preferred bed time.
if you can't handle sports and school at the same time, then i don't think you should be doing the sports because you gotta have responsibility.
if you're a junior, you should know how to handle this kind of things by now... so i'm kindda surprised that there's so much pressure on you.
and like you said, if you have the track practice but is staying home for homework, you should be doing homework....
and u should make sure to let your teachers know why you may be slacking on homework.
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I've recently been trying to lose weight but I drink a lot of water. Like I'll drink a lot of water and I feel fat and stuff. Does water make you gain weight for a period of time or something because of the weight of all the water? I don't know I feel full and stuff when I drink a lot of water. (link)
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well, water doesn't have anything to do with your weight... it doesn't help you gain or lose weight.
so..maybe it's something else.
i'm pretty sure the only way you can feel full by drinking water is if you drink water instead of a meal. that's a lot of water...
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ok well i really like this girl n like is their n e thing like sexually like not real far but like that i can do to please her? thanks (link)
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the question is, does she like you back.
you can just kiss.
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ok. i love to sing and act. i'm really good at both. does anyone know anyway to go t a recording studio near lake charles, louisiana or a commercial audditon?
please help. this is my dream. i cant afford an agent or anything so i'm really stuck. (link)
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i'm not sure about any studios... but.. you can also start recording at home. just get a recording microphone and the black circle thing for a better effect..... then download a recording program like Audacity.
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what would a good song be to show a person that you love them but not going out. and like that you always want to have them and stuff like that thanks (link)
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i'll be there for you- the rembrants
it's the main song for the show "friends".
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i'm trying to lose weight.
i'm 5'2, 130 lbs.
i want to be 110 by my birthday, which is december 7th.
I think this is a pretty realistic goal because i worked it all out and i'd need to lose about a pound a week, maybe a pound and a half.
there are some problems though.
one, i'm really bad at commitment, and i get bored easily. plus i'm kind of lazy.
two, i'm italian, and my mother was born in italy so every meal i have involves some sort of bread, and i eat pasta every other day.
three, i'm addicted to sugar. i can't help it at all.
can anyone make some suggestions of like workout routines i should try or how to work around my carb issues?
i have a treadmill, but i can't really run more than a mile at a time.
thanks♥ (link)
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try some protein bars. protein can help your body get to burning fat faster because your body burns carb, protein, THEN fat. so.. it helps your metabolism i suppose. eat fruit too.
try some more protein stuff like chicken or steak.
but eating protein bars can help. but you'll have to exercise atleast 30 minutes a day.
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im in soo big of a pickle. ive been with my boyfriend for like 14 months. i love him alot and cant imagine being without him. were like peas and carrots ya kno but this is my first serious relationship [his second]. two weeks ago, i met this guy at school.. hes rlly sweet and funny and flirts with me sometimes and gives me butterflies every time he hugs me [which was 3 times today!] or smiles at me. im not sure if hes startin to like me or if thats just how he is. i dont know what to do. what if he does like me and asks me to hangout or go out or whatever? i dont wanna be like oh sry i have a boyfriend and ruin my chances. because i do like him. but at the same time i dont know what id do without my boyfriend. he just may be the one but i dont know since i havent dated a whole lot yanno? so its like i wanna give this other guy a chance without hurting my relationship now, even though i know that cant be done. if me and my boyfriend break up, we're done, he's said before he wouldnt take me back especially if its over another guy bc he doesnt wanna get hurt. and i understand that but at the same time its kinda not fair to me. i dont know, i guess im looking for something bc our relationship is kind of one-sided in the sense that i drive 13 miles like 2-3 a week to see him and drive us wherever we go [he has no car] and sometimes end up paying for the things we do bc "he has no money" even though he has a job. and if we dont do anything we just sit there at his house. and thats starting to get REALLY old REALLY fast. but even as im startin to like this new guy i cant imagine not having my boyfriend in my ife you know? ugh i dont know! any input? sorry for the length.
16/f 17/m (link)
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i think that you're thinking maybe your relationship's getting a lil old... after all, 14 months is a long time. so, i think you should have just like a day of fun with your boyfriend..... come on, you've been with him forever.. you can't possibly end it with a guy that you "just" met.
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15/f
Me and my boyfriend just started going out and he's great don't get me wrong there but its just that my parents are stricted and they don't let me go out and that's besides the point anyways everytime he asks me if we can hang out I've always been saying I don't know or I don't think so and he knows why but sometimes I feel like he's going to get tired of it eventually and ask to end it and I don't want to end it because I really do like him I've already tried talking to him about it so please don't say try talking to him all I want is some advice on how to make him understand that I can't go out all the time and to understand me. (link)
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i think you should tell your parents that you would like to have atleast just one day of a nice day with your bf. you deserve it. if you can't, then tell your boyfriend that you're really trying and that you love him. i'm not saying that you need to talk to him, i'm just saying that you should tell him something like that.
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is it possible to put a cup to the wall and press your ear against it and hear what people are saying next door? like in a hotel and stuff?
like what kind of cup (link)
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i don't think this really works but if you wanna try, maybe do it with like a clear glass cup.
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I really like this guy and right now we are just texting each other, well I am going to watch him race saturday. I havent heard from him since monday. Should I be worried or not? I mean he could be busy working or just tired am I losing my mind? (link)
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just cuz he hasn't talked to you.... it's not really a big deal. it's not like you guys are going out or anything. maybe he's busy getting ready for the race or... w/e he does. don't worry about it. you're gonna see him on saturday so when you see him.. maybe give him a big hug or something?
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okay so i love attention. so is it weird that i want to be a slut? i mean, ive done kind of sluttish things before but not to get the reputation of being one but i want to? is that normal or totally strange? and if not then what can i do to get it? (15/f btw.) (link)
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nobody really WANTS to be a slut but they turn into it to get attention... so i guess you're in that kind of situation. it's not.... really normal nor strange.. but... you being 15.. you need to find another way to get attention.
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17/f
soo here's the deal...ive never had a boyfriend
and havent done like anything with a guy before
except madeout..and ive only done that with 2
guys and the last one was last year..
im always scared to do things with guys like
everyone thinks im soo gorgeous and they're always shocked when they heard ive never had a boyfriend or anything..but everytime a guy wants to makeout with me or something im always like no..or i'll try to avoid doing it because im scared im not going to be good at it..i mean a year..thats a long time!! and i'll be embarassed..and ive gotten asked or like i know guys have wanted to do stuff with me but its just that im scared..and there like the really hot guys and if im not good at doing something..i'll make a fool of myself! i just dont know what to do?! i feel like a prude..and i dont want to be ...im going into 12th grade..i think its kinda sad that ive only madeout with 2 guys..one going into 10th grade and one last yr..i never want to put my self in a situation that i think a guy is going to try to put a move on me either..like watching a movie or being alone with a guy...i mean i dont think im ugly but im not conceited..its just everyone thinks im pretty and is like WOW..cant believe you havent had a boyfriend or havent done much with a guy..its not that i dont want to..its that im scared! and im shy SOMETIMES..soo its like i dont wanna talk to the guy either and be like well i might be kinda bad..thats not like me!!
any ideas? thank you! (link)
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don't worry. so what if you haven't done anything so exclusive with a guy? maybe you're just not ready and you're being true to yourself, and people admire that. you can be one of those ppl that waits til they get married or something. just live your life. don't worry about the judgments and what you think they might say. hey, you're the pretty one xD
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17 yr. female..
my good friend..i just became good friends with her this year and like everytime she is around people she acts differently and tries to impress people too much! and she tries to be friends with everyone and anyone..its not a bad thing but sometimes its just too much...and she always flirts with my good friend nick(keep in mind i have liked him for about a year and a half) but he has a girlfriend and she always is like yeah take a picture with me..ahh he is so hot..she always like sits on top of him and slaps his butt and stuff..she doesnt know i like him but she still shouldnt be doing that with someone who has a girlfriend!! and everytime that me him and her hangout she totally ignores me and just talks to him..im like ookay?! cool....dont talk to me then...and she tries to tell everyone that they are such good friends and I AM THE ONE that is best friends with him...and she has her myspace pic of him and her...and like everyone commented it saying ooh who is that ;) and its just so annoying! i dont really wanna talk to her about it cuz i dont want everyone to know that i like him (nobody does know ) but how can i just calm her down..make her different...have her not try so hard to impress people..ive always made comments to let her know how i feel about stuff but it never changes.. (link)
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i think you should talk to the dude. you gotta tell him that he has a girlfriend and he shouldn't act like he doesn't. and maybe talk to your friend about their actions and how annoying it is for you. she might say that you're jealous or something but if she does, she's just not a good friend.
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what is the easiest way to learn the 50 states and capitals like is there a song or something like that (link)
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there's a 50 states song too. friends i know learned it when they were in elementary skool... it's like alphebatical but i can't sing along with them cuz i never learned it -.-
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