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very big guy trouble and confusion. please help :(
so really like this guy [lets call him J]. but the thing is that i liked his best friend [T] and he hates me a lot [long story]
but i actually started liking J cos he always looked at me alot also smiling very nicly, often turning around when he sees me and things like that. but i kinda cant believe that he might actually like me because of the whole situation with T which makes me really unsure. also his friends often react when they see me. and J has another guy he likes to hang with [A] who points at me ALL the time when he sees me when he is hanging with J. but the thing is that when he's not with J he always smiles at me but when he's with him he points at me and looks kinda irritated or mad while J goes red or acts awkward or showes off. and now i'm a bit confused because i have no idea what's going on and if A maybe likes me. i like J but i also dont know if HE likes me because he also ignores me sometimes and often looks when i dont see it [my friends tell me lol] and i also cant believe that J MIGHT actually like me because T [his other best friend] hates me so much. and J also has these days when he ignores me alot. and sometimes when i walk by him theres just this tention between us but in a good way. and it feels like he's actually 'giving' it to me. for example yesterday he was walkin by me and half way i didnt feel anything, but then he saw me and as soon as he did i felt it again. its really freaky actually lol.
but i dno if he really likes me or if hes just making fun of me or something, because also his friends never added me back on facebook, and i tried talking to him on msn TWICE but he never answered [i wasnt sure if it's him or my msn, but i never had a problem with my msn].
and i cant deside between J and A because J is really this sexy kinda guy while A is really sweet and basicly does everything for J. i'm sure i like J more but i also sometimes get feelings for A because he's always acting so sweet.
sorry if this is so long but please help !!! thankss xxxxxx
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Hey, girl. Wow it sounds like you really like this guy, J. From what you said, it sounds like he has some feelings for you too. When you were describing how T hated you and the reactions of his friends when they saw you, I think that the only reason they do that is because T might of been saying bad things about you to them and his friends thought it was only appropiate to act like they don't like you too. I'm guessing you are attractive and have a good personality because of the second looks and the tension-infected hallway passes. You said you have feelings for A also, but something tells me you'd rather be with J? My advice to you is to gather up some courage and talk to him directly, instead of msn. Get some answers girl, fast!
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I think that he might be acting different just because of his friends. If he is nice to you and acts normal when his friends aren't around, then I think that he just acts different around his friends because he thinks it'll make him look cool. Guys do this all the time. He just wants to impress his friends. I think that you should talk to him about it. Don't corner him or anything, just simply ask him why he acts so different around his friends. As for his mean friend, just ignore him. He'll eventually stop it. I think you should go for it!! I hope it works outt =]]]
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hmm... first of all, i think you're way too obsessed. if you keep thinking if he likes you or not, you might end up hurting yourself emotionally... so be careful
and i don't think you should worry about the whole situation where you worry about whether you like J or A because nothing has even happened yet between you and either of them.
and just because they smile or treats you nice doesn't always mean that they like you, so try not to get hooked up too much.
just see how things go. the more you act natural, the quicker you can see results.
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