|
| |
|
uhhhh...well i really like this guy and i dont know if he likes me. and like third period every other day we tlk alot and he makes me laugh so much and my friends tell me tht me and him make a really cute couple and tht i should ask him out. but i dont kno if he really likes me. like really i have no clue wht to do. (link)
|
Hey girl. My advice to you is to go for it. If you guys have a good time together, he is most likely to say yes. So gather up a little bit of courage and pop the question! Or, you could write him a note which is always fun. He probally likes you too.
Vickki
|
|
my boyfriend.. who i love so much. and been best friends with for 6 years but we have only been dating for about a year. hes had wayyyy more relationships than me, and with one girl he decided to make a sex tape. he keeps it. i told him i didnt like that. i dont get why he has to have it if hes not with her and he doesnt watch it. yet he brings it up all the time in jokes and stuff. so its not out of mind. im afraid if this relationship goes further he wont get rid of it. should i even want him to get rid of it? i just dont understand why he still has it. and its not like were engaged ot anything.. wev talked about it. but were not currently. if i do ask him to get rid of it when should i and what should i say?? i dont want to ruin our relationship over a stupid tape but i feel he should just be over it and theres no reason to keep it. any help please, thanks so much. (link)
|
Girl it is wrong of him to keep that tape, and he knows it especially if he is talking about engagement with you. If he cares about how you feel, then he should of got rid of it a long time ago. But don't let him throw it out over an argument though. Let him throw it out because he wants to. You need to get how you feel inside his head. You know what I would do? I would steal the tape and hide it. Then when he starts freaking out about it, you can really get some information on how he feels about everything then. I guarantee it. Good luck, girl.
Vickki
|
okay well when i talk to people
they are always like i smoke
now where i live it doesnt mean
cigarets. so what are they talking
about when they say smoke? (link)
|
Girl, they are talking about marijuana (weed). I have never smoked anything in my life, and where I live, I am a disgrace lol. But I feel proud of myself. Don't let anybody convince you to smoke. Google marijuana and find out what the disadvantages of smoking are.
Vickki
|
|
okk so if you giva a guy a hand job and it gets on your panties there is a possibility of you getting pregnant isnt there? except a veeery minor chance? but still a chance? thanks :) (link)
|
Yes there is a chance of getting pregnant if his sperm gets on your panties. My advice to you is to wash your hands after every hand job. But you most likely aren't pregnant, but you could be. Watch out for that period, girl.
Vickki
|
so i have a thing for my best friend sara, i told her how i felt but she doesnt like me in that way. but sometimes when we have sleep overs at my place she will sleep in the same bed with me. foot to head. i hate it because i get confused! trying not to think to much of it. but its like when she get close i get annoyed because i want to ignore her so i can move on. she slept in the same bed with me every time we have a sleep over. i have a other bed but my other friend sleeps on that. but sara likes to share my bed with me...!?
why does she do that?
fyi" f/21/bi (link)
|
Hey girl. There are two possible explanations for that. One, she is doing that because she enjoys the fact that you like her. The reason she sleeps in your bed is to tease you.
Or two, since you guys are best friends, she thinks its only appropiate to sleep in the same bed. Because if she slept in a different bed, you might think she thinks you are discusting, wouldn't you?
Vickki
|
15 f
what are some ways i can playfully flirt with a boy ? basiclly how do should i flirt with him ? any tips would be nice =) (link)
|
Hey girl. My advice for flirting with a boy is when talking to him, give his arm a little rub and wink your eye. Another way is to look at him, flash a smile, then look away. Giggling and twirling your hair and slightly cocking your head to the side is also a common way to flirt! Flirt away, girl!
Vickki
|
|
okay so i jus recently met this boy brad. so brad and i started talking. fliring non-stop. and hes taking me on a date real soon. he says he likes me already. hes a major babe. he says im the prettiest girl hes ever seen. always talks good things about me to my friends. but here comes the problem. rachel, his ex. shes a friggin bitch to be honest. they went out for 3 years. they broke up and got back together in feb. its anoyying how hes so stupid and goes back to her. i remember him telling me that i was changing is mind fast about him forgetting her. i honestly do not know why he likes her. she recently cheated on him. they broke up. then she does something to make him forgive her. and honestly it pisses me off. hes all i think about. i know me and him would be a good couple. okay hes even told my SISTER and BEST friend he likes me. YOU DONT TELL A GIRLS SISTER & BEST FRIEND YOU LIKE HER THEN GO BACK OUT WITH YOUR EX. im so confused. i really dont know if this is guna be another break up soon. but its like if me and him get serious i dont want her coming back in the picture then him leaving me for her. i really want her to just move on and get a boy. BUT he says the only reason he is with her is so she doesnt go with another guy. WOW RIGHT!? he said that to my best friend amanda. amanda and him are good friends, he tells her everything. so im realy confused. what should i do? please dont say MOVE ON. becuase i honestly have tried, its too hard. i need him in my life, more then a friend. it kills me to say this ... i think i love him. i think about him 24.7 .. talk about him all the time .. when i talk to him i smile all the time. i dont know what to do .. does he like me more then her? is he jus playing me? .. p.s this story will change daily & id realy appreciate if i could get someones screenname so you could tlel me wat to do wen he changes things up? THANKS SO MUCH!! (link)
|
Hey girl. You don't want me to tell you to move on so I'm not going to. But I am going to tell you that he is using you as a rebound and you are just setting yourself up to be hurt even if he does decide give you a chance. My advice is to wait until he is over that girl before you want to be with him. I don't think you love him, but you might do. He is leading you on and sending mixed messages by telling people you know he likes you, and then continues talking to his ex. He knows what he is doing..keeping you interested while he is still with his ex, that's all. You need to call him and ask him straight up what is going on.
my email is: vickki_paquette@yahoo.com
feel free to email me, girl.
Vickki
|
|
hi.....i need help....lately my knees have been hurting, like a burning feeling and there is numbness in them!I'm 19 and never have had any injuries but lately my knees have been cracking ALOT! what is this??? please answer asap!!!! (link)
|
Hey, girl. That sounds painful. My advice to you is to go to see your doctor. Make sure you are getting proper nutrition and exercise because that could be a reason that is happening.
Vickki
|
|
last night april 5th, my boyfriend was fingering me, not actually in the hole, and im so afraid that i might be pregnant. I was stroking his penis and i felt wet stuff coming out if it, but im not sure if it was sperm. and i asked him if he touched himself and then touched me and if there was something on his hands, but he says his positive he didnt have anything on his hands and its fine. im supposed to get my period sometime this week. they vary between 20- even about 30 days and im on day 26. im just reallyyyy scared. im screwed if im pregnant. please answerrr. im just so scared. (link)
|
I am 99.9 percent sure that you are not pregnant. It is really hard to get pregnant by a tiny bit of sperm on a finger. But he said that there wasn't any on his hands so you are fine. The next time your boyfriend wants to finger you, ask him politely to wash his hands first. I'm pretty sure your period will come on schedule. If it doesn't, its probably because you are stressed out but you should definetly buy a home pregnancy test just to make sure. But don't stress to much, girl. Everything will be just fine.
Vickki
|
|
f/13 so i like this guy who is my firends brother(hes a year younger than me) and he found out that i like him and told his sister( my friend) that he found out but then nothing happened between us. but when ever i go over he is always like teasing me and stuff like tipping my chair over and he dosent do that to my twin sister who also comes over when i go over. and now im confused on what i should do/ if he likes me or not. (link)
|
Girl, he is only flirting with you. My advice to you is to flirt back...play around with him as he does you. It is so obvious he likes you.
Vickki
|
13/f
i want to have a birthday party at my house. one problem is that my house is really messy. try, boxes everywhere, clothes everywhere on the sofa. most of it is my parent's also. they are working all the time so they don't have much time to clean. i want to clean the house, but my mom needs the clothes to be at a specific area, and she ALWAYS says , ''I'LL CLEAN IT SOON'' but it's almost my birthday..april 27.
how can i convince them to clean or help me clean!?
PLEASE HELP MY BIRTHDAY IS COMING UP (link)
|
Hi. My advice to you is that you have a mature and calm discussion with your mother and explain the problem most likely, you two will come up with a solution. Or, you can maybe clean up the house yourself. That way your parents will see how serious you are about the party and you will also gain responsibility points by them. And you could also have an outdoor party, if the weather is nice. But i'm sure everything will be fine by the time your birthday comes.
Vickki
|
|
so i wrote adive awhile ago the slut comment about getting w/ two guys well one of them i've had a wierd relationship w/..he has hurt me in the past where he and another friend knew i liked him and they made out in front of me and really hurt me then my friend went out w/ them then they broke up and i hooked back up w/ the guy and we had to keep it a secret but i told someone and word got out then he was mad at me and we werent friends anymore then he forgave me and we got back together hooked up randomplay and i for some reason have liked him still and i dont know why b/c i know hes an ass and hes such a touchy guy always all over girls and sometimes i get his attention and try and hope he'll like give me a chance but now im wondering if he is worth it? i feel he isn't but i still like him and its hard..2 nights ago i got pretty drunk and was just crazy and there was this other girl w/ my group of friends and this guy was there and he was like all over this other girl..cuddling w/ her kissing i heard and all that jazz..and i got really jealous and yelled and swore at him like crazy and have basically have embarrassed myself and my friend told me all i did and its pretty crazy and now idk what this kid thinks of me...im sorry this is so long. (link)
|
Hey that guy you were describing...he is not worth it. I agree with everything Jasmine just said..forget about him. He doesn't care about you at all. There are a lot of guys out there who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. So don't worry about that loser.
Vickki
|
|
Ok so me and my best friend have been REALLY REALLY close for the past 7 or 8 months now and all of a sudden she meets this guy named brandon and he's 20 he's in the navy he's in virginia. My best friend is 16. And ever since she met him she acts like all her old friends are nothing she spends 16 hours on the phone with him and at the same time she's sitting on the computer with him too. Well they fight alot and he is jelous of everything she does. He's jelous of me and Chelsea's ex and my ex's too. Her parents are building a pool and he doenst want them to because he thinks she's going to have a bunch of guys over. He gets very violent too he likes to hit things when him and chelsea fight. And he never wants her to have fun or talk to anyone but him. Me and her cant have a girls day without him in the picture somewhere. He has her convinced that they are going to get married. Chelsea has always been the one to pick on me for losing my virginity at 16 when i was with him for 7 months. She has been with Brandon for 2 months and they've already had sex and the gross part I was sleeping in the same bed with them and they did it. I think that's messed up. I know this guy is just going to hurt her and i love her way to much but he is doing everything to make it so me and he dont talk. I havent spoken to her in 3 days because he wont let her get off the phone. So i have a feeling he's cheating because of how jelous he is. So what do i do? I already tried to tell her all of this and she just gets mad and says "Im gonna be ith him for the rest of my likfe i love him more than i've ever loved anyone and that will never change he's the only one i need" yet she runs to me (the only real friend she has left) when they fight. What do i do? (link)
|
Hi. Wow. Girl, Chelsea is just a little love-sick and confused. It is not right for her to blow you, her best friend, off. By what you told me, I don't think that her boyfriend is cheating on her. He is too jealous of everything she does and loves and he takes up all her time. My advice is that (since you have already let her know you have a problem with her boyfriend) you tell her not to call you or anything else until she gets her act together. The next time they have a fight, you wont be there and then she will feel sorry. If she says she cares about his feelings more than yours and you and her have been friends way longer, than she is taking you for granted and is not a good friend. Don't waste your time being a third wheel, either. You sound like you have a good personality and you deserve way better.
Vickki
|
|
Im soo confused, i have been going out with this boy for about 4 months now and i really really like him. But lately things have been kind of.. weird. He is best friends with my good friend as well, so they tend to tease each other and tickle each other. I know he loves me but i dont understand why she would prevoke it, or why he would? Also, for some reason i keep thinking about me good friends brother... even though me and my boyfriend are perfect for each other in every way... Help! (link)
|
Hey girl. I wouldn't worry about the relationship between your good friend and your boyfriend too much. Have your boyfriend and your good friend been doing all that before you and him started dating? You do need to watch for signals just in case something is going on between the two though, because you never know. I think you are thinking about your good friend's brother because you get kind of upset when he plays around with another girl. And you do that to secretly get him back. But if you say you and him are perfect for each other, stick it out girl!
Vickki
|
I'm all out of hairstyles. I have curly/wavy brown medium length hair with side bangs. Every morning I either A) Leave my hair down curly with bangs clipped up or B) Straighten it & leave it down and clip the bangs up
WHAT ELSE CAN I DO WITH MY HAIRR?
No I can't braid or anything speacil.
My hair looks like this, but shorter with side bangs.
http://www.yaffawigsoutlet.com/images/164WAVY%2010-6-8%20002_edited.jpg
HELP ME ! :D (link)
|
Hey, girl. My advice to you is to search around on the net. There are a lot of websites out there that can help you find a lot of different hairstyles. Or, just sit in front of the mirror one day and try some different things. I'm sure you'll find something you will like.
Vickki
|
|
ok so i babysit for this 10 month old and i have been since he was about 6 months old.. and latley ive just been having these weird feelings like i want a baby of my own.. like i look at baby clothes and stuff online and i dont know why im feeling like this i think im way to young im only 16.. but i just want to know why im having these feelings? like there really strong to. (link)
|
Hey. Wow I can totally relate, girl. I know how you feel. My advice to you is to not get pregnant even though you are having these feelings. I think you are having these feelings because the baby makes you feel something you don't feel around anyone else. Babies are really adorable and sweet, and one day you will have one of your very own.
Vickki
|
|
im on jv cheer right now. for next years team, i made jv again =[ i have my bhs, which most other jv girls dont. and im going to be a junior for next year. the ONLY junior on jv. i am captain for this year, as a sophomore. do you think its embarassing being on jv again as the only junior? do you think i have a chance at captain again since i have been on the team before and am oldest? or do coaches not like to make same captain 2 years in a row? please help =[ thanks. (link)
|
Hey girl. My advice to you is to do your very best, and then you will suceed. I'm sure your coach wouldn't have a problem with you being captain again.
Vickki
|
|
so i reeeeally like this guy alot. and in school i get SUPERnervous when i know i'm gonna see him in like 10 minutes in a break or something. i have butterflies over butterflies which makes me get a stomachace and my legs start shaking and i cant even control it and i absolutely cant concentrate on anything but him which is really bad for my grades. and also on mondays my first lesson is this extra maths lesson and my mom pays for it. so then like 15 minutes before the bell rings i get sooo nervous and cant concentrate. and i feel really bad about it cos it costs my mom a lot of money. what can i do about this problem, and how can i control myself more and just forget about hum during lessons???????????? please help!! (link)
|
Hey. Oh my goodness, when I was a sophmore, I had the same problem. I know how you feel. My advice to is to find something wrong with him. I know he isn't perfect so that should help. And If that doesn't work, tell yourself that you have to get good grades because if you ever got the chance to talk to him about your grades, he'll think you are really smart instead of a slacker. Guys like brainiacs. That way you can still think about your sweetie and keep your mom happy too.
Vickki
|
i got surgery on my knee about 2 weeks ago. i went from being active 6-7 days a week to sitting on my butt in the same position all day. (im not allowed to put weight on it) im gonna be like this for 2 months and i am very worried about gaining weight. yesterday in the morning around 9 am, i ate 2 large helpings of ice cream and i made myself not eat again until 11 that night, and i ate potatoes with vegetables. of course, i drank water in between as to not get hydrated. today i have only eaten a tangerine and a medium portion of ice cream, and that was about 6 hours ago (it's 4.30 now)
so far my stomach hasn't felt hungry, but i feel myself losing concentration on what i'm doing (which is bad, because i have a ton of make up work to do lol). also my head feels kind of heavy..it's weird. so do you think this is healthy? if not how can i eat so that i dont gain weight these next 2 months?
ty (link)
|
Hi, first of all I would like to say I'm sorry about your knee. My advice for you is to keep track of what you eat so you can eat right three times a day plus a snack and know you are eating right. Instead of not eating the entire day. Since you have a lot of time, I suggest you go to www.mypyramid.gov. You can keep track of what you eat in a fun way (fun to me at least). You wouldn't have to worry about your weight anymore.
Vickki
|
this guy and i are pretty close
like pretttttty close=]
and we both like each other and always want to hang out outside of school
but theres like nothing i can think of thats fun to do except go see a movie which we have like a billion times and we cant really talk
whats something fun we can do together?? (in public, not at each others houses, and that doesnt cost too much money.
(neither of us can drive each other yet, so wed haev to meet at the place or have our parents drive us)
anything is appreciated!!!
(link)
|
Hi, girl. My advice to you is to go out to eat with him. Don't pick a restaurant where a lot of your friends go to and hang out often. That causes distractions. Pick a restaurant that is quiet. That way you and him can talk privately and have a good time.
Vickki
|
|
