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is he worth it?
so i wrote adive awhile ago the slut comment about getting w/ two guys well one of them i've had a wierd relationship w/..he has hurt me in the past where he and another friend knew i liked him and they made out in front of me and really hurt me then my friend went out w/ them then they broke up and i hooked back up w/ the guy and we had to keep it a secret but i told someone and word got out then he was mad at me and we werent friends anymore then he forgave me and we got back together hooked up randomplay and i for some reason have liked him still and i dont know why b/c i know hes an ass and hes such a touchy guy always all over girls and sometimes i get his attention and try and hope he'll like give me a chance but now im wondering if he is worth it? i feel he isn't but i still like him and its hard..2 nights ago i got pretty drunk and was just crazy and there was this other girl w/ my group of friends and this guy was there and he was like all over this other girl..cuddling w/ her kissing i heard and all that jazz..and i got really jealous and yelled and swore at him like crazy and have basically have embarrassed myself and my friend told me all i did and its pretty crazy and now idk what this kid thinks of me...im sorry this is so long.
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Hey that guy you were describing...he is not worth it. I agree with everything Jasmine just said..forget about him. He doesn't care about you at all. There are a lot of guys out there who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. So don't worry about that loser.
Vickki
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NO, He's NOT worth it. Just paint a capital "L" on this guys forehead!
ANY guy (or girl for that matter) that wants your relationship to be a "secret" doesn't care a fig about you...he's obviously just using you for something else!
As far as what happened while you were drunk, well, when "we" overindulge in alcohol..we take the chance of getting out of control.
The best thing is to straight up apologize to those that were present (I wouldn't worry about what you said to him, he probably deserved it!) when you acted this way. Be sincere, and be sure to tell them that you didn't mean to drink that much or say the things that you said like that!
And if I were in you shoes, I would add that he deserved to be cussed out that way because he's a jerk, and a cheater, but that you would have chosen to do in a more ladylike manner..it's just that you were fed up and had too much to drink.
And..next time try to monitor your usage better...so that doesn't happen *smile*. It does take time to figure out what "your personal limit" is when drinking. It's best, especially if your the type that "loses control" when drinking to drink slowly: once you've drank too much you cannot go back, but, if your okay, you can always make yourself another drink...but drinking too much just causes you to embarrass yourself, and/or throw up *yuck*! Won't find any boyfriends that way...trust me from experience. *lol*
Get this loser out of your head, heart, and life and find someone that will cherish your attention and care!
Jasmine
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