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in the same bed
so i have a thing for my best friend sara, i told her how i felt but she doesnt like me in that way. but sometimes when we have sleep overs at my place she will sleep in the same bed with me. foot to head. i hate it because i get confused! trying not to think to much of it. but its like when she get close i get annoyed because i want to ignore her so i can move on. she slept in the same bed with me every time we have a sleep over. i have a other bed but my other friend sleeps on that. but sara likes to share my bed with me...!?
why does she do that?
fyi" f/21/bi
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Women are mean and like to torture you with what you can't have. They like the power they have over you knowing that you like them. It is a manipulation thing. I would play dirty to get back at her, but you will never win because she knows you like her and she will never like you like that. Don't hang out with her.
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I think she's got a big head & she's being a tease,when she sleeps on the same bed as you do yourself a favour and sleep somewhere else.
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Hey girl. There are two possible explanations for that. One, she is doing that because she enjoys the fact that you like her. The reason she sleeps in your bed is to tease you.
Or two, since you guys are best friends, she thinks its only appropiate to sleep in the same bed. Because if she slept in a different bed, you might think she thinks you are discusting, wouldn't you?
Vickki
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Please stop doing this to yourself.
She likes that you like her. She wants you to keep liking her because it feels good.
She has to keep you confused in order to for you to keep liking her. If she told you flat out "No, never in a million years." her fun would be over.
She wants the attention, plain and simple.
You are going to be stuck in this same misery until you learn to stop giving it to her.
Please, Please, PLEASE. For your own sake, Stop the maddness. Don't invite her to sleepovers, or insist that the sleeping arragements change.
Make her into 'just a friend' by treating her like one.
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