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Boyfriend teases bestfriend
Im soo confused, i have been going out with this boy for about 4 months now and i really really like him. But lately things have been kind of.. weird. He is best friends with my good friend as well, so they tend to tease each other and tickle each other. I know he loves me but i dont understand why she would prevoke it, or why he would? Also, for some reason i keep thinking about me good friends brother... even though me and my boyfriend are perfect for each other in every way... Help!
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Ewh. I have a similar problem.
If you've been dating for four months, then talking to your boyfriend shouldn't be an issue. You should probably let him know how you feel about the way he acts towards your friend. Or might feel more comfortable talking to your friend about it instead. If he really likes you, then his behavior is probably nothing to be worried about. He might be flirtatious by nature, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't alert him. If he responds badly and doesn't understand when you talk to him, that could be a sign that he's not the right guy.
Unless you feel like you have really strong feelings for your friend's brother, you thinking about him is probably nothing. Just because you're in a relationship with one person, doesn't mean you won't feel attracted to or even like another person. You should just feel loyal to the person you are with.
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Hey girl. I wouldn't worry about the relationship between your good friend and your boyfriend too much. Have your boyfriend and your good friend been doing all that before you and him started dating? You do need to watch for signals just in case something is going on between the two though, because you never know. I think you are thinking about your good friend's brother because you get kind of upset when he plays around with another girl. And you do that to secretly get him back. But if you say you and him are perfect for each other, stick it out girl!
Vickki
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Ok, well first of all, maybe you should confront him about it..or confront her. I was in almost this same situation before, and I made sure that my friend knew that her (what I would consider) flirting was bothering me. But, if you are now having feelings for her brother, maybe your current boyfriend isn't actually all that right for you. I mean, I understand that you guys have been dating for four months, but sometimes length of a relationship isn't all that matters, and even though things seem to be going perfect, well chances are the relationship may become too boring, and so maybe you two should think about taking time apart. I know it's a big change, but it might just be the only long-term solution for this problem.
Hope I helped :]
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