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boy confusion..
okay so i jus recently met this boy brad. so brad and i started talking. fliring non-stop. and hes taking me on a date real soon. he says he likes me already. hes a major babe. he says im the prettiest girl hes ever seen. always talks good things about me to my friends. but here comes the problem. rachel, his ex. shes a friggin bitch to be honest. they went out for 3 years. they broke up and got back together in feb. its anoyying how hes so stupid and goes back to her. i remember him telling me that i was changing is mind fast about him forgetting her. i honestly do not know why he likes her. she recently cheated on him. they broke up. then she does something to make him forgive her. and honestly it pisses me off. hes all i think about. i know me and him would be a good couple. okay hes even told my SISTER and BEST friend he likes me. YOU DONT TELL A GIRLS SISTER & BEST FRIEND YOU LIKE HER THEN GO BACK OUT WITH YOUR EX. im so confused. i really dont know if this is guna be another break up soon. but its like if me and him get serious i dont want her coming back in the picture then him leaving me for her. i really want her to just move on and get a boy. BUT he says the only reason he is with her is so she doesnt go with another guy. WOW RIGHT!? he said that to my best friend amanda. amanda and him are good friends, he tells her everything. so im realy confused. what should i do? please dont say MOVE ON. becuase i honestly have tried, its too hard. i need him in my life, more then a friend. it kills me to say this ... i think i love him. i think about him 24.7 .. talk about him all the time .. when i talk to him i smile all the time. i dont know what to do .. does he like me more then her? is he jus playing me? .. p.s this story will change daily & id realy appreciate if i could get someones screenname so you could tlel me wat to do wen he changes things up? THANKS SO MUCH!!
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Not being mean or anything, but it does seem like he may be messing around with you. I know how it feels to love somebody who is torn between two, but perhaps you should talk to him when you go on that date you said about? If it were me, i would just ask him whether he is still interested in his ex and where you are with him? I hope this helps, and sure you can talk to me about it any time ;D Tell me how things go with him! :D My screename? I'm not sure what you mean? do you mean my msn? or my advicenators name? cos if it's advicenators, click on Xxx-lulu269-xxX at the top of this message to go to my collomn, and then you can mail me ! :D
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I hate to give out advice that I know might hurt people, but it seems that this boy is hurting you a lot more than any advice I have could. I know that I don't know the whole story, but based on what I'm seeing now and past experiences, he really is just sort of playing you. If he was really into you, why would he still be messing with this other girl? He obviously still has feelings for her, and he can't really like you or be ready for a relationship with you when he is still chasing his ex. I know that it's hard to forget someone that you really like, and it seems impossible to move on once you've found a certain someone, but you need to realize that you deserve better than this. You deserve to have a relationship without turmoil, and that doesn't change everyday, and that is with a guy who is completely devoted to you and only you. If you ever want my help, you can contact me through aim: harlenquininkd, or through my email: xela13428@yahoo.com.
I hope that my advice helps, and that either this boy ditches his ex, or that you find someone who deserves you.
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Hey girl. You don't want me to tell you to move on so I'm not going to. But I am going to tell you that he is using you as a rebound and you are just setting yourself up to be hurt even if he does decide give you a chance. My advice is to wait until he is over that girl before you want to be with him. I don't think you love him, but you might do. He is leading you on and sending mixed messages by telling people you know he likes you, and then continues talking to his ex. He knows what he is doing..keeping you interested while he is still with his ex, that's all. You need to call him and ask him straight up what is going on.
my email is: vickki_paquette@yahoo.com
feel free to email me, girl.
Vickki
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