Hello, i'm Liz Udale! People call me Lu or Lulu because that's my initials (L.U)! I would love to think that i can help you with any worry you have! Don't be afraid to ask me! I won't be embarassed to answer, and i will try to be truthful, but nice at the same time! I'm only really here for advice, not like how does my ipod work or something, because i wouldn't have a clue how to fix it or anything lol :D Also my specialist subjects are just what i'm best at, but i will try to solve any questions! :D
I'm very experienced with sex questions and will always be interested!
Love, Liz xx
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I'm 13/f,and I always get told I'm a great actor and have a great singing voice.I've sung in front of big groups of people three times.And i've acted in front of thousands of people twice.I would love to do those as prefessional jobs,but I don't know how to go about doing it.How should I?And should I do it? (link)
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Hi. I'm 16 and also looking to start a performance career. However, because of the fact that my family aren't super rich, I cant afford to travel all over the country to auditions and such or afford professional acting classes. Instead, I am planning to study Drama & Theatre at sixth form (I'm from the UK) and take the college's extra curricular dance lessons on the side to improve my performing 'status'. This will make me look better to agencies and will also help me to become a better, more professional actress and performer. Also, by the time I have finished college (in two years time) I will have saved up enough money from my weekend job to be able to afford to travel for auditions and will also be old enough that if I do get a role (E.g. In London) I will be able to move there for it.
Basically, what I'm saying is that while its nice if your parents can afford this for you at your age (go for it if they can and support you!) then if you're in a position like me, then I would wait and see what you can get through school and college in the ways of qualifications.
If you only have a small amount of experience (and is it amateur or professional?) then agencies are less likely to sign you without professional acting classes/qualifications. Amateur experience doesn't count for much these days, unfortunately. Although I still recommend putting it on you Acting CV, especially if you have little or no professional experience.
Unfortunately, most people who are acting at your age will have been taking lessons while they were younger.
I say, go out and get some lessons and then start applying to agencies. Agencies cost nothing, they only charge a commission of typically 10-15% of any salary you get for any jobs you get through that agency. And never be afraid to ask your parents for support with your acting, they'll be proud of you for even trying. Oh and also, don't take any criticism or rejections to heart, it's a very harsh industry, be prepared for EVERYONE to reject you at first but be confident in your own abilities and stick at it girl!
Good Luck!! And sorry for rambling on.
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if there is blood in my poop, could that be a sign of me getting my period? (link)
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I think it's extremely important that you see a doctor if yon have blood in your poo - this will have nothing to do with your period. I'm not trying to scare you, but bloody stools are a symptom of various conditions that can all be serious; it could be bowel cancer, infections, an internal cut (which may then get infected) etc. Please go to the doctor, even if it's just to confirm you are fine :)
Hope everythings fine for you :) x
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I know I will probably get a lot of rude replies, but.. I feel it is the best for my child. I am currently going through a divorce, and of course there is a child involved. The thing is, I never wanted to have her, but because of my religion I was unable to get an abortion. During the time I've raised her, I could never love her. I did try with all my being, but I just could not love her. I am also concerned for her because of her father. I feel the reason I can't care about her is because I hate her father. I felt it may be best if I gave up on her and allowed her to live with him and his family. Is me being unable to love her a valid reason to be able to terminate my parental rights? (link)
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I understand what you are saying, but I think you need to think about the child in all of this. How would you like it if your Mum just turned around and said, actually I don't love you. And gave up on you? I believe that as her mum you have a right to her that you should stay there for her, regardless of your own feelings - thats what being a mum is about, for big issues and small issues.
Also, you said you hate the father, and that could be why? I know it'll be hard seeing bits of him in your child everyday, but you will overcome that. Look for things that remind you of you.
Just like with anyone you know (a work colleague, family friend etc.) and don't get on with, you still make the effort to be nice to their face - your child should be certainly no different to this. Make the effort to at least come across as loving.
Watch 'Remember Me' and see how upset the little girl is when she truly believes her dad doesn't like her.
Goodluck. X
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its my husbands and i anniversary but i think ima get my period how do i avoid getting my period?
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I don't advise it, but if you mess around with the pill (just the regular contraceptive) then you normally won't get a period or you will get an irregular one. Basically just miss taking it a couple days at anytime during the three weeks youre taking the pill.
The only problem is, and it happened to my friend, you won't have any contraception anymore - you'll need to wear a condom unless you want to get pregnant!
Happy Anniversary :) xx
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This is really short: I work with this great guy and we are really hitting it off, but here's the problem -- I work with him. I kind of promised myself I wouldn't date someone who I worked with just incase something didn't work out since I would still have to see him everyday. But I ALWAYS feel this way with guys, whether I work with them or not (I kind of have a wall up).
Everyone says I need to take chances to actually find love, should I? (link)
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I am going through the EXACT same thing right now - I work with this guy I like but I have a wall up. I think for me it's more a trust thing. I always anticipate that I will get hurt, because I do hurt easily.
I keep saying to myself that im not doing anything with him (and he has actually asked!!) because I work with him and that's not professional but I think that's just an excuse for me to hide behind. Don't let yourself fall into this trap too - ask yourself if working together is really the reason you are the way you are.
Another reason I'm not with this boy is that I know his past - he's a player, and quite a mean person when he wants to be. Ask yourself if the bad parts of him are outweighing the good, and if you think he could change. I suggest a pros and cons list, just make sure it's for your eyes only - you don't want to offend anyone!!
Finally, ask yourself why you have a wall up - if it's something like an ex cheated on you, ask yourself if this new guy would ever do something like that? Hope I was helpful, goodluck Hun! X
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19/f College Student
There's this guy I REALLY like. He goes to my school. He looks at me A LOT. Like, he's always starring. But, whenever we actually get to talk, he get's nervous, chokes up, and is REALLY shy. I don't know how to break the ice and get this moving along. I'm not trying to push things, but I know that he has a great personality. I just wish he would show it around me more. Any advise you can give me for the next time I see him?
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I'm not too great with guys personally, but i just wanna tell you not to hold back if you think he likes you back! I built up a great relationship with someone after i broke up with my ex boyfriend, and we ended up really liking each other - to the point everyone pretty much told us to get together. But i was all 'the girl cant ask the guy' about things and he ended up getting a girlfriend. Bummer for me, make sure you don't ruin whatever you guys have by being scared to talk or make a move like me!! Good luck hunny! xx
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My girlfriend and me have been doing it for a few weeks. I notice she is really scared of me finishing in her. It's weird because she says not to at least 2 or 3 times every time. I really kind of want to do it anyway but I think she'd just freak out all over the place over it. What should I do about this? How risky is it anyway? She seems to think she could get pregnant instantly and I keep telling her that one time isn't going to knock her up. (link)
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Are you wearin a condom? Because if you are then you won't actually cum in her - it'll all stay in the condom. If thats not what you're doing then try suggesting it to her. It may make her feel better about it. Also is she on the pill? If she is then explain to her that she cannot get pregnant on the pill whether you cum or not! Then finally I would suggest asking why she doesn't want you to. Tell her that you really want to and that it ruins it a bit for you.
Last thing, it feels good ;) good luck xxx
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20 female..
How do you get over a regret? I made a dumb decision ..I lost my virginity to this guy I thought I liked but then we kind of stopped talking and now he has a girlfriend which just really hit me hard. I didn't regret having sex with him until now ..maybe it's because he got a girlfriend ..I don't know. I've never regretted anything in my life until this. Do I just try to move on from the past? (link)
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Sweetie, loosing your virginity has been made out to be this big deal; to lots of girls (and guys) it is but I don't think that you should be worried about it. You made a decision at the time that felt right to you and you should never regret that. If you dont take risks then you'll begin to regret! You said he's got a girlfriend now, but if he didn't have a girlfriend when you two did it then theres nothing wrong there! The last thing I would say is that sure, your first time is a big deal - but it's usually painful and not as great as you expect it to be and I can almost guarantee that whenever there's a guy that you really like and you finally get together with him, it'll be just as great (and probably better)!
I've been in a similar situation, my boyfriend when I was 15 and I did it and then I broke up with him: I have a new boyfriend now who's quite a different person from my ex but whenever we do it, I'm quite glad to have some experience!
Dont worry bout it sweetie! Xxx
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My boyfriend bought a box of condoms that are marked as ultra thin or whatever. I told him I won't use them because I think they probably are more likely to break and I'm not on birth control pills so we don't have a back up protection thing or whatever. He says they aren't more likely to break than like regular condoms and doesn't want to go buy more condoms.
Are these thing condoms more likely to break or not?
Need to know (link)
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I just wanna mention that i don't overly think your boyfriend's being a 'jerk' as suggested... I just think that he should probably of explained how they are safe or should have got some more. He's not a jerk though!
Don't worry about them being too thin, like previously mentioned they have to meet the law so you'll be fine.
I'm so glad, however, to hear that i'm not the only person who worries about things like this! I'm proud that you'd rather not have sex than risk it! I'm sooo the same :) xx
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okay my cousin is having her baby in a week or two and we still dont know what to name it. We are not sure if its a boy or girl but we all think its a boy. What are good names for a boy? She loves the letter D. And N or J for a girl. Guys please help we cant think of anything! (link)
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I know you said D for boys, but for a girl i really like the name Diana - but sounded like Dee-an-ah.
Jenny?
Nelly?
Nancy?
Dakota is good for boys and girls (personally i think it's girly, but it's really nice!)
I also like Riley (boy, or girl i suppose?) and Aiden (boy).
All of the other suggestions are what i would have put, so i wont bother re-writing them!
Let me know what you choose!! xx
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okay so i was just wondering, but can you get pregnant if sperm or seman or what ever is on the loo seat or any were like that ? thanks (link)
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No, the chances are pretty much impossible. The sperm would probably just die off if they were somewhere out of a body like that - they usually need the body heat. x
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can you have sex when you are on your period? (link)
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Yes, you can have sex. It's still important to use contraception though! The only thing about having sex when your on your period is it's a bit messy, but if your ok with that, then its fine! x
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I was married back last June to my wonderful husband. We dated for a couple of years and everything was just like the perfect fairytales you hear about. I know fairytales aren't true though...
My problem is that I have no sexual desire or drive. I don't really care if we have sex or not. I'm fulfilled in all ways without sexual interaction. I don't "get horny" and I've never had ANY desire to even masturbate. We've had sex before but it's not pleasurable for me at all (it isn't painful or anyting either).
My husband is concerned as to why we never have sex. We've been married all of this time and we've had sex just a handful of times (maybe 4 times total). I know that he desires sex and I want him to be fulfilled but it's strange for me.
How do I tell my husband that I don't have sexual feelings? I need to explain to him that the reason I'm never turned-on is because I simply don't GET turned-on by anything at all, ever. He deserves to know why I never desire sex with him, I understand, but I don't know how to tell him this without sounding like a freak. It really isn't him at all, it's me.
We've had a few slight arguments about sex recently because of my disinterest. Since I never think of it, I cannot predict when he might be interested in it. It isn't that I'm not attracted to him either...I think he's a wonderful man inside and out. I just...don't care about sex? I don't want it, really? Should I see a doctor about this because surely it isn't normal, right? Help? (link)
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I think the most important thing is to remember that there are two people in a relationship - he needs to understnad how your feeling just as much as you do him. You could have sex for his sake a bit more often, but also let him know that you don't want to do it all the time. If you haven't really talked to him about it, then you should probably expect a few arguments - to him it could be saying 'You're no good in bed' 'I'm not very attracted to you' or something else that will hurt him. Just talk to him - tell him what you feel like when your having sex, but explain that it's not him personally.
Tell him your willing to try things - you never know, you might find yourself having a really good time, whatever your doing. Just whatever you tell him, make sure you let him know that you really love him.
:) x
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Well, being honest, I am 16 years old/M my girlfriend is 17/Fm. Any who we've have sex twice now both our first times. The first time we had sex she skipped her period for over month, This time shes late, or at least I think she is. Shes getting a "very light period" so she says, I'm curious if she may be pregnant being as though it took so long for her period to start. I'm not really worried at all, but she is, (She was also worried the first time we had sex.) (Yes we use condoms) But anyway she is like I said earlier getting a light period and I think that means shes not pregnant. She also says, its never been this light before? Help me out so I can put her at ease please? :( Its been around 16 days since sex, and her period skips around a lot. (link)
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I'm often late on my period, nothing to do with pregnancy. Ask her if she's on the pill? If she is then the chances of her being pregnant are very very slim (especially as you used condoms). It does sound like she's not though because of her irregular periods, but i wouldn't mind betting your still not pregnant. Ask her if she wants to go on the pill if she's not already? This can also make your periods regular, helps with period pains, and much more - not just contraception. Don't stop using condoms though!
I'm sure everythings fine :) x
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Okay so I am a 23-year-old female who has never had a guy go down on her. It isn't that there haven't been offers, I guess the thought just terrifies me!
I have all the usual fears that girls have about these things, you know like smells and tastes... things like that. I am about to get married to a man who says he wants to go down on me, but I am more terrified of that than I am of getting married!
Should I just relax and let it happen? Is it everything that they say it is? (link)
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If you want to then go for it. There's nothign to be embarrassed about - it's just natural. I agree that if you wash before hand you'll feel more comfortable about yourself; you'll have less to worry about. Possibly use a frangrance-free soap so that it's not strong (or tastes all soapy).
Just relaxing will make it easier - make sure your comfortable. I'm sure once you've done it once you'll absolutely love it!
Don't feel like you have to though - if you're marrying the guy then you have the rest of your lives to get your head around the idea and experiment!
Congrats on your wedding :) x
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Ants keep coming into my room and there doesn't seem to be anything that I can do to get them to stop!
I don't even know what they want! They just seem to come in and wander around all over the place for no apparent reason whatsoever. I would understand if I had a box of chocolates melting inside my room somewhere, but I don't. There isn't really a trail of ants, they just seem to be everywhere!
Can somebody tell me why these ants are coming into my room? I don't really like harsh poisons so if there is anything fairly tame I can use to get rid of them I would appreciate it. Thank you for any help! (link)
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Ants show up alot in my house when there's a lot of sweet foods around - is there any sugar in the carpet, or crumbs in the window seal? Cleaning up food as soon as you can and hoovering regularly will stop there being a need for them to pay you a visit.
They do tend to come in the cracks at this time of year though - if there's a hole in the wall, or small gaps then get the filled in so there's no way in for the ants.
You can also get some powder or spray that will send them away (or kill them), but use this as a last resort if you don't want to kill them. It will help a lot though - you put it outside the house so you wont get dead bodies inside!
Hope they go soon x
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It seems like I never clean my room anymore! Well, that's not entirely true I do clean it but hardly ever. It just seems to take forever! The weird part is that I am a very clean person!
Maybe somebody here can help me how can I clean my room fast? I always seem to get distracted or maybe bored and find something else to do so how am I going to get around this? I guess it takes as long as it takes, so I guess I'm really asking how can I make the time go by faster while I'm cleaning my room if that makes any sense?
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I have the exact same problem - in fact i'm meant to be tidying right now! I'm alos very clean; all my clothes are always hung up or put away as soon as their ironed, all my socks are in neat rows... but little clutter never gets moved!
To help me with tidying up i find that if i put on some of my favourite music it can motivate you more. I tend to collect all the mess in a big pile on my bed and then put it away or throw it out if that's what needs doing - i tell myself i can't go to bed tonight until it's done! Good luck tidying up! x
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15/f
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 months now. I have no idea what to get him for valentines day. Is the classic card and chocolate bad? Or anything better I can get him? I don't want to go all out and everything. Just something to show I care. Any ideas? Thanks! (link)
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Chocolate and cards are great! I'm going to get my boyfriend a funny card (but still cute, just not soppy) and fill the envelope with love hearts that have cute things written on them. Just have a look through a packet for sweet ones - like 'True Love' or 'Kiss Me'. The rubbish ones you dont want you get to eat! I'm also making some choccies with a heart shaped ice cube tray - melt chocolate, fill tray, in the fridge and eat!! I love it! Hope this helps :) x Happy Valentines!! x
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Do you have to be slender to be an actress? I am 13 and weigh 158lbs.
1. Is that FAT?
2. Do you have to be slender?
13/F
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Your height will make a lot of difference to your questions. Try working out your BMI (Body Mass Index) on this website - http://pediatrics.about.com/cs/usefultools/l/bl_bmi_calc.htm - it will use your age, gender, height and weight to tell you if you are under/over weight.
And to answer your toher question, no you dont. Most parts are based on appearances, but all roles need to be filled and for that the casting crew want fat, thin, small or tall people.
I'm also into acting, and im a little underweight. It's never stopped me so good luck with your acting :D xx
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Recently, my friend has been talking about how "hot" he thinks his teacher his. He keeps saying he fantasizes about her and he worships her. He said he likes walking past her room, he said he wants to buy the yearbook and school newsaper just to oogle and "jerk off" (masturbate) at any pictures of her in them. Worst of all, he said he wishes she was a pedophile and if she wanted to molest him he'd be all for it. Its kind of funny but its also kind of creepy to me. II always thought a teacher is someone you respect, not look at in that way. Is this normal (link)
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I'm a girl and i have never really understood how a person could 'fancy' a teacher - like you said they are someone you respect. But then i know it can happen. We're all just people. He could purely have feelings for her because of her body. He is afterall a teenage boy.
I wouldnt worry about him - just if it bothers you ask him to shut it about her ;)
xx
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