My girlfriend is scared of me cumming inside of her
Question Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 8:31 am
My girlfriend and me have been doing it for a few weeks. I notice she is really scared of me finishing in her. It's weird because she says not to at least 2 or 3 times every time. I really kind of want to do it anyway but I think she'd just freak out all over the place over it. What should I do about this? How risky is it anyway? She seems to think she could get pregnant instantly and I keep telling her that one time isn't going to knock her up.
WittyUsernameHere answered Wednesday October 27 2010, 5:55 am: Ahaha you young idiot.
"One time isn't going to knock her up" are the famous last words of alot of teenagers just as dumb as you are.
Get her on birth control if at all possible and use condoms and spermicide in the mean time. Yes, one time absolutely could get her pregnant. Women are fertile roughly two to two and a half weeks out of the month with absolutely normal cycling, and few women have absolutely normal cycling (which can mean getting pregnant during periods, early ovulation, etc etc).
Don't be so fucking stupid. Betting your futures on an off chance is retarded. Yeah, it's probably less than say a 50% chance. I guarantee you there is one other teenager in your state who will have unprotected sex the same day you will. You really want to bet that you won't be the one who's life goes to shit? [ WittyUsernameHere's advice column | Ask WittyUsernameHere A Question ]
panda7 answered Tuesday October 26 2010, 4:58 pm: "She seems to think she could get pregnant instantly and I keep telling her that one time isn't going to knock her up."
This is because she attended Health Ed. class in high school, and you apparently didn't. Trust me, it only takes one "whoopsie" to get a girl pregnant. So welcome to reality. A few minutes of pleasure for you isn't worth the lifetime of consequences you two would have to face.
It's not 100% guaranteed that she will get pregnant by you cuming in her once, but it's also not 100% guaranteed that she won't. So unless you are willing to face a baby with half of your genetics, I advice you to respect he wishes. [ panda7's advice column | Ask panda7 A Question ]
LiLReBeL6907 answered Tuesday October 26 2010, 1:50 pm: Not to be blunt, but you really have no clue about the female anatomy and how it works. LOL! One time CAN and HAS gotten a women pregnant. There are alot of factors to pregnancy, that I guess I can't expect a man to understand, but as long as she is ovulating or right before she does, which can last 7 days or longer, she can become pregnant. Not to mention, when a women ovulates can change each month depending on how regular her cycle is. Stop being so selfish about wanting to "cum in her". You need to respect her wishes and stop thinking about those last couple seconds of pleasure, and imagine the pain she would go through of 9 months of pregnancy and a lifetime with a child. Her life would be changed forever if she had a child, so her being nervous about getting pregnant is completely legitimate. And you should be understanding of that. [ LiLReBeL6907's advice column | Ask LiLReBeL6907 A Question ]
Razhie answered Tuesday October 26 2010, 1:08 pm: If you cum inside her knowing she doesn't want you too, and just surprise her by doing so, you'll be acting like an abusive asshole. That is sexual assualt.
Don't do that. It's not okay.
If you are not using condoms, she could get pregnant. In fact, it's reasonable possible she could get pregnant without your orgasm if you are not using condoms.
If she is young and healthy, she will get pregnant very, very easily. Your idea that 'One time isn't going to knock her up' is absurd. One time is all it takes, and there is no perfect way to know which one time will be the one time.
If you are using condoms, or another form of birth control, than the only thing you can do is make sure you are using them properly, and give her time. Obviously she knows what you would like, but you absolutely must wait until she is comfortable. You NEVER get to force a sex act on someone else that they are not comfortable with. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
Xxx-lulu269-xxX answered Tuesday October 26 2010, 9:03 am: Are you wearin a condom? Because if you are then you won't actually cum in her - it'll all stay in the condom. If thats not what you're doing then try suggesting it to her. It may make her feel better about it. Also is she on the pill? If she is then explain to her that she cannot get pregnant on the pill whether you cum or not! Then finally I would suggest asking why she doesn't want you to. Tell her that you really want to and that it ruins it a bit for you.
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