Hey,my name is Amanda aka Mandy,and im 16. Like most teen girls ive had my fare share of boyfriends, break ups, friend, health, and family issues. I guesse you can say ive been throught the whole teen drama. Il Try my best to give good advice!
E-mail: xox_mandy_16@hotmail.com
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Location: Oshawa, Ontario
Occupation: ...Student....
Age: 16
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20 female.
I'm just asking for people's different stories about having sex with their best friends. Was it awkward, was it fun, was it the best sex you've had, was it the worst, did it make you two closer or did it make your friendship awkward? Any insight you can give me :) (link)
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Been there, wouldnt ever go there again... i would have to say it deffinately complicates things and its probrobly best to stay "just friends".
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16/f/usa
hi i need advice coz last night me and my boyfriend 'did it' and he gave me a lick out and i gave him a bj and now he has a itchy cock and i have a itchy fanny did something bad happen coz my friend did exact same thing and nothing happened to her please give me advice. (link)
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Chances are you may have an STI... sexualy transmited infection.
Consult a DR as soon as possible.
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My gf and I just started having sex 2 months ago. She's been with 6 guys before me and all that. I can't make her cum and she said it's because my penis is too small. She wants me to make it bigger by taking the pills they sell the stores. I am only 17 and I think you have to be 18 to buy the pills. What can I do for her instead? I feel bad because she's so sure it's because my penis is too small and that's embarrassing. Shes really into having sex and if she can't get off she is really unhappy. Should I just break up with her so she can be with a guy who is bigger? I get hurt feelings because after sex every single time she goes on and on about the problem (link)
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you can NOT make your penis bigger
end of story.
dont bother with pills, theyre just money scam.
and most likely not all that great for you.
Tell your girl friend... who is obvioulsy shallow that what you see is what you get and if she dosnt like it... too bad so sad.
find a lady who treats you better and hasnt been around :)
you deserve better!
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My girlfriend and me have been doing it for a few weeks. I notice she is really scared of me finishing in her. It's weird because she says not to at least 2 or 3 times every time. I really kind of want to do it anyway but I think she'd just freak out all over the place over it. What should I do about this? How risky is it anyway? She seems to think she could get pregnant instantly and I keep telling her that one time isn't going to knock her up. (link)
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ONE TIME CAN KNOCK HER UP!!!
CAN
CAN
CAN
so, unless you to are ready to have a baby, id get her on the pill AND a condom on you
not just one or the other
BOTH
not none
BOTH
its the safest way to not be a dady :)
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My boyfriend asked me tonight if I was a virgin because he is and has never done anything at all. We've been dating on a couple weeks and I didn't know how to answer it though. This is why:
I've gave a few guys head
I've been fingered A LOT
I had anal twice
I masturbate like once a day
I never had like...sex sex, you know? Like the making babies kind LOL. You know what I mean. Does that mean I'm a virgin? (link)
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technicaly your still a virgin seeing as you have never had penis/vaginal penetration.
But i wouldnt leave your boyfriend thinking you so inocent seing as you have done quite a bit of fooling around.
I'd let him know that you've fooled around with previous guys.
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20female.
I need help with some dirty talk!
Whether its during sex or even just texting ..for some reason I can't think of anything new and exciting! (link)
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tell him what you want and how... try telling him what youd like to do with him... play out the sceen in your head and be discriptive
eg
-i love you big hard cock
-i like it deep
-i like it fast
-i like it when you kiss me _________
-i want you inside me
-i NEED you inside me
-i love it when you come on my _________
-oh baby please make me cum
-do you like it when i __________
-I want to ride to you so bad, slowly picking up speed
-i want to kiss you and tease you ever so slowly with my tounge and lousious lips
have fun now ;)
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Me and my boyfriend wanna have sex now. WE don't have any condoms and Im not on the pill but we're sooo horny for eachother. If we have sex in the shower could I still get pregnant? We talked about it and it's like the water is gonna wash away the sperm fluids and yeah then you can't really get pregnate right? Is it safe to shower w/a guy like this? (link)
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WRONG!
water will NOT `` wash it away `` even if he didnt finish inside you there are still chances of pre-cum that could also get you pregnant.
My advice, keep it in your pants until you go to the drug store or a plan parenthood / sexual health clinic to get both condoms AND birth control.
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i hooked up with this guy 2 weeks ago and we had sex. it was fun and after he asked for my number. i gave him my cell but he hasnt called me yet. he said hed make sure to call me soon. how can i tell if i was just a hook up or if hes really interested in me? he seemed like he was really wanting to be with me more than just hooking up and sex. he even kissed me before i left. but he hasnt called and that makes me think he just used me. my bff said to give him time. how much time? (link)
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Im sorry to say it seems to me as though you were just a hook up. When a guy likes you, and wants to see you again, you`d have heard from him by now.
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honestly, if a guys feeling you up, what would he think if your boobs are two different sizes. for me, ones like a small A and the other is a B . i know he should only care about your personality blahblahblah but i was just wondering the real truth about whether hell be freaked out or not, thanks! (link)
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Alot of women have uneven breasts. Men are just haapy your letting them feel your boobs a large percentage of men wont notice and if they do the most likely couldnt care.
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Ive started my period like a week ago and its gones so i stopped putting on pads... when do i know when to wear them again? Please reply asap can u email me on pretty_pink4eva@hotmail.co.uk thankyou (link)
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Some women can count out 28 days from when you started ur period and that would be around the time when you should get your next period. You'll get to learn your own menstrual cycle.
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so there is this guy i just met and we have been talking on facebook but we never really have any conversations because there is nothing to talk about. we just say whats up and tell each other what were doing and then the conversation stops.
how do i get conversations going with him??
it's also kind of hard because i only met him once so there's not much to talk about and i don't know him too well. (link)
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next time hes online ask him if he wants to play a game called 21 questions.
You could talk about fave movies, travel ideas, fave sports.. anything.
It will help you get to know each other and make convo.
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I recently discovered that my wife isn’t in love with me anymore. She hasn’t left me, but it’s come pretty close. I know that after we had our child, that the spark hasn’t been there. Our focus has become our child and our careers. I also know that I have made some mistakes in our marriage. But I do believe that I am a good man, and a good husband. She doesn’t have high hopes that we can ever get back what we used to have, but I do believe we can get through this. I love my wife more than words can describe and I just want to win her heart back. Has anyone gone through this and succeeded? Can anyone give me advice on how to make her fall back in love with me? (link)
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the way i look at it is she fell in love with you onece upon a time. Why not reflect and see what the two of you were before getting caught up in a life of children and careers. Romance her, take her out on dates, spend some alone time like you used to. Just make time for one another and see what can (if possible) be rekindled.
Hope this helps, :)
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ok this is a little wierd for me so please be open minded about this, i have a 13 year old daughter and well i need to know the age that girls start have periods i'm her father and only parent and i just don't know these things about girls, and also she said that she wanted to know what sex felt like and that someone told her that it would hurt at 13 years old, but i told her that she shouldn't think about things like that that she should wait until she got married but still she asked and it deserves an answer so i kinda need a womans advice on this because i'm clueless on either part, so please help, thanks (link)
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Girls can start their periodes any where ususaly between the age of 9 and 16. At 13 it may be a good idea that you have pads in the house and maybe have her keep some in napsack or hand bag just incase she starts. If shes not regular (once a month aka every 28-30 days, for 4-7 days) at first thats okay. She could be iregular for the 1st 12 periodes or so.
As for the sex question, I'd just explain to her that women have hymens which is a layer of skin by the cervix and it often hurts when you 1st have intercours because it tears with penetration.
Hope this helps! and Good Luck :)
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I am 15f, my boyfriend is 16m.
I am a virgin and he isn't.
I promised myself I would wait until i was 16, and my birthday is next month. i am ready to have sex but i am obviously nervous... naturaly.
My periods are not on a perfect scheduale yet, they can come every month for like 2 or 3 months, then not come again for 1 or 2 months. I have had my period for over 2 years now. This is the only thing i feel is holding me back for when i turn 16. What if i get pregnant.. i feel like i wont know right away. Please tell me if this is a huge issue or not.. i have gone to the gyno and talked to them and they said just to track it and that it is okay for now.... but i am just not sure about sex with it like that. (link)
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Yes not knowing when your period is comming could be nerve raking. Have you considered going on birth contol? Not only will it regulate your period it will prevent pregnancy.
Hope this helps!
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My friend and I were talking about old fad games and toys we used to play (marbles, pogs, pokemon cards, nanos, etc.)
There was one thing we COULD NOT remember the name of to save the life of us! I googled it, tried looking for them on ebay, nothing.
They were little plastic monsters. They came in all different shapes and had different faces. There were a bunch of them and they came in different colors as well. They could fit in the palm of your hand, they were pretty small. You would get a bunch of them and compete against people and to do so (I didn't play so don't quote me on this) and you would like throw them down and depending on how they landed, you would get points for them (& perhaps keep the other guys monster?). They were somewhat big when I was in jr. high. These didn't last too long, it was something that left as fast as they came. I didn't play but I had like 3 that once came in a ceral box. None of us could remember what they were called lol... (link)
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could they be Crazy Bones????
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Im 15 F and a virgin. lol i was wondering, how bad do you think it would be if i had sex with a guy if im dating him for about 4 months.. Also what if this guy was my first boyfriend and first kiss ? (link)
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Perhaps you are rushing things. 4 months isnt the longest period of time. And it being that its your first boyfriends and first kiss. Maybe you should consider waiting. Your still yet 15. Theres plenty of to have sex. Just give it a bit more time. think it over. who knows you could regret it.
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Alright.
im a senior this year and i already know what im studying and where im going...and im actually getting a soccer scholarship. I have wanted this so bad for so long! It is a real dream come true for me!
But im scared out of my mind!!!!!!!
because its in santa cruz, which is 5 hours away from where i live now.
Im so scared to leave everything behind...and be on my own with no one...and leaving my friends is going to be so hard!
so any advice, or anyone been in this situation before...?
Thanks so much!!! (link)
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Hey, your not the only one freaking out. I was doing the same last year up until this fall. I, like you decided to go away for schooling. Im not quite 5 hours away but still far enough and living on my own.
Im not gonna surgar coat it for you. Leaving everyine behind is gonna be tough, real tough at first. And the first few days are like a total wake up call on whats realy going on. BUT before you know it your meeting a ton of new people who are going through the exact same thing as you are. As for your friends back at home, they too are going to be experienceing new things just like you. To keep in touch i recomend
A) MSN and Facebook. sounds silly but it works. *I have a freind who in school in LONDON, ENGLAND.* facebook is the best when it comes to time change lol.
B) get yourself an awsome phone plan and put all your friends down o your contract.
C) HOLIDAYS! almost everyone comes home on holidays. make good use of that time.
D) Road trips! Visit your friends and have them visit you... makes the weekends fly by before you have a study week or something.
As for being on your own, just remember, no one has deserted you. There all there behind you and always just a phone call away. sometimes hearing a friends voice is enough to feel at home.
Hope ive helped, enjoy yourself next year!
I know i am now. :D
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a few months ago, i got an eye stye on my right eye near my tearduct.
yesterday, i felt severe pain on my left eye and i found i had gotten another stye on my left eye! IT'S SO SMALL but it hurts SO MUCH. i'm putting some ointment on it so it should heal within the next few days.
i have a few questions about eye styes
1.) i seem to be getting them more frequently (i know it's only the second time, but i've never had an eye stye before my first one!). i do use both eyeliner and mascara. what should i do to be more sanitary about it? i know you're supposed to throw away mascara every three months, but i use it until it's finished. i don't actually count how many months i've been using it. should i start? and i sharpen my eyeliner often so that the bateria is removed, so why do i keep getting styes? i'm assuming it's from my make-up cause i don't have diabetes, etc.
2.) in addition to what steps i can take to avoid getting styes in the first place, are they contagious? like if i touch my eye and then touch someone's hand and they touch their eye, can they get one or is the likelihood very small? i know it's caused from a certain type of bacteria so ...
3.) should i avoid certain things? is it okay to touch my eye when i put on the medication or should i use a qtip?
4.) because the stye is RIGHT under my upperlashline, almost on the pink part, i end up getting some of the ointment (just normal drugstore eye stye medicine) into my eye. if i want the stye to go away, i have to use the medicine, but it gets in my eye and the box says "for external use only." what should i do? should i try using less medicine or... ? (link)
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I used to get styes quite often... one things for shure if you end up with any eye infection you should throw out your eye makeup...(eye liner and mascara NOT eye shadow)
As for you medication i wouldnt want it in my eye... try putting less on a Qtip and then apply it.
OR
This is an old remedy i've always used. Take a gold ring and rub in on the exterior of the stye.
It's always worked for me.
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we are about to go on vacation and my twelve year old got her period not for the first time. can she wear a tampon and if so what kind
marie (link)
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There isnt a problem with her using tampons. She might be uncomfterble. But to make her the most comfterble i'd get her the "teen slim fit". They are slimmer for easyer insertion. That or those with plastic aplicators.
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I know everything happens for a reason but i honestly am so confused about this...
There was this guy last year named CJ and he was dating someone named Julia and i didnt want to start any drama but i really liked him and from what i could tell and what i heard he like me too. He always flirted with me and stared at me. At his graduation, he stared at me. Not his girlfriend. And because of myself not wanting any drama i kept my feelings private.
-Is this wrong???
Now all i do is think about what a chance i had, and why did I have to screw it up?? Saying i regret it is an understatement. But sometimes i see him driving down my street. Every time he sees me he just stops and stares, even when he is with her. But he is leaving for college in august and is going to have a new life.
-What should i do??? (link)
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I've gone through this many times. For some reason i find my self beeing the nice girl, like you.
But i also find myself wondering what if i spoke up?
My advice, dont let yourself wonder. Tell him how you feel, but in a "take it or leave it" way. You dont want to force him into anything or make things hard for him seeing as he already has a gf. Just let your feelings be known. Like getting it off you chest. Then the rest is up to him. If he acts on it good. If not, there's someone better out there waiting for ya.
Hope this helps. Good luck.
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