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regrets....
I know everything happens for a reason but i honestly am so confused about this...
There was this guy last year named CJ and he was dating someone named Julia and i didnt want to start any drama but i really liked him and from what i could tell and what i heard he like me too. He always flirted with me and stared at me. At his graduation, he stared at me. Not his girlfriend. And because of myself not wanting any drama i kept my feelings private.
-Is this wrong???
Now all i do is think about what a chance i had, and why did I have to screw it up?? Saying i regret it is an understatement. But sometimes i see him driving down my street. Every time he sees me he just stops and stares, even when he is with her. But he is leaving for college in august and is going to have a new life.
-What should i do???
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I've gone through this many times. For some reason i find my self beeing the nice girl, like you.
But i also find myself wondering what if i spoke up?
My advice, dont let yourself wonder. Tell him how you feel, but in a "take it or leave it" way. You dont want to force him into anything or make things hard for him seeing as he already has a gf. Just let your feelings be known. Like getting it off you chest. Then the rest is up to him. If he acts on it good. If not, there's someone better out there waiting for ya.
Hope this helps. Good luck.
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Your feelings are perfectly normal, but I just want to congratulate you for not ruining the relationship with his girlfriend. Although he may be rumored to like you, he's still with his girlfriend. I know that may hurt, but you definitely did the right thing.
Sometimes keeping your feelings in is the worst thing you can do, but in this situation, what you did was absolutely right, and there are so many people in your situation that feel they need to just butt in and try to change his mind about his girlfriend. Thank you for having self-control.
I know sometimes you can feel like you made a huge mistake [I've been in your position, except I'm a guy, and it was a girl and another guy], but you'll realize eventually that what you did was right.
Try just getting over him, or maybe try going places where other guys or so that you can get your mind off of him. Just know that I think you did the right thing =].
--Jack
(16/m)
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