My gf and I just started having sex 2 months ago. She's been with 6 guys before me and all that. I can't make her cum and she said it's because my penis is too small. She wants me to make it bigger by taking the pills they sell the stores. I am only 17 and I think you have to be 18 to buy the pills. What can I do for her instead? I feel bad because she's so sure it's because my penis is too small and that's embarrassing. Shes really into having sex and if she can't get off she is really unhappy. Should I just break up with her so she can be with a guy who is bigger? I get hurt feelings because after sex every single time she goes on and on about the problem
StephDragonfly answered Sunday October 24 2010, 3:06 pm: If she really loves you she wouldn't care on your penis size. Don't go changing just for her. If someone really loves another they wouldn't want them to change.
arthurswife answered Friday October 22 2010, 12:00 am: Move on. Your body is fine exactly as it is. The size of your penis is not the reason she doesn't orgasm. I'm certain of it. My ex-husband was very small & we never had a single problem. You don't deserve a girl who's so mean and inconsiderate. You deserve much better. [ arthurswife's advice column | Ask arthurswife A Question ]
LiLReBeL6907 answered Thursday October 21 2010, 3:53 pm: Your girlfriend is being immature and extremely insensitive. She doesn't need a bigger penis to be satisfied. In all honesty, she probably has never orgasmed before anyway, because most girls don't even know how to get themselves comfortable enough let alone understanding what parts of sex get them aroused enough to even cum. Have you ever heard the phrase, "Size doesn't matter, it's the motion of the ocean.." That applies to this situation. Different positions can make sex one thousand times better. Try doggy style, but have her cross her legs and have her arms all the way flat. This will tighten things up for her and you and allow you to go deeper, which is generally what will make a woman orgasm. Also, be sure to try and choose positions that you can rub her clitoris at the same time while having sex. Most woman need both penetration and stimulation of their clit.
Now off the subject of sex, I suggest that you have a talk with your girlfriend and tell her you do not appreciate her saying those rude comments all the time. Explain that you are not small and would appreciate it if she stops over exaggerating and sounding like a rude bitch. Ask her how she would feel if you told her you thought her vagina was loose from the 6 penises she had before yours, and maybe that is the reason she thinks you are small. I am pretty sure if you said that, she would be VERY offended. So tell your girlfriend to get some tact and apologize and then maybe you will let her have some of your new sex moves in bed :) Hope I helped! [ LiLReBeL6907's advice column | Ask LiLReBeL6907 A Question ]
Razhie answered Thursday October 21 2010, 3:12 pm: The pills don't work anyways. Nothing will make your penis larger.
If something actually worked, every man would be running around with foot long dicks - nothing does. The only possible option is very expensive, and very dangerous, surgery.
Your girlfriend is being an asshole. She might also just be young and inexperienced, however, she her behaviour is vile. Imagine how she would feel if you went on about her needing to get breast enlargement surgery each time you had sex? How disappointed you were with the size of her breasts? How you needed her to change her body to satisfy you?
She would call you a misogynistic asshole if you did that. And she’d be right.
Her behaviour right now is just as bad.
For that reason, you should consider dumping her. Her selfish disregard for your feelings in the way she has chosen to bring up this issue with you (plus the fact she was daft enough to think those pills actually work) make her rather lousy girlfriend.
If you don’t want to dump her, and want to help her achieve orgasm with you – buy a large dildo and incorporate it into your sexual activities to help her reach orgasm. It’ll be cheaper in the long run than those damn pills, and it has a chance of actually working. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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