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Last Update: October 15, 2006
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alright so me and my friend are having a black and white dance for our sweet 16. we invited our whole grade and are sophmores and i was looking for any suggestions to make it really fun im wicked nervous..i know all kids dont like dances too. pllllease any suggestions lemme know! thank you alot. (link)
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hey! i just went to a birthday party that was a dance. alright since some kids especially guys dont like to dance make sure you have like a lounging area with couches, sofas, or even just chairs so people can sit and talk. Make sure there are refreshments. And as for all the dance stuff... hire a GOOD dj and make sure he knows what type of music that you want so the music doesn't suck.
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Alright i am a 15 year old girl. im pregnant. i have a great boyfriend. i dont get along with my dad or little brother. my mom and dad are getting a divorce. i choice to move with my mom. and my little brother choice to live with my dad. just recently i started cutting again. i no its not good and i talked to my boyfriend about it and ive been trying so hard to stop but there is so much drama. i just cry and i want to do it so bad. but i can i promised my boyfriend i wouldnt. my mom and i are moving out the end of the mnth. so i wont have to put up with my brother or my dad any more. but thats to long i cry everyday! and i want to cut everytime i cry or get angry. i need help!! and im crying out for help. i dont want to go talk to someone. i have a fear of talking to someone i dont know! so hopefully you guys can help me! (link)
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Wow. Please don't cut. It doesn't solve anything, I know. If you feel like it's all too much every once in a while take a pillow and yell in it (only for a few seconds lol don't want to kill any brain cells) You know when you are getting out for the summer at school? It seems so long away in like april. And now when you look back on it it's like wow I'm glad all that waiting is over. Well if you are leaving at the end of the month, it's not that long. Really. Think of the people who have to wait years for something to happen. Something extremely important. Just take it day by day. You'll be out soon so if you cut now you are going to regret it. Listen to your boyfriend, just don't do it. And you don't want to talk to someone you don't know... well try talking to your mom if you can. And also... go to the library or something or if you have any magazines or books that you can read that'd be good. Just stay busy and keep your mind of things.
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Im 15/f and i just had a really bad breakout on my face and i have my birthday party tomorrow and i need to get rid of this asap! Please give me tips! i have a little bit of acne treatment and ive been using that but i was wondering if theres something better or a homemade something?!?thanks! (link)
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Okay first drink water! From now until your birthday party tomorrow. Lots.
Number 2: Get a bowl of hot water, put your face right above it and cover your head with a towel. (instead of that you could put a hot washcloth on your face). This will open your pores.
Number 3: Do that for about 5 minutes then get FACEWASH and wash your face. Pat dry.
Number 4: If you have any spot treatment for acne like Neutrogena rapid clear or anything, dab a little on the breakout.
Wait about 2 or 3 minutes to go to the next step.
Number 5: Get a washcloth really cold with water, but then squeeze MOST of the water out to where it won't get your face that wet. Then put it over your face for a few minutes to close your pores.
There you are done! Trust me this will help (maybe not get rid of because it's extremely difficult to completely get rid of a zit in a day) than any other method. It will make it much smaller. So go do it now, the sooner the better!
Oh and don't forget to wash your face with facewash before bed and when you wake up tomorrow morning!
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OK first off i've never been on a date before. Tomarrow, I will be going on my first date and I'm extreamly nervous. I have no idea what to do. We're going to a movie and than out to eat. I hate eating in front of people, so I'm horrified. Please tell me what you do on these types of dates. For example, during the movie do you just sit there and watch it? Or what? I'm so confused, and nervous it's crazy. So please help! Also, what are some things I can do to be less nervous? I need to know before later Sunday night! PLEASE HELP!
♥ Lisa (link)
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Okay first off relax!!
Just remember people go on dates ALL THE TIME.
Before you go to the movie & out to eat just breathe in and out 5 times.
& Remember he's probably nervous too!! So just relax and breathe.
This is what I do. You know how usually you are so much more comfortable around a guy you don't like or you wouldn't consider dating? Or even your girl friends? Talk and act like that. Your guy will like that you seem so confident and comfortable that he will start to be too! Then it will be much more fun. Don't be thinking of what you SHOULD do the whole time... just let it flow.
During the movie just sit there like you do when you go to a movie with your friends! If there are seat dividers and they can come up he might put it up or he might not.
Let me tell you I was so nervous when I went on my first date. It was actually more of a double date (so that's a good idea if it's possible). But then I was like wait... he likes me for me. Like the me that I am online and on the phone, not for some nervous uncomfortable me that I am acting like right now. Remember that! So anyway... my guy put up the seat divider then put his arm around me and we were sort of cuddling. And don't worry like if your stomach growls or something like that (that you'd THINK would be the end of the world) just laugh or something and play it off. But don't be expecting any cuddling or anything. Just go with it.
Then at dinner you'll get there and order drinks and have to talk etc. After you eat your main meal, go to the bathroom, check your teeth and maybe put in a mint and reapply lipgloss. Then come back and enjoy the rest of your date!
If you have any more questions that I can help with just ask.
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what are the bases in relationships? ive got a pretty good idea but im not exactly sure...thanks (link)
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This is my opinion and most people I know opinions on what "the bases" are...
1. kissing/making out
2. fingering/hand job/ guy feeling girl up
3. blow job/eating out
4. sex
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I have this swimming party on July 24. I weigh 147, 5'1, so im chunkey, or "fat". Well, I want a flat tummy. I will feel way much better. You know. Well this is what i have to loose weight, (my idea)
100 crunches, 100 calf phrases with 10 ilb. weights. go up by 5 every day.
eat only grilled chicken & fish. Salad, fruit, and drink water ONLY. Walk 15 minuetes after every meal. Smaller porportions. Skip exercise for only one day, that day only eat fruits & veggies.
So, does everyone think this is a fine plan? Thanks!
-Also. I want it to be REALLY flat. You know? soo, i meen im willing to do anything extra, i just dont have a bike and i CANNOT run. Thanks! (link)
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Everything sounds really good but just 2 things I'd like to add.
You should have at least a small glass of maybe orange juice in the morning. Water is great but this small glass of orange juice get the right nutrients you need without so many calories because its only a small glass.
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Okay, just to start things off, in the youth group I am in, there is absolutely NO DATING allowed. [and don't worry, it makes sense]
Well, i was talking on AIM last night to one of really good friends and his cousin in a chat room. They invited me to a Flyleaf concert at the end of the month, just out of the blue. I don't know, it just would kind of seem awkward...But I reallllllly wanna go because they are both my friends and such. I think that some of the girls in our youth group might be jealous [they are good looking].
and, I think my mom will be a little freaked out if I said, "Hey, can I go with two 16-17 year old guys to a flyleaf concert?"
My mom doesn't know either of them, but she knows that I can trust them and all.
I don't know what to do at all. Help?
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Okay, first do you have any friends like either your age or preferably someone a little older maybe from school or youth group, that could go with you?
Your mom would probably be ALOT more comfortable with you going if you do invite someone else.
Also, if you want to go you should ask your mom now or at least in the next few days.
Make sure to tell her you will call once while you are there and once when you are leaving, etc. And actually do it. It will help her feel good about knowing where you are, who you are with, and when the concert is over.
Then if she does say yes make sure you don't do anything to get grounded or such from now until then.
p.s. It would help alot if your mom meets these 2 guys or at least one of them.
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