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OK first off i've never been on a date before. Tomarrow, I will be going on my first date and I'm extreamly nervous. I have no idea what to do. We're going to a movie and than out to eat. I hate eating in front of people, so I'm horrified. Please tell me what you do on these types of dates. For example, during the movie do you just sit there and watch it? Or what? I'm so confused, and nervous it's crazy. So please help! Also, what are some things I can do to be less nervous? I need to know before later Sunday night! PLEASE HELP!
♥ Lisa
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do what comes natural. After all this is just a date. Pretend while eating you are eating with a family member, or close friend. Keep the conversation toward him. A guy or loves it when a guy or girl ask him/her questions about her self and doesn't spend all evening talking about her/him self.
At the movies, sit and watch TV. If he/her want to hold your hand let them and don't make a big deal out of it. After all your date is probably just as nervous as you are. If you want to watch the movie, once in a while let your date know how much you're enjoying the movie, or tell him, this pop corn is really good, thanks for eating it for me.
What you need to do before your date, is spend time getting your nails done, your outfit pressed and ready, and everything lined up for the date. This will take the nervousness of the date away.
Just remember, the date is for fun. Enjoy yourself and remember, keep concentrated on your date.
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OK so first off I'm assuming you like him cause you are reli nervous lol..Don't be Just be yourself in the movie if the arm thing is up leave it tehre if he pulls in to hold you let him and lean your head on his shoulder but if you feel uncomfortable don't hesitate to back off a littlee. IF he goes in to kiss you kiss back if that's what you feel. Don't liek make yourself do anythign you don't want to. Also, just watch the movie i know it's ahrd to do but just don't be nervous hoepfully it'll turn out great let me know what happens. O yah and also when your eating just get soemthing that's not messy lol, liek eat slow and nice and talk a lot. Well dont talk him away but tell him about yourself and get a good conversation.!
Let me know how it goes
Good luck
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alright. during the movie: if he puts his arm around you rest your head on his shoulder. if he stares into your eyes stare into his and if you think its the right time( you will know when the time is right) lean in for a kiss. during diner keep the conversation going you dont want an akward silence. eat slow ifyou feel embarssed. good luck and have fun
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woahh. i was just as nervous the first time i was going on a real date, but just relax, because that makes it so much easier than if youre all stressed over what to do. just watch the movie. when youre out to eat dont worry about it. hes not gonna care about the way you eat. im sure everythings gonna be fine. have a great time =]
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Okay first off relax!!
Just remember people go on dates ALL THE TIME.
Before you go to the movie & out to eat just breathe in and out 5 times.
& Remember he's probably nervous too!! So just relax and breathe.
This is what I do. You know how usually you are so much more comfortable around a guy you don't like or you wouldn't consider dating? Or even your girl friends? Talk and act like that. Your guy will like that you seem so confident and comfortable that he will start to be too! Then it will be much more fun. Don't be thinking of what you SHOULD do the whole time... just let it flow.
During the movie just sit there like you do when you go to a movie with your friends! If there are seat dividers and they can come up he might put it up or he might not.
Let me tell you I was so nervous when I went on my first date. It was actually more of a double date (so that's a good idea if it's possible). But then I was like wait... he likes me for me. Like the me that I am online and on the phone, not for some nervous uncomfortable me that I am acting like right now. Remember that! So anyway... my guy put up the seat divider then put his arm around me and we were sort of cuddling. And don't worry like if your stomach growls or something like that (that you'd THINK would be the end of the world) just laugh or something and play it off. But don't be expecting any cuddling or anything. Just go with it.
Then at dinner you'll get there and order drinks and have to talk etc. After you eat your main meal, go to the bathroom, check your teeth and maybe put in a mint and reapply lipgloss. Then come back and enjoy the rest of your date!
If you have any more questions that I can help with just ask.
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Aw, well I can understand your nervousness but you have to remember, he's just a guy. He's probably just as nervous as you, or once was. So just try to be yourself and if you feel confident enough, just tell him this is your first date and you are nervous and hopefully he'll try to calm you and tell you not to worry. And during the movie, if it's a scary movie, you can act scared and grabbed his hand or you can wait for him to make a move.
Good luck hun!
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it's normal to be nervous but try ot to be... it'll be fun! at the movie, just kinda watch it and he might put his arm around you or something. if you like him and want to, put your head on his shoulder. Don't cross or hide your hands... he might hold you hand during the movie. (guys... they're all different!) at dinner just get something to eat. don't be scared. don't just get a salad either... that might end up with green in your teeth. just put on a cute outfit (don't think too hard). before the movie, go to the bathroom. while you wash your hands, put dots of cold water on your neck to help you cool off... not a lot just a little. smile! dont be nervous! <3
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