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Last Update: August 9, 2006
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well i am moving to a new school. i mean these girls are beautiful and very mature. i made 3 new friends over AIM but they seem to be real sexually active. like they grind with boys, make out, and one girl even sticks her hand down boys pants! but i have never even kissed a boy and there are parties and stuff and i dont think i know how to grind or kiss or anything. I find it kind of gross but, i want to fit in. wat do i do? (link)
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hey,
If you follow your heart it will lead the way don't do something that don't want to do and if they pressure you and keep bothering you or try to make you do something that you don't want to do then they are not really your friends
giver19
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So i noticed a couple weeks ago that i have alot of black heads on my chin. theyre not that noticible unless you are face to face with me. but i was wondering what are some cheap black head remover stuff that you can get at walmart or somewhere cheap? thanks. (link)
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hey,
i think you should go to wal-mart and get a thing called clearasil it is in pads and creama and gel but whatever you get i really hope it works cause i have some pads and it works for me like it is only $3.45 plus tax well you can try it works for me so i hope you take my advice!
giver19
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Ok I have ProActiv and i used it and my face got really dried out so i stopped using the toner and cut down on the amount of cleanser. Now the acne is like still there and it has almost been a week and i dont think its getting slightly better. is this normal? (link)
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hey,
i am a girl but i use clearisil you can get it at wal-mart for $3:45 plus tax but if you use it 3 times a day you really can see your face clearing up well i hope you take my advice
giver19
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My friend and I are creative people and we want to start our own clothing line (but we don't know how to sew or much of anything)...any advice? I was thinking maybe we could start an accessory line instead but I don't know. Any advice is appreciated. (link)
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hey,
Maybe if any of your family members knows how to sew maybe you should ask them to teach you and your friend or if none of your family can then try making some money and take some sewing classing or fashion classes...well I hope you take my advice
giver19
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My chihuahua is about to have puppies! I get to keep one of the puppies but I don't know what to name it. She's a white chihuahua and the father is a black chihuahua, if that helps any. A list of names for a chihuahua puppy would be great. Thanks! (link)
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hey,
i am a chihuahua lover myself i have 3 of my own and i didn't name mine till after they were born so you should to but you should also not only call it by a name cause of it's looks but also it's persanilty well good luck on naming your chihuahua but please take my advice.
giver19
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I am virgin, and i Have not come on my period for nearly 2 months. The boy didnt ejacuate cum on his finger and he didnt have pre-cum.. people said it is normal to miss some months of menstruation as i only started my period in june.. CAn i get pregnant? (link)
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Don't believe it. As long as you are messing around and fld is leaking even a pin head amount, yes you can be pregnant. It only takes a microscopic dot of semen to get one pregnant. Don't believe you can not. Better buy a pregnancy test kit to be sure. Always...get your boyfriend to wear a condom and if you are going to be sexually active, have birth controls filled by your MD....please. You don't need a baby yet, or get sexually transmitted diseases.
giver19
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my boyfreind are thinking about sex. and we know we are both ready for it so please dont say anything along the lines of "you might not be ready".
but anyways. we are going to be safe about it. but my boyfreind doesnt want to buy condoms, he just thinks its embarssing. and isnt that supposed to be the guys job?
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here's the deal, if you and your boyfriend don't use condoms, are you prepared for a baby, transmitted diseases that could prevent you from having a baby when you are ready.
If your boyfriend won't buy them, you must so you will be safe. Also, you can go to the public health or your school nurse and tell her you need condoms to be protected. In this case, you must step in. A guy never wants to wear condoms but believe me, a couple seconds of passion won't be worth a baby, or STD's or HIV. Protect yourself, no one else will. By the way, if you are going to be sexually active at all, get on birth control pills. Good luck.
giver19
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hey i am on a diet and have been doing fine but im very big on dessert. i cut down my normal ice cream at night and insteas of all those calories have something lighter. but now im ready to cut down dessert altogether. any tips? its very difficult as i am used to having something sweet before bed. help if you can thank youu. (link)
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first off, try to have a lot of fruit and veggies in your house, and not junk food, and snacks. Try to drink at least 8 glasses of water a day, and if you get hungry after 7:30pm don't eat or drink. To get off the sweet kick, if you absolutely have to have something sweet, eat an apple, pear, peace, or banana. It will curb your sweet too and be healthy too. Also, exercise,and enjoy life to the fullest. giver19
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I don't know if this goes here.....but...oh well.
I have been getting occasional cramps (not stomach area cramps, lower abdomen cramps) and discharge. My breasts are slightly tender, but nothing major, and im starting to grow more, i think. Im almost to 100 pounds, and i will confess i have been a little moody...are these signs that my period will start soon?
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well, since I was 16 when I started I can tell you, your breasts will swell, hurt, and be tender. You also may have cramps, and discharge, but the clue is pubic hair on your privates, and moodiness. Don't rush the period thing. Once you start you will have it till you are 55 or 60 years of age. Then, hot flashes start. So enjoy the non-period state. If you are developing, rest assured you will start so enough. It's a wonderful thing to know you are developing into a young woman, but please ask an femaleadult friend or your mom to also explain what that really means..to you. Best of luck
giver19
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OK first off i've never been on a date before. Tomarrow, I will be going on my first date and I'm extreamly nervous. I have no idea what to do. We're going to a movie and than out to eat. I hate eating in front of people, so I'm horrified. Please tell me what you do on these types of dates. For example, during the movie do you just sit there and watch it? Or what? I'm so confused, and nervous it's crazy. So please help! Also, what are some things I can do to be less nervous? I need to know before later Sunday night! PLEASE HELP!
♥ Lisa (link)
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do what comes natural. After all this is just a date. Pretend while eating you are eating with a family member, or close friend. Keep the conversation toward him. A guy or loves it when a guy or girl ask him/her questions about her self and doesn't spend all evening talking about her/him self.
At the movies, sit and watch TV. If he/her want to hold your hand let them and don't make a big deal out of it. After all your date is probably just as nervous as you are. If you want to watch the movie, once in a while let your date know how much you're enjoying the movie, or tell him, this pop corn is really good, thanks for eating it for me.
What you need to do before your date, is spend time getting your nails done, your outfit pressed and ready, and everything lined up for the date. This will take the nervousness of the date away.
Just remember, the date is for fun. Enjoy yourself and remember, keep concentrated on your date.
giver19
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My 17 year old is 5'6" and weighs over 200 lbs.
She also has a very large bust and upper body--such as abdominal fat. I have tried everything to get her to diet & exercise, and our house is full of nutritional food. She has been to the Dr for this also, but chooses not to take an active roll in her health.
She says she is happy the way she is. She buys expensive clothes, but they do not fit right. For example today she had a sports bra on and she was litterly hanging out--and it was more noticable because she was wearing a skin tight t-shirt. She also wears low wasted pants, and either her crack is showing or she is walking around hanging on to her pants.
I have tried to take her shopping, I have bought her clothes, I have showed her pictures of plus size models, but she refuses to have any part of it. I have never intended to hurt her feelings, but the bottom line is I hate to have people gawking and making fun of her. She says "I don't care what they think, why do you?" I have tried to tell her she will get along in the working world better if she dresses to suit her body style, but of course she doesn't listen.
Any suggestions on how to help her either lose weight or dress better? (link)
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i think you should take all the junk food and junk food sources out of the house and restore it with heathly food and with nothing else in the house but healtly food she can't eat nothing but heathly food and she will eventuly loose weight
giver19
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hey,
i have a question that has been stumping me for a while now and i was hoping you all could possibly help me on my lil situation. so here is the question
when you loose a friend who was really close to you a friend that called you a name and you called them one as in nicknames and it seems that they have forgotten you but you know you will never forget them and you will do everything to try to have the realtionship even if it is a friend that is a minor
how would you come about trying to regain a friendship of the past???
like how would you attempt to get a friendship with a person of the past. even if you mesed up in the past but have changed now. how can you try to find somthing in that person for them to notice you???
if you can answer anything on this then please do. any help is greatfully thanked.
you are all amazing people and god bless to you all.
monn
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Dear Monn,
I would be brave and go and talk or call this friend of the past and tell them that you have changed and you are not the same person that you used to be.
giver19
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