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I am the worst shopper! I can spend like 2 hours at 1 store then end up buying like 2-3 items. I just cant prioritize. When we're shopping for pants, I get a few pants, and then get some shirts too. Ughhh, also I went shopping for ripped jeans and army pants... where can I find good ones? Delias has good jeans overall.. the ones at A&E suck and i dunno about the others. also, where are some good (not too expensive. not like american eagle, with their clearances cause the stuff on sale probably isnt that good looking anyway. and the clothes dont really look that great) clothes overall in general for a 13 year old girl? My sense of style is like.. cute, preppy, sporty, sexy, laid-back, trendy i guess, sophisticated, not sluttyish but not like.. boring, and not too weird but not TOO mainstream, etc. Thanks alot!
So basically, can you help me with my shopping problem? I mean, I love to shop and all, but when I do this I end up not getting much because we waste time and my mom doesn't want to buy the stuff I pick out. Because they are expensive and not clearance (the clearance stuff wasnt good!) and like.. full priced. apparently i have expensive taste, but all i really want is something good to wear. at school, at parties, at home, etc. also, do you think wearing victoria's secret pink is too much for my age? i love those pants with "pink" on the butt but i dunno, haha. also, are they expensive, too? and do you still get that cute little pink dog with your purchase? XD also, with suggestions on a good store for me. oh yeah, I live in New Jersey, if that helps.
For more info, the stores I shop at now are Kohls, Walmart (I dislike it, but sometimes we gotta get clothes from there), Mandees, A&E (well I only got a pair of pants), Delias... thats pretty much it, for clothing. Oh, and JC Penny, but we cant go there often cause the store is faraway.
ooh and another thing. I'm african, so I have a big butt. Its hard sometimes to find good jeans because they can fit at the bottom then get a little funky at the top. even with a belt.. I only have like 1 pair of jeans that fit perfectly. also, any good (cheap) shoe stores? other than payless, hah.
1 more thing.. (-talks too much-) my sister has large feet, size 13 to be exact, i feel bad for her. where can she get some good shoes other than ordering them?
thanks thanks again and sorry it was really long but it had to be specific, heh.
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well i live in newyork. but i dont know. but if theres a mall near you, go in like G+G or.. deff. 2cute, im white & supposivly have a huge ass & my waist is a 1. and i have to get like 3`s or 5`s cause my "behind" wont fit & it gets all funky at the top also. but 2cute & g+G`s pants work perfect, and so does, demo & epic. but their kind of expensive like 20 maybe 30 dollers. but the stretchy pants [ like taxi pants from joyce leslies ] work perfect. or like sweatpants. not like sweat sweat pants but like the girl kinda pants, i dont know if you understand but if you were like in my mind i guess you`d understand, but also theres payhalfs i think in jersey. but i dont know. but yea im sorry i tried to help =)
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Hi I am 20 soon to be 21 in Feb. and I am in love with a younger guy who lives in a diffrent state. He use to live in the same state as me but he had to go back to his hometown due to some family matters and we dated for 1 1/2 yr I also moved to his home town and took my son who is 3yrs old but is not his and my son and him got along very well my son called him daddy. Needless to say I had to move back home and (ifound out that i was prego and latter on i lost the baby due to a fight we got in) due 2my sons real father because he wanted to spend time with him and we keep a good strong relationship and yes it was hard not getting to see him all the time, and being in diffrent states but i went to see him every weekend and sometimes it would just be for a couple of hours and then i would have to leave so i could get back and go to work. I was spending time with a friend and ended up moving in with her because she needed help she lost her child and was having a hard time with it. Well I went a month with out talking to my boyfriend due to her not having a phone so when i moved out of the house with her and went back home i called him and he told me that he had moved on whith another girl and when he told me that it broke my heart and i told him what happen and told him that i loved him and ask him why and he told me that he thought i moved on and i told him no i didn't. He told me that he was sorry and that he did not know what to do well as time pasted we talked on the phone but it was behind his girlfriends back he did not want her to know that he was talking to me because she would get mad at him and latter on he brought his girlfriend up and spent time with some of his family and i went over to see him and his girlfriend knew that i was comming over she said that it was ok and so when i got there she was mad well she acted like a 2yr old even tho she is 20yrs, and he told me that he was sorry for the way she was acting and i said it was ok and told him that i would leave and he told me it was ok so me and him talked for 5hrs and then as i was leaving he walked me to my car and we keep on talking then we kissed and he told me that he wished we were back together and i said that i did too. well as i was getting in the car his girlfriend came out side and told him that he needed to get back in the house and that i needed to leave well i did not say anything because i did not want to get in a fight so i just told him that i would talk to him latter on and he said ok needless to say they are still together and he still talks to me behind her back and the other day he came to see me and she did not know it he drove 4hrs to see me and we only spent 30mins talking and he had to leave. he called me on his way home and told me that he would leave his girlfriend and move bace so he could be with me if i wanted him to and i told him that i did. I really love him and would spend the rest of my life with him but i dont know what to do please help me and let me know what you would do. I know he does love me so he said. thank you for takeing the time to read this.
thank you alot
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i say follow your heart all the way, fuck that bitch hes with now. she isnt anything if you 2 really love eachother like you explained you did then there should be no problem at all, i would get back with him, & forgive him for trying to move on, because i would of thought the same if my boyfriend just stopped talking to me for a month, and you can deffinatly tell if he drove 4 hours to see you for 30 minutes, yeah, thats insane. but i would prob. do it to if i was in love.. but yes anyways, follow your heart, & good luck i wish the best for both of youu
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This isn't your average "AM I PREGNANT?" help question; it wouldn't necessarily be a bad thing if I was. Anyways, on to the question. I missed a few of my birth control pills and followed the instructions on what to do. The first test after missing my period turned out negative, and then the next one positive. I thought that was odd, so i took another and it was positive too. Then about 30 minutes later or so, i started my period. Could this just be a false pregnancy reading? Once again, it's not something that I'm stressing over. (link)
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go to a clinic & get a test its more accurate then a home bought test & it doesnt mistakes ever. and you could possibly be pregnant because my mom had her period every months for 3 months when she was pregnant with me. anythings possible. good luck & i hope i helped
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Ok, im 13/f. I have a huge crush on my best guy friend. I trust him with everything except for I can't tell him that I like him. He thinks I like this one guy (all girls like him so its pretty normal) but I just can't stand it! So many people say we flirt all the time though I dont really notice it. He always smiles at me and when we talk we do like shove eachother for fun or playfully punch eachother's arm when we say something stupid. For some reason all I can think about is him lately and its killing me! I CAN'T tell him I like him, and lately he won't tell me who he likes. He used to say he was confused and usually would end up asking me who I like and I wouldnt reply. When I finnally wanted him to stop asking him that's when I told him I like the "everyone guy". He then told me he's sure he doesn't like the girl he was confused about. Soo many people say i like him and he likes me but I can't believe it. I think he likes my best girl friend (lets call her Susan). He and every other guy likes to flirt with Susan all the time. She is my best friend but it's getting annoying. There's also the fact shes really shallow and dumb becasue she cant tell you what 2+2 is and she says if a guy doesnt have nice shoes theres no reason to like him. I really want to tell him I like him but im scared he'll hate me if I do. What should I do?
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he likes you, believe me.. ive been through that before too & i agree with the person under me, that either right a letter expressing how you feel, or an e-mail .. its the easiest way to really express how you feel. pretend your wrighting it just to get it off your chest & act like your not going to give it to him .. but do give it to him, or you could have " susan " tell him or give little hints or something. because obiviously you 2 flirt constantly from what your describing . and kids your age arent on that " player " b/s .. that everyone else is on right now. and it shows that he really does care about you & like you and whatever, but yeahh i hope all goess well =)
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Hello, I`m 14 years old && 5 months pregnant, && my boyfriend is 15. && I haven`t seen him for over 2 weeks && I`m starting to get worried I talk to him once && awhile but we always argue but then we make up by the end && we always fight because hes always fucked up && doesn`t get or understand what i`m sayin. But for the past frew weeks hes been hanging out with all these`s girls && I`ve been hearing that they`ve been doing stuff together I talked to him about it lastnight && finally he wasn`t fucked up he had a good excuse && told me it was all bullshit. But how do I know if he`s faithful or not. (link)
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to the first person who said give the baby up . you cant have an abortion after 3 months & i know because im 2 1/2 mo. preg. and getting one and putting it up for adoption would be heartbreaking to the fullest.
an im 14 too and im 2 1/2 i know how it feels once the kid that got me pregnant he hasnt talked to me . he says its someone elses when it aint and i dont know my situation is all fucked up too . but seriously talk to your boyfriend .. cause thats really really fucked up your only 14 seriously we shouldnt even really be having sex but oh well ;] lol but yeah . cause leaving you alone with a baby is hard . believe me i live with my little cousin & ive basically been rasing him since sept. 05 when my uncle died and my autn whent to rehab & he was 1 1/2 ish and it was hard - and its even harder when their younger like first born because everyone stuck me babysitting and its not fun and i doubt you dont live with your parents/gardians .. and their going to be helping you . so that means when your like 15 /16 & want to get a job you prob. cant because you have to take care of the baby. so just explain everything to him about money & diapers .. diapers arent cheap . neither is forumla or any of that stuff . so explain to him that if he isnt going to be there for you he HAS TO pay for child support or do something , i dont know if this is anything to help you but im just trying to help out cause im scared & your further then me and like i cant take the pains now .. but yeah if you need someone to talk to talk to me on AIM - thal0ve0fyalife
xoxo good luck
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I am 15/m and want to be a pro wrestler. Not Olympic or college, I mean the stuff on tv (yes I know its mostly fake). I need to get stronger but I dont know how to other than lifting weights. Is there anything I can get at a place like GNC that is not harmfull for someone my age and that is LEGAL? Any other things I can do? (link)
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other ways of getting stronger without weights i say is .. yoga - yeah i know gay but it works it helps you get muscles that lifting weights wont & it stretches your muscles so you get taller & blahblahblah have more room to get more muscles & stuff . also kardio kickboxing and karate and all that helps too . i hope i helpedd xox
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hey everyone well im a 15/f and i need some help.. well ok my ipod isn't updating it says it doesn't have enough room to put more songs on.. and its the ipod nano which is 2 gygabytes and it can hold 500 songs and mines can't even hold like 390 songs!! what should i do? (link)
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go to best buy or any big eletronic store . and tell them whats rong with it .. they might have to send it out to go get fixed .. there might be something rong on the inside of it .. thats what happend to mine but it was a mini .. if not try to return it if you have the warrenty thhingg - hope i helped xo
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does anyone know where i can buy really cheap clothing (thats still cute), jewlery and handbags. i want to buy a wholeeee lot of stuff...so i am looking for really cheap things...maybe buying things in bulk kind of things
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marshals & tj max .
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I have a problem with my cat eating wet food. She won't eat it, but she will lick the juice/sauce up from it. However she has no problem eating dry food. She'll eat 1/2 cup of it within a day. But I want to know why she will not eat her wet food. I have tried just every kind of wet food out there. But nothing worked. What could I do to solve this or fix this? Or should I just forget it and leave her with just dry food?
But just a note I really want her to eat wet food because it's nutritious and has important ingredients in there that aren't contained in dry food.
And because of this my cat is pretty skinny -- only three pounds.
If it helps, my cat is approximately 7 months old (older kitten).
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if you want your cat to eat the wet food i say you dump the juice from the wet food into the dry food &/or mix the dry & wet food together .. hope i helpedd xox casper
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Me and my boyfriend got in a huge fight over nothing last night. We got eachother so pissed off we decided to break up. I miss him so much. I want him to know that I'm sorry for what I did. The problem is, I don't know what to say to him!! Also, he blocked me on aim, he won't answer my calls, and he won't answer me on myspace. How can I talk to him? We really loved eachother. He already has another girl friend, but I know he's just trying to make me jealous with her. What do I do?? (link)
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i say .. you go to his house with a movie he wants too see or something like that .. and be like we need to talk & blahblahblah explain how you feel & hear him out also cause guys need to be heard out sometimes too . cause both of your feelings matter in the situation . and just explain how you really care about him & you dont want to loose him .. & then you guys can watch the movie & cuddle up & whatever you guys do ;] have funn .. i hope i helpedd xoox much love casper
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soo i have a boy friend but i have this guy friend who just came back from california and i really like him alot.. but i dont kno what to do i love my boyfriend but i want to be with my friend from cali to... (link)
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im in the same situation as you . but one isnt my boyfriend were just like " together " for over a year & a half & me & jose just started hangin out alot recently & i started to catch feelings for him . and it all really matters on who you trust more .. and who you think wont break your heart and i hope you havnt been going out with your boyfriend for a long time just incase you want to break up with him for the kid that just came back from cali . cause it would make him think he was just a backup & cause lots & lots of drama and fighting & shit .. so just make sure you think about who would treat you right & wont fuck you over in the long run and stuff .. i hope i helped a little .. xox casper
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hi. i am a 15/f. tomorrow i am going to a party for a guy that i have never met but i want to make a good impression so that him and his friends like me. im going with my best friend who is friends with all of them, its just that i have never met them before. i want them to like me really bad so that sometime in the future they might like me as more than a friend. i dont know how to make a good first impression. can anyone give me some tips? (link)
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well just be yourself first off .. wear clothes that cover you but not like you`ll die cause the heat cover you. so they dont get the rong impression of like slut or something cause thats a huge no no cause then they`d pretend to like you & try to use you & all that drama sh**. don talk out of your ass about random stuff .. believe me i was only on like 3 hours of sleep not even & i was talkin wayy out of my ass n now some girl wants to fight me lol .. and if anything wait till someone aproches you just stay with your friend & let her introduce you . and just be open to basically anything no matter how ugly they are. just try to be as sweet as can be & respect everyone and uhmm im sure that would do it ? i hope i helped xox much love casper
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Everytime I get a boyfriend I blow it. I hate drama but I always seem to start it. Like my boyfriend of a month I started a fight and told him I don't want to kiss him. He thought I didn't love him so we broke up. I really wanted to kiss him but I'm always starting drama. And now my new boyfriend he said I gotta go "love you" and I didn't say anything back. I really do love him but I don't know why I LIKE making people mad at me. And it ALWAYS leads to a break up. I get boys so pissed off. What can I do so I start acting mature and not start fights with my boyfriends and stop always making them mad? (link)
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haha i do the same thing .. its hard but we usualy dont break up.. they try to make me not be mad at them or start shit like they`ll think they did something so they try to make up for it .. idk im the same way you are .. i do it cause i want the attention though. and like the person under me .. you have to think of their feelings first if you dont want it to lead to breakups - becase you have to think if your treating them like shit and starting with them constantly they feel like wtf are they doing in the relationship . just treat them the way you wanna be treated & it should be all good . and think before you speak if you know its gunna hurt them or make them think differently of you then DONT say it cause they`ll break up with you. dont try to seem jealous, needy, bitchy, clingy & selfish thats a huge turn off to guys especially clingy girls that wont let them go out with the guys or whatever. i hope i helped .. xox much lovee - casper
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Hello, I have two hickies from my boyfriend and I really really don't want my parents to see them, I try putting on make up but can totally see I'm wearing a bunch of make up and you can still kinda see the hickes!! Any tip to make them go away faster?? (link)
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i herd that you put a spoon in the freezer, wait till it gets like really cold hold it on ur neck for 30 seconds .. then take a comb. & comb it for 30 seconds & keep repeting it till the spoon isnt cold ne more - hope i helped
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me and my boyfriend had sex about 3 months ago and i still havnt got my period.I have pains in my stomach really bad and bad headaches.My boyfriend didnt have a condem on him so we took a risk.I'm 15 and i can get a pregnancy test without my mom knowing.She doesnt know i even had sex.What should i do????????????????????
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uhm im sorry to break it to you .. but your pregnant . thats what i have .. you get really bad pains in the lower area like by were your bladder would be .. you get nausous/stomach ach [ spelling ] after you eat .. and yeah you can buy prengnancy tests without your mom knowing. and if it comes out positive go to a planned parent hood & make an appointment for a P-CAP [ insurences so you dont have to pay for the abortion witch costs about 500$ ] & then make an appointment for an abortion. if you want you can talk to me on aim ; THAl0VE0FYAliFE. cause im having my abortion on the 22nd of this month & ill tell you everything you need to no =] i hope i helped
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you act like you know everything which you do not. i don't think you should be answering or giving advice to people. (link)
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i dont think you should be messaging me . uhkay thanx byeeeee
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When your pregnant, do you still have periods? What about if you breastfeed? (link)
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no you dont have your period when your pregnant . lets say if you were pregnant for 3 months .. and didnt get your period for 3 months and then randomly just got one .. its a miscarrige [ spelling yeah i know ] and after you have the baby you get your period when your time of the month would of came .. you dont have your period right after when you have the baby cause when the baby comes out basically all the periods you missed come out .. to make it easier .. lets say you had the baby on the 3rd of december. and you used to get your period on the 21st youd get it on the 21st . yeah hopeflly i helped & idk anything about breastfeeding
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My friend told me he started smoking weed so I want to know how bad it is. Is smoking weed considered a drug? And is it worse then ciggarettes? And is it addictive? Any more info about it would be appreciated! (link)
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alright dont listen to all these people .. i used to smoke weed everyday .. constantly its not addictive .. i smoked it for over a year & a half .. and not its not as bad as ciggarettes . yes its a drug but also PEOPLE WHO HAVE CANCER SMOKE IT TO GET BETTER THE GOV. PRESCRIBES IT TO PEOPLE THAT HAVE CANCER SO uh durr its not that bad . believe me .. some of the highs can make you upset and depends on how upset or mad you are if your really mad you can have an aggressive high .. if your really depressed you`ll be really quite and think the hole tim your high and if your happy your just gunna chill & have fun . so all these people sayin its really bad for you & everything needs to fuckin shut up . if you never smoked it before why are you commenting on it . she wants to know more info about it and obiously all you guys can say is its bad . its not really that bad . so just shut the fuck up. and hun if you smoke weed . get visine that eye drop stuff . cause your eyes are gunna get red - and dont get caught by the cops with it or they`ll bring you home in a cop car & take your weed .
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