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IN LOVE AND DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO
Hi I am 20 soon to be 21 in Feb. and I am in love with a younger guy who lives in a diffrent state. He use to live in the same state as me but he had to go back to his hometown due to some family matters and we dated for 1 1/2 yr I also moved to his home town and took my son who is 3yrs old but is not his and my son and him got along very well my son called him daddy. Needless to say I had to move back home and (ifound out that i was prego and latter on i lost the baby due to a fight we got in) due 2my sons real father because he wanted to spend time with him and we keep a good strong relationship and yes it was hard not getting to see him all the time, and being in diffrent states but i went to see him every weekend and sometimes it would just be for a couple of hours and then i would have to leave so i could get back and go to work. I was spending time with a friend and ended up moving in with her because she needed help she lost her child and was having a hard time with it. Well I went a month with out talking to my boyfriend due to her not having a phone so when i moved out of the house with her and went back home i called him and he told me that he had moved on whith another girl and when he told me that it broke my heart and i told him what happen and told him that i loved him and ask him why and he told me that he thought i moved on and i told him no i didn't. He told me that he was sorry and that he did not know what to do well as time pasted we talked on the phone but it was behind his girlfriends back he did not want her to know that he was talking to me because she would get mad at him and latter on he brought his girlfriend up and spent time with some of his family and i went over to see him and his girlfriend knew that i was comming over she said that it was ok and so when i got there she was mad well she acted like a 2yr old even tho she is 20yrs, and he told me that he was sorry for the way she was acting and i said it was ok and told him that i would leave and he told me it was ok so me and him talked for 5hrs and then as i was leaving he walked me to my car and we keep on talking then we kissed and he told me that he wished we were back together and i said that i did too. well as i was getting in the car his girlfriend came out side and told him that he needed to get back in the house and that i needed to leave well i did not say anything because i did not want to get in a fight so i just told him that i would talk to him latter on and he said ok needless to say they are still together and he still talks to me behind her back and the other day he came to see me and she did not know it he drove 4hrs to see me and we only spent 30mins talking and he had to leave. he called me on his way home and told me that he would leave his girlfriend and move bace so he could be with me if i wanted him to and i told him that i did. I really love him and would spend the rest of my life with him but i dont know what to do please help me and let me know what you would do. I know he does love me so he said. thank you for takeing the time to read this.
thank you alot
nikki
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i say follow your heart all the way, fuck that bitch hes with now. she isnt anything if you 2 really love eachother like you explained you did then there should be no problem at all, i would get back with him, & forgive him for trying to move on, because i would of thought the same if my boyfriend just stopped talking to me for a month, and you can deffinatly tell if he drove 4 hours to see you for 30 minutes, yeah, thats insane. but i would prob. do it to if i was in love.. but yes anyways, follow your heart, & good luck i wish the best for both of youu <3 xox`s
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